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32 signs that indicates your partner will cheat or may be cheating



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Infidelity occurs on a regular basis. The majority of individuals in relationships around the world have both been cheated on or has cheated on their respective spouse. Maybe you’re new to the dating/relationship business and due to that, you’re not aware of what people do to their companions.

These 32 signs are compiled to help you note if your partner wants to cheat on you or might be cheating. So buckle up and allow us to dive into this challenge and hopefully, the recommendations that are written right here will assist you and the people around you. If your partner has any of the habits enumerated below then be well aware that your beloved spouse is certainly guilty in the court of infidelity.

32 signs that indicates your partner will cheat or may be cheating

1. You’re Spending Less And Less Time Together:
This one is attached to the primary signs. If there’s an emotional distance between you and your partner, then there’s a sturdy chance that you and your partner may be spending less and much less time together. Your spouse may need to spend more time alone by themselves or with their pals and relatives and you would probably understand that they no more have an interest in you which is for one, not a good sign.

Try to work matters out. Try asking your partner why they no longer want to spend sufficient time with you. If matters persist,(Your partner spending less time with you, or prefers making excuses) for a prolonged time period then your relationship is headed towards the rabbit hole. There are steps you can take which could salvage the situation, however, the possibility of saving the relationship grows much less each day.

2. Emotional Distance or emotional withdrawal:
Imagine an issue come up while you are dating – perhaps you had trouble or controversy you couldn’t overcome. After that issue which includes verbal exchange, your man or woman went lukewarm and also you don’t sense them as near as you used to. Try speaking on the sensed rift perhaps you can discover why your spouse acts in the manner he or she does.

If they do not want to do so (or they simply feel remote and uninterested) then start to suspect the worst. This is probably one of these signs that suggest that your partner is intending to or is already cheating on you. A lot of couples have stated that prior to their partner cheating on them, there was an emotional distance between them. If that is going on don’t immediately conclude that your relationship is over. Just hang on a little bit to see what happens. If both of you are willing to work it out then talk about it and possibly resolve it

3. They’re taking Better Care Of Their Appearance:
Imagine that during the duration of your relationship your spouse didn’t shave regularly, perhaps he did so once per week or maybe once in weeks. They had a few extra weights on them and didn’t take baths on a regular basis. Suddenly they started taking good care of themselves, shaving every day and even shopping for nice fragrances and perfumes. Their general appearance starts to improve tremendously and frequently and perhaps they even reduce the number of their extra weight by going to the gym or starting a weight loss plan.

Who are they attempting to seduce? Who are they attempting to impress by their appearance? You can probably ask yourself. That man or woman may not be you, simply due to the fact that they have been with you all these years, therefore they are trying to impress the next cute birdie. This is totally an indication that your partner is attempting to electrify someone else apart from yourself. It’s really well worth maintaining your eyes open if that is going on, so you’re properly ready for what’s next. Brace yourself whether or not to live with or take a walk if you’re eventually cheated on with that person.

4. They’re Keeping Secrets from You
Suddenly you realize that your partner is withholding secrets and pretending to be lying by omission to you, the usual partner with whom you shared your most intimate moments or even secrets which you never shared with any other person. When you ask them something they may be reluctant to provide an honest answer to your question.

They do a lot of things secretively like for instance they disappear and don’t let you know where they are and when you ask them where they have been, they answer in a furtive manner. This isn’t an excellent signal at all. It indicates that your partner now no longer trusts you, no longer feels accountable to you and doesn’t feel the need any longer to confide in you. It might mean that they may be possibly having an affair with another man or woman who has caught their eyes and now considers you a thing of the past. It shouldn’t surprise you when you discover that they have another person in their life.

5. They Encourage You To Spend More Time With Your Friends
This is one of the sneakiest of all “honey why don’t you watch the game at the bar while having a bottle of beer? I really need the solitude to meditate” says a cheating girlfriend who wants to desperately commit adultery, “Baby when last did you go the spa? I think I should drop you off while heading to the Wesley’s for golfing” says a boyfriend or husband who will make a 360 at the next corner after dropping you off to speed home and have a quickie with the nanny.

Unlike the former factors (they prefer to spend time outdoors without you and are very secretive about things they do while they are no longer with you), they inspire you to spend greater time together along with your pals and relatives. Under that pretense, they go out and have all of the time to spend with whomever they want. This signal in particular is disingenuous due to the fact that they seem like they are the good guys in the relationship.

This trick may be quite difficult to spot in the beginning because you would think that your partner has honest intentions. Yet, as time on, you begin to notice the pattern. In the real sense, they are just stylishly trying to keep you out of the way of their untoward behavior and business with another. The simplest manner to forestall that is to be open and confront them about this behavior.

6. They Won’t Tell You Much About Their Day:
Imagine this situation where your partner is coming back from work a lot late than usual; they are no longer telling you where they were perhaps, where they have been(or with whom).

In fact, it is now none of your business. Most times they would want to stay out with their friends later than usual and you’d be asking yourself what on God’s green earth is going on. The fact is that there’s something happening which you’re now no longer aware of. Be prepared for the day it will all unravel. This signal is an indication that an end might be insight for your relationship.

The man or woman whom you have been dating for years is in the blue surprisingly performing unusually and is enjoying doing things that don’t include you. It suggests that your partner no longer has an interest in you and that they need to spend time with different people which makes them end up being secretive about their dealings. There is a total possibility that they may be cheating on you, so don’t be amazed in case you hear it from other people.

7. They Don’t Share As Much with You As They Used To
Remember the time you used to talk about your likes and dislikes or to make plans for watching TV shows together? Events and activities which are supposed to Foster your bond with each other.. Now, that doesn’t happen anymore as they no longer want to share their time or space with you. Now there’s little or no communication happening. They keep issues to themselves and don’t want to talk to you about what is going on in their lives with you. Furthermore, they appear as though they couldn’t care any less what’s going on with you. They simply don’t care about what’s happening in your life, career, education, and business and they don’t care if you understand what’s happening in theirs equally. It is as simple as that. If your relationship gets to this point where there is literally no atom of bond or connection anymore, It hitherto suggests that there’s now no longer any chemistry between the 2 of you.

8. They Care Less About You
Let’s say you come under the weather and you are down with sickness no matter how minor or major it is, You ask your spouse to assist you with some little tasks you couldn’t perform due to the state of your health however they outrightly refuse or even complain and make no efforts to provide this assistance or get someone to do it for you, then I might be a signal that they are no longer interested in that relationship with you.

It is also the same if the partner is the one who fell sick. If you tend to them and show them every care necessary when they are sick or under the weather and they don’t even appreciate what you’re doing for them and it even appears as though they are looking for ways to quarrel or argue with you even as you tend to them.

This attitude on their part is indicative that they may now no longer be fascinated by the idea of being in a relationship with you, they don’t even care about what happens to you.

Evidently, they may be acting like they are dating you out of pity. If your partner acts in this manner, you then definitely need to end the relationship as nothing good will pop out of it. You can in no way expect faithfulness from such a person.

9. They’re a lot Meaner than They Used to Be
This part is very significant from the preceding signs listed above if out of the blue, your spouse starts being meaner and angrier at you for not just reason. Even the smallest mistake or statement annoys them. Nothing you ever do is appealing to them.

The dinner you made in no way tastes good, “it’s too salty, it’s too spicy, there is no seasoning, blah blah blah”, and anything you say is disregarded as being stupid. In a few instances, minor arguments may escalate, your partner may begin yelling at you at the slightest provocation or worse raise a hand on you and inflict bodily harm. According to psychologists, this sort of conduct is because of abusive relationships someone has suffered in their formative years. If a person behaves like this, there is a high possibility that the mother and father they grew up with have been violent towards them during their formative years. It is a vicious cycle. In later years of their lives, they may not be able to control it, and they might end up being aggressive and abusive towards their partners. Sometimes those in this type of abusive relationship find it difficult to leave the relationship because they believe in the power of “love.”

10. They’re Nicer Than They Used to Be

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When your partner appears nicer than usual; they open the door for you, ask how you have been doing lately, and begin to routinely check up on you, it might be an indication that they are trying to use this to cover up their infidelity. In the event that this has been their usual habit from the get-go of your relationship with them, then there is no need to be suspicious of their actions.

However if all of a sudden, they all at once begin to be nicer to you then your suspicion meter should be way high. You want to inquire to discover what inspired this transformation of theirs. That’s why you ought to be very observant and vigilant to take note of what happens in your relationship. It is no longer news to you how partners had been cheated on despite the fact that they didn’t anticipate it from them. Being overly courteous is a fantastic tactic to divert the eye far away from them in order to reduce the slightest of you discovering their wayward and wandering activities behind you.

11. They Seem To Have New Circle Of Friends
If your partner starts hanging out with folks you aren’t acquainted with you need to be worried. And in the case where they cut you out of their clique of friends just get ready for a major heartbreak.

When you try to ask them about who their new friends are they tend to come up with a lie or are reluctant to tell you who they are. We are not saying that it is wrong to make new friends and socialize with new people but when they start being secretive about it please be very suspicious, to mention the least. If your curiosity gets at them, an argument might ensue and nasty words may be hurled at you in a bid to get you off the issue.

At this point, there is nothing you could possibly do so just lay back and wait for more concrete proof about their nefarious cheating activities to come to the limelight or become more obvious. If they still refuse to introduce you to their friends, then there is a high possibility that they are cheating on you. There have been several stories of how some partners started hanging out with new friends and in a little space of time, their relationships crashed.

12. They’re unnecessarily Jealous
Most times we tend to say that jealousy is not a good attribute of a good partner. But folks who say this sometimes, find themselves being jealous about one thing or the other.

Jealousy is a human emotion and everybody feels it to an extent. Sometimes it could even produce fantastic results. Unless you’re absolutely emotionless, you ought to have felt the edge of jealousy in some unspecified time in your life. There is proof that jealousy exists even in animals.  There is a golden rule on this subject, its goes “if a partner is always jealous at the slightest, then there are chances he might be suspecting you of cheating and he/she too will cheat out of jealousy”. So, in case your spouse out of the blue starts being jealous it would suggest that he/she is making plans to cheat on you. It may appear abstract but it is the reality.

13. Opting Out Of Plans with Your Friends or Family
Your loving partner who once upon a time loved hanging out with your family members especially your parents, grandparents and friends suddenly starts finding excuses to evade them at weekends. You might be wondering why they might be acting that way and you might find it difficult to place your finger on it.

This might unsuspectingly go on for a while all because you want them to connect and familiarize with your family and friends. This might not make sense to you but it does to them. Sometimes it is because they are no longer interested in the relationship but they are yet to muster up the courage to break up with you, so they might be acting up that way to provoke you to getting tired of the relationship and breaking up with them which would be a lot easier and favourable to them. They might start viewing spending time with your relative as a waste of time and misplaced priority. Spending time with you does not appeal to them anymore. Instead, they would alternatively spend time with the man or woman they may be cheating on you with.

14. They never tell you where they’re going to be
When your partner or spouse starts skipping details of where they went to or were they are going to, just be aware that your relationship is on the red alert blinking to its crash. It isn’t important to understand your partner’s whereabouts always, However in the event that they don’t let you know and when you ask them, you get a vibe that they may be hiding something from you. On the surface, it may not appear like a big deal however, they may be hiding something from you which they don’t want you to be aware of. These matters move hand in hand. They are no longer telling you where they were in order for you not to suspect them or get a clue to where they were and with whom they were with. In this case it is very natural if you start assuming that they are cheating on you. Remember they wouldn’t be secretive about their whereabout if they were gambling at a friend’s basement, smoking weed or doing any other bad thing which is not cheating, but would surely get you upset.

15. Always Wanting To Know Where You’re Going to Be

This one is closely associated with jealousy and the preceding paragraph (where they may now no longer be telling you their whereabouts). This may not suggest that they may be cheating on you in the event that they act like this. Sometimes it would suggest that they may be very insecure as a person, which will make them assume that you might be cheating on them when you are not with them. If you’re in this type of relationship it only gets worse with time. The simplest ideal alternative is to stop the connection. On the other hand, when most partners start pestering you about their whereabouts, it might be for their own benefits, to avoid running into you in the course of their cheating adventures. So if they keep on being persistent about knowing your whereabouts it will also be an information to them to be able to track your timeline, know when you will be gone and when you will be back.

16. You Catch Them Point Blank In A Lie
The building block of any relationship is honesty. If your partner begins lying about small issues and questions, please be well prepared because the whole relationship will be built on series of lies, they say small lies begets bigger lies.

First, they lie about where they were during the weekends, who they were hanging out with. Before you realize it each word they say is a lie. You no longer understand them anymore because all they do is tell tons of lies to you. It might surprise you to know that a number of relationships started off with a lie. Women with the help of beauty make ups lie about their true beauty while men lie about their true wealth. Sometimes those lies does keep up for a little while, however it has never in any way ended nicely. Be cautious of lies, you catch them with one lie and gradually you discover that your lovely sweet tongued lover has an entire host of lies you aren’t aware of.

17. They Get Real Busy With Work
Imagine that your partner now spends lengthy and really absurd hours at work, handling a so called cutting edge project or some other things they do. That is probably the case with a few jobs, but when all of a sudden they start claiming to be spending extra hours at work without telling you, you’ve got an excellent reason to believe that it might be more than just work that is causing them to come home late every night when you are already asleep. Trust me when I say this; they always have a partner in crime, a very loyal buddy who will always make an excellent alibi.

18. Unhappiness
When you start to reminisce on the good old days when you guys were still drunk in love, the little thing you guys used to do that always ignited the sparks and fireworks. You don’t need to confess to yourself that it isn’t epic any more, both partner are no longer pleased to be in the each other’s presence. The silence and the unsaid words becomes deafening. Thus this is an indication that your relationship is not heading in the right direction. Do not be in a relationship simply because of being in a relationship.

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19. Everything Seems To Lead To A Fight
Each and every conversation, action, activity tend to always lead to yelling, exchanging of words, and even physical fights. Those disagreements are increasingly getting worse and more intense that you find it difficult to find a common ground with your partner. Even when there is no reason to fight or argue the simplest things such as not doing the dishes always end up in a fight. This isn’t a good sign in any relationship, and sometimes these issues always escalate into inflicting bodily harm on the involved partners. Domestic violence is not a joke, many people of lost their lives to it. It’s better to leave an abusive relationship than die in it. It is important to know that domestic violence is not always one-sided. It could go either ways.

20. They’re Secretive With Their Phone
You are now noticing that your partner is always texting frequently than before and above all they go to the toilet with their phones. Trust me, you will always notice them smiling and grinning ear to ear while chatting away.

Eventually the curiosity will start eating you up and you attempt to have a peep at what they are doing on the internet. This secrecy appears evidently suspicious to you and for an excellent purpose. If you try to ask them who they are chatting with that is making them to smile sheepishly, they would always come up with a lie. They always play the “respect my privacy card” to sway you from further querying them, but please be careful of partners that are always secretive about their dealings.

21. Too Many Friends Of The Opposite Sex
It is normal for people to have friends of the opposite sex, I mean everybody does. But sometimes it is very concerning when, a male has a lot of female friends than male friends and he keeps on making more female friends adding them to the harem.

Same goes for the ladies who has got a lot more male friends than the female ones. The purpose for that is really statistical, it makes it easy for them to sometimes score a one off, like a one night stand because they are very certain the secret will never leak out of the harem. It is normal to have friends of the opposite sex but it isn’t normal if they keep introducing you to plenty new friends of the opposite sex. It may be a colleague at work or their gym instructor or some random person. Even though they may not have intentions to cheat, but it is safe that one thing or the order might lead to a compromising situation.

23. They Never Initiate Love Making
When it comes to making love, they are never the first to initiate it and when it is initiated they are reluctant to participate, their general performance is very poor. So if your partner behaves like this in bed, then there must be a reason.

When a partner is seeking for a break up from their current relationship for reason best known to them, they tend to start by depriving their partner of sex. In some occasions when your partner is sleeping with some other man or woman, you might observe that they are no longer attracted to you like they used to be.

24. They Avoid Eye Contact
They say an eye contact says a lot more than the lips, we see a lot of emotions through the eye, and only the eye can betray our emotions. When you communicate with your boyfriend or girlfriend (or partner) and you observe that they are awfully absent minded, don’t make gestures and they speak on the same tune. In addition they avoid eye contact, not because they are shy but because they are afraid of what you might see in their eyes. It is universally regarded that the eyes are the gates to the soul. If they don’t have any eye contact with you it suggests that they may be hiding something from you. Liars frequently try this due to the fact they understand that what they do is devious and it is totally wrong however they nonetheless do it.

25. They Always Find A Reason To Vilify You
As a popular saying, “everybody is always the good guy in their own story”. They seek to justify and sanctify what they do in a bid to make you feel like crap, like you are not good at anything. They fuel their egos and acclaimed self righteousness by always making you the bad guy in the story, but deep down they know very well that they are way worse than anybody else. Partners like this always act like they are the gods of perfection. They are always right, they never acknowledge their mistakes, and they are always on the high alert to spot and point out your mistake in the most embarrassing way. People like this always play the victim and they are first-class sadists. So it is best to stay clear of folks like this because they are bad for business.

26. They’ve cheated Before
A onetime cheating spouse can never be trusted because there is always a possibility that they would cheat again. Sometimes it is important for us to know that sometimes people cheat out of mistake, or maybe they were drunk and not sober enough to understand what they were doing, the other majority cheat because they love the thrill, the twisted sense of fulfillment, and the selfish gratification they derive from it.

Some due to human imperfection can’t overcome the urge to cheat, so it is safe to say that they are innocently addicted to cheating. If a person hasn’t cheated it doesn’t suggest that they may not be able to cheat. The reason might just be that the opportunity to cheat has not yet presented itself.

27. Your instinct Says It’s Happening
Most at times our instinct always warn us of impending dangers and tragedies, and it is never an exception in relationships. On some occasions we might wave aside that gut feeling as being over jealous, so devoid of all other feelings is your heart telling you that something is not adding up the way it should, you better start being suspicious because you might be right.

Try to find out what your instinct is telling you about your spouse, and just maybe you might discover that your beloved spouse might be displaying some of the signs that was listed above.

There are some cases where your gut feeling might be wrong, so be careful not to ruin your relationship because you think your spouse is cheating. But in no way disregard what your instinct is trying to tell you.

28. Your Relationship Began As An Affair
Imagine your relationship started off as an affair, you knew he/she had a spouse but you still went ahead until they had to dump their former spouses for you. What makes you think it will not also happen to you in that same way? Once a cheat is always a cheat, it is that simple and straight forward. People in this category loves cheating so much, they always have multiple sex partners.

Therefore their main source of joy and self satisfaction is cheating. Beware that the possibilities that the spouse you got from cheating will definitely cheat or is already cheating. So if your relationship started out as an affair be advised that it might also end because of an affair.

29. They constantly accuse You Of Cheating
Just out of the blue your partner starts laying wild accusations on you that you are cheating. Guess what? It is probably them who is cheating on you. It frequently occurs that after a person cheats they purposely accuse their partner of cheating so to turn the attention from themselves to you thereby diverting your attention..

It is simply how human psychology works. They always believe game recognizes game, so in a bid for game not to recognize game they always fire the first shot at the game so that when the game is busy trying to defend the first shot they are already cheating away. Always understand that sometimes the accuser is the guilty.

30. They Are Constantly Talking About How Everyone Else Cheats
You are worried about your friend whose partner is cheating on, but your partner is busy spewing nonsense about how this is 21st century that cheating now generally accepted. And they are talking about how being in an open relationship is not a bad thing. This concept is even supported by a few writers and psychologists. Their thesis is that infidelity is an essential a part of any relationship and that having an affair may yield a positive outcome. They basically say that, cheating will often lead to a long lasting and happier relationship. Maybe it really works for some folks but cheating doesn’t guarantee a happy and fulfilling relationship. This reason may also be used to justify why they cheat once in a while. Always be wary of partners who accept the idea of open relationship

31. Cheating Is Their Family Tradition
Psychologists say that majority of our behaviors is defined by our genes and the occurrences that took place in the early years of our lives. If your partner grew up around relatives where infidelity was not a big deal, where there is numerous step fathers, step mother, step sons and daughter even step cousins included.

People from this type of family cycle always find it difficult to stick around with one partner devoid of stepfathers and all other step whatever. When someone is raised around people who view infidelity as nothing, that person grows up losing all sense of morality about relationship because cheating is already a norm in their lifestyle. So if you get to understand that your spouse views infidelity as a normal thing, please be prepared because they will cheat. In this case, only therapy with a change of mobile mindset can change them.
32. They’ve Suddenly Got New Love Making Moves
Overnight your partner that is never good in bed is now a masterpiece in bed with series of new tricks and energy that you have never seen him bring to your sex life. And by now you are getting to understand that there is a whole new energy that they are bringing to bed. They are now all about the adventure, trying out new things in bed and spicing up things in a rather weird way. It is good to try out new things in order to improve your bed room life, but you should be alarmed when they are doing new things to you that they have never done before, especially when your spouse have cheated on you before. It is wise to assume that the new things they are bringing to bed were learnt from the person they are cheating on you with. They might attempt to make you think that they are committed to the relationship and that is why they are introducing new things and ideas into your bed room life. If you get too suspicious and ask them who they learnt it from they will simply say “the internet”.

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  1. Faith

    December 3, 2020 at 1:13 pm

    This is great! Thanks.

  2. Anozie Evelyn

    December 3, 2020 at 2:08 pm

    Cool but how will I know about this family cheating tradition. How can one dictate?

  3. Wesley Snart

    December 3, 2020 at 3:02 pm

    Thanks Evelyn for your question.

    A man or a woman that was raised in a polygamous family may sometimes grow up to subscribe to the idea that having multiple partners is actually not a bad thing.

    A thing can be when a kid a to witness his or her parents cheat. Permit me to present you with an hypothetical. Let’s say you as a kid used to witness your mum of dad bring home different men or women back at home when either your mum or dad was not around. Your young mind might not understand what was happening behind those closed doors but as you grow older you will get to understand and gradually begin accepting and view it as a normal thing.

    Also people that grew up under step parents and single parents also get to cheat when they are in relationships. The bottom line is loyalty. If ones parent were loyal to each other. Their kids will also be loyal to their partners.

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Chubby girlfriend- Top Reasons why you should date them




Who’s a chubby person?

A chubby person is someone who is plump, fleshing, rounded, or slightly overweight. Also, a chubby person is slightly overweight, has a moderate amount of fat in his or her body. in this article, we’ll be talking about the reasons to consider dating a chubby girlfriend.

Being fat these days seems like a curse to most ladies, because they think fat ladies are mostly rejected by men. many will say if I get fat now, no many will want to marry me”. The perfect idea woman for most men is dating someone who’s slim,  beautiful, having a great skin tone, and model-like in nature.

There are men out there who’re still crazy about chubby girls. A lot of men that married fat women not necessarily mean that they actually wanted it, but along the line they feel in love with the lady.

Ever since I was born, I hated anything called fat. I ran away from most chubby girls who were chasing after me. I was so good at running away from them with the slightest opportunity I have Until met one, then my whole mentality changed. from my little experience then, saw that the power of love can change a whole lot of things. Love can make you do things you never wished or plan to do. She was so irresistible that I had to break my law. I actually had the best relationship with her until we broke up.
Love has nothing to do with shape, size, background, or outward appearance. Therefore a chubby girl should not be denied respect, love, and awesome sex.

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13  Reasons Chubby Girls Make The Best Girlfriends

1.They are not afraid Of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

When you go on a date with her, you’ll have full confidence that they won’t waste your food. They are simply more romantic when you’re out with them eating. They’ll even try eating your meal too. I’ve been on several dates with skinny girls and I ended up regretting buying stuffs for us to eat. slim girls are not the food type.

Chubby girls are not so afraid of gaining weight, because they already have it, so they’ll always want to explore and try new things.  dating a chubby girl will not actually dampen your foodie spirit because they love eating.
Despite all I’ve said, Some men also have this negative feeling, that when they marry a chubby girlfriend, she’ll finish the whole food at home. lol

2. Easy to talk to

Research has shown that fat girls are much easier to talk to. Their ability to talk about anything is what makes them more spectacular. They simply focus on other things rather than their looks. Instead of their physical appearance, they can engage you in tons of topics.

3.Chubby girls are strong


Apart from trying to say that chubby girls have weight, they are really strong emotionally and physically. So Living this way transforms every chubby woman into the epitome of realized confidence! when it comes to things pertaining to emotions, they are strong in absorbing them.

4.Chubby ladies are good in bed

chuuby girls are good in bed

I know you must have said things like, skinny girls are actually the best because they are light weighted and probably good at exploring. When it comes to having sex, fat women have a higher endorphin release, which is the neurotransmitter that makes sex feel AMAZING.
We also have science on our side. St. Andrew’s University researchers discovered that men prefer a chubbier lady in the bedroom over a slim lady.

5. They are charming

They may not be charming as you think. Their looks may not capture you as much, due to their shapeless butt. What they do is that they’ll try to be charming in other areas, such as their social life. They’ll always try to leave a trademark of good attitude that would make you want them the more.

6.She won’t be picked up by any guy.

Like I said In the beginning, guys love dating slim women. So, a guy who has a chubby girlfriend will have a lesser fear of someone trying to steal them away. When you’re dating a chubby girl, you’ll have a lesser worry about traveling away for some time and having the feeling that someone would take your girlfriend from you.

7.Most chubby girls Enjoy Laughing


There is always a joy that springs up whenever you tease a lady and she laughs. Most chubby girls laugh at the easiest jokes you make, even when it’s not so funny. This makes it more amazing to be with them.

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8. It’s soothing to lie on their bosom.

Chubby girlfriends are good at Comforting you especially when you’re stressed or having a problem. This is because your worries tend to billow away like light smoke when you lie on their bosom.

9. Always active and sporty

chubby girls are not lazy as you think. Whether you want to go on a hike, jogging, water sports, or on a road trip, a chubby girlfriend would always want to accompany you. They may look lazy to you because of their physique or health status. The truth is that chubby girls are much more active, sporty, and energetic than other girls.

10. Chubby girls are deep.

When you make a chubby girl your GF, you’ll discover that she’s not just into your hot bod, but also into your goals, dreams, and ambitions.
Chubby girls are inspirers, they are just amazing in so many ways!!

11. They Know How to Drink

Whenever you go out, she won’t just take a bottle of beer and dull your fun moments. Research has shown that women who eat a lot have a better tolerance for alcohol, hence they are able to absorb it very fast. so they have the capacity to take a large quantity of alcohol. Chubby girls are really good at partying very long at night.

12.Not afraid to go outdoor

Dating a chubby girl differs from dating a slim woman. A slim lady may not want to follow you to some social events because of her body image. A fat girl is always proud of herself anywhere she goes. A chubby girlfriend would want to do dirty things with you anytime, anywhere…. She has no fear of her body shaming!!

13. Affectionate

Chubby girls are so romantic.  Fat girls love to hug and cuddle., if you’re the type who loves cuddling a lot, then dating a chubby girl should be my recommendation to you. because their soft skin and big body make it an adventure for you..  You can never be stranded of affection when you date a fat girl, she’d give you an overdose of love.

Wrapping Up

Having a chubby girlfriend isn’t a bad idea. Don’t ever be demotivated by the words of your friends. If you see a girl who’s fat and you like herm, go for her. Always follow your heart if you feel that she’ll give you peace of mind that you desire, then go for her,

ALSO, READ Signs, You Are Not Ready to Date.

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Love & Dating

17 signs you are dating your soulmate



How to Identify Your Soulmate


A Soulmate is someone that is divinely made for you, soulmate’s connection It’s a connection of the minds, soulmates have mutual respect, unconditional love, and a total understanding. You are always yourself when you are with your Soulmate, not only does the person connects with you but they understand your thoughts and are right there with you, side by side.

Love chemistry is a unique, special and peculiar connection that exists between soulmates. It’s something you feel not just for anyone but for your soulmate.

Just like chemistry reaction. Love chemistry can be felt and observed. It creates a strong bond between you two, an unrepeatable bond, even when you want to fight it, it’s just there waiting for you to notice it and accept it. It’s a feeling only you can ascertain.

A soulmate is your better half, you feel complete, confident, and safe with that special someone. With your soulmate, you are sure and sincere of what you feel, there is a deep feeling and assurance that you are with the right person, you just know it’s true.

There is a unique chemistry that exists between soulmates its called the “LOVE CHEMISTRY” This love chemistry can only be for your soulmate, it’s a genuine feeling irrespective of status, looks, or personality. It’s a true love feeling and is real.


 Signs you are dating your soulmate


1.You just know it

You just know this is the one, you have a deep feeling that you are with the right person when you meet them. You know this is the perfect one for you, it’s as if there’s a spiritual force leading you to give up everything you initially expected and be completely taken.

2.You have crossed paths

Soulmates are divinely connected people, you must have crossed paths before but at the right time, you meet. You might have met in a bar, petrol station, or you might even live in the same area but haven’t noticed each other, but when the time is right you meet.

3.Your soul connects at the right time

.Your soul connects at the right time

At the right time your soul connects, soulmates are unique people and everything is about timing when it comes to soulmates.It might have to take you to be involved in failed relationships but at the said time your soul connects (Divinely connected).


4.Your quiet space is your peaceful Place.

Whether you are reading in the same room or driving in the car or you are not in the same place, you have an internal connection. That moment of silence gives a peaceful place and an inner peace for you two to bond.

5.You can hear the other person’s silent thought

With soulmate is easy to read each other’s thought even if it’s not verbally expressed. You understand each other perfectly, you put yourself in each other’s shoes, you both understand each other’s stress, pains, and hardship together. The moment they walk in through that door you know how their day went.

 6.You can feel each other’s pain.

You know when your partner is hurt, you feel their pain and help them get over it. You both help each other overcome your pains, stress, and worries. You make each other comfortable and peaceful without any selfish reasons.

7.You know each other’s flaws and the benefits in them.

Yes, it’s true we all have flaws and also benefits. We have our bad and good sides, you look out for the good even when it doesn’t seem good. The good always complements the bad and even the bad have its benefits.

Example: Stubborn people are good at handling issues properly and they are difficult to manipulate, they are good decision-makers, while overly organized people are good at coordinating and putting things in check.


8.You share the same life goals

two sweet couples

You guys have the same ideas, mindset and share similar goals. You may have a different way of accomplishing your goals but you both have the same end result. That’s the unique thing about a soulmate, your same goals make the both of you plan together always which gives you a better understanding of each other and value each other’s opinion and ideas.


 9.You are not afraid of having a conversation.

Initiating a conversation can be very challenging, but in this case, you find it easier to communicate, share your ideas or feelings, you are free to engage in a conversation, you don’t feel belittled or scared to speak your mind. No matter how demeaning it sounds, you let it out knowing that your partner accepts you for who you are.


 10.You are not threatened by the need for alone time.

Your alone time is never a threat to your relationship. Whether he is hanging out with the guys or she is with the girls or in a beach party, or you decide to be alone, you are not perturbed, because you know when you guys come together you have a special moment.


11.You don’t experience jealousy.

Pretty girls at work or handsome guys at the gym or training center doesn’t make you feel jealous because you know you are the only and special one.

12.You respect each other’s opinions and differences.

You sure both have different opinions, ideas, and thoughts because soulmates are polar opposite people, instead of agreeing to disagree with you, allow the other person to complete you. Though it might seem difficult, but you respect each other’s differences and opinions knowing you are both from different backgrounds.


13.You don’t scream, curse or threaten each other with a breakup or divorce.

You respect each other and hold each other in high esteem. You don’t abuse, criticize or underestimate each other or threaten with a divorce. When you have issues you settle them amicably.

14.You give in because you want to make your partner happy.

Giving in when you feel you are right can be very difficult most times, but you rather give in to make your partner happy than making your partner sad, because when your soulmate is happy you are also happy.

 15.You know how to apologize.

Saying sorry when you are at fault or accepting you hurt someone is one of the most difficult things to say or do. You admit you are wrong immediately you discover your partner is hurt, it’s never difficult for you to say sorry.

Soulmates are not punitive, obnoxious, or revengeful, they always find a way to apologize and make up for their mistakes. It doesn’t matter if you feel justified, but immediately you discover your partner is hurt you apologize, because when your partner is hurt you are hurt too.


 16.You would marry each other again.

Yes, it’s true, with soulmates you would marry each other again because you know this is the one and the only person for you.No other people can fit into your life.

Even in crisis, stress, challenges, and misunderstanding, you choose your soulmate again, because you guys understand each other and make up for your differences.


17.You complete each other

Soulmates complete each other, they are polar opposite people attracted to each other. One might be social or simple, extrovert or introvert, they both complete each other. Their polar opposite differences complement their character which enables them to fit into each other properly.



Soulmates are like locks without the right key you can’t open it. You are the lock, Your soulmate is the key that can fit into your life and make it a better place to dwell. Soulmates are divinely connected people made to spend their lives eternally together. Two souls attracted and connected to each other to complete each other.

ALSO, READ Modern day definition of marriage

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10 Simple Hack to make a girl send Her Nudes



How Do I Make A Girl Send Nudes


Getting a Nude from a girl is not as easy as you may think. A lot of ladies out there have has bad experiences with some guys who leaked their nudes on the internet. Even at that a lot of girls in this world still send nudes to guys, but the problem here is “how to initiate it?”. If you’re wondering or asking questions like “how can I make a girl send nudes”, then Keep reading this. A lot of girls out there don’t even buy the idea of sending a naked picture to a guy.

The major reason why a girl will never send you her nude is because of what might happen in the future, she might wake up one morning to see that her picture is all over the internet.  Several years ago, while I was still in the University, the nude photos of a beautiful girl were leaked online.  Immediately she saw it, she tried to jump off a cliff in order to commit suicide, and luckily she was saved by her friends. From this short story, you’ll see that such a girl will never send a guy nude ever, no matter how sweet-talking or trickish the guy might be.


This article is NO MAGIC, we will rather simply give you guidelines that will help you get those nude from her and also help you to maintain your integrity even if she doesn’t agree to send you. if you don’t choose words wisely and thread with caution, the girl will start seeing you as an irresponsible guy.

These are the top 5 comments I got from ladies when I asked them about sending nudes to guys.

  • I can’t even try that!!
  • Never!!
  • I’ll only send it to him when I know I’m married to him.
  • He’ll rather see my nude live than sending it to him.
  • I’m not a p0rn st@r, I wasn’t brought up that way.
  • That’s a sin I cant try it..
  • As far his my husband, if he asks me politely I’ll gladly send it to him, after all, I’m his and he’s mine.

The bitter truth here is that some people still send nudes to their partners the way people send good morning messages.  Men aren’t supposed to beg for nudes because nudes should come as a gift from them.

3 Things to know before asking a girl to send nudes

1.How long have you known her?: This should be the first question, that you should ask yourself before asking her for her nudes. You can’t meet a girl today and you’re asking her to send nudes, it’s never going to work. Rather she’ll insult you and put your perverted self where you belong.

2.Know how religious she is: before requesting a nude from a girl, the few time you’ve spent with her you’d be able to know if she’s a religious person. If you fail to know about this, when you eventually ask for it, she might even start telling people how irresponsible you are. She’ll tell her church members that you lack manner, home training, and respect for women,

3.Check if free and Very open with you: Examine how free she is with you when you tell her things. if she’s so strict and hard to penetrate, then you need to take things really slow.

How to ask a girl for her nude easily ()

If you want to learn how to ask for a nude politely, then you’ll need to read till the end. If you want to ask them for a nude, never try to ask it directly. Things like this are done in a corny way gradually, till you get what you want.

Anything that you’re doing should flow according. just because you’re crushing on her doesn’t mean you’ll just tell her “send nude”. When you do that she’ll gradually lose respect and regard for you. if she’ll send you a nude pic, you’ll actually perceive signs before she does. She might decide to say words like ” I just bought a hot bra” or something deeper than this. Then you can boldly tell her “hello sugar, ill like to see it on you, how about that (wink emoji)”

1.Make sure she’s comfortable around You

For you to easily get a nude from her, then you need to make her comfortable. A girl would never send a nude pic to someone she not comfortable with. Hence, create an amazing atmosphere, whenever she’s around you. Always appear trustworthy. Girls are so smart that they records of things you say. If you tell a girl something that isn’t so nice today, in the next three years, there is a 100% chance that she’ll remind you of what you say in the exact words. Make her feel safe even when you’re around other ladies,’

2.Don’t Ever Try to send your Nude to Her

This is what so many guys do and it’s very disgusting to most ladies. Some time ago, I was with a very close female friend while i was with her,  she asked me to help her reply  her messages on Facebook messenger. While I was chatting,  a young man stumbled on her account. I began to chat with this guy, not up to 10 minutes, I started chatting with him, he started confessing his love and before I opened my eyes, he sent a picture of his d**k, gosh!! I was so ashamed.  A guy may do this because he thinks she’ll return the favor, and this might never happen. If she asks for a picture of your d**k, then it’s fine, you can send it if you want to send. it’s better for her to ask you to send and naturally expect her to send hers to you someday.

“ what you say today can actually hurt that beautiful moment when she’s almost sending you nudes.”

3.Don’t Use wrong emoji’s:

This could be funny, but please don’t try it!! don’t send an eggplant and a water drop emoji Except you guys are so free to talk about anything with each other.

#never send pictures of your dick.

4. Try to Initiate Sexting

initiate sexting

Because I said sexting doesn’t mean you should just jump right into it at the beginning of the conversation. There are perfect times for this. If she’s a busy person, then you shouldn’t be initiating it at work. The best time to sexting her is at night or early hours of the day. Apart from initiating sexting at night, you can also do that at noon. But before you do that you’ll need to know if she at home or at work.  if she’s at home and she tells you, I’m seeing a movie or  I’m just trying to read a novel, then you should just opt-out.

There’s always an opportunity for sexting you could start by saying, “do you know that I’m secretly turned on whenever I’m with you? I just didn’t want to tell you.”. just start from somewhere…  teasing her using her eyes, nose, lips, or her body structure. The real truth is that if you can have a s*x chat with each order at least 3 times, be rest assured that you’re very close to getting what you want.

If she saying lets s*x chat, then you can ask her while the fun the reaching its peak.

NB; if your relationship with her is not intimate, forget about asking her for a nude.

5.Ask for her pic

You’d probably be asking yourself if you don’t have her pictures.  while chatting with her you can tell her to send a Hot pic. or if she’s going out, you can as well tell her to take a sexy pic. just tease her by telling her that you’d like to change your display picture to the most beautiful and sexiest girl in the world.

6.Use Funny Memes or stickers to get naughty

You can google  #sendnudesmeme and send to her, or use sticker to get naughty. when you do this,  you’ll start planting seeds in her heart that would make her want to send her pic. This is actually preparation in disguise.  She might be waiting for you to send her those naughty memes because she’s also in for what you’re looking for.

7.Give Her Outstanding/hot compliments

Whenever she’s dresses always give her amazing compliments, don’t just give her the normal regular reply a guy would give. Make her feel she’s the prettiest girl in town.’

8.Ask her for it when you know it’s time.

When you’ve done everything you need to do to make her want to send it to you, you can simply tell her that you would like to see the cuteness of her b**bs, she may definitely ask why? But before she asks why, just tell her that if she doesn’t feel safe putting her face in the photo, then she shouldn’t add her face. This will make her have more respect, confidence, and trust in you. she may then decide to send it without putting her face.

But if you start bugging her on why she didn’t add her face in the video or photo, you may end up turned,. Because she’ll start suspecting you want to expose her.

9.Work Hard:

If you must get success in what you do, then working hard shouldn’t be a big deal right? So you have to put in the work! Make her your project till you get what you want. If you’re probably a married man and your wife is far off, then the workload might not be tedious. All you need to do is to be Nice and romantic till you get what you want.

 “a slow and steady win’s the race”.

 “patience is a virtue”

10.Appreciate Her:

Appreciate her to the fullest when she finally sends you the nude. Also, tease her even if she might be so ugly.

Wrapping Up

Nudes are made to be kept confidential. No matter how intimate you may be to the girl, never feel bad if she shuns you down. In fact, she has every right to tell you NO so stop pestering her against her will. I bet you if you follow these tips you’ll have a 70% success rate for any girl you MEET.

 ALSO, READ How to identify or spot a crush


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