How To Be a Gentleman: 99 Things That Make You A Gentle man

Last Updated on October 24, 2024 by Joshua Isibor

When it comes to how to be a gentleman it has absolutely nothing to do with suits, ties, polished and etc… oftentimes when some of us hear “gentleman” those are what comes to our minds but it goes way beyond all that.

It’s not in any way attached to appearance as a definition. Although, appearance is major of a factor in being gentlemanly. It has everything to do with who you are your charisma, attitude, and more of how you carry yourself.

So now let’s examine some of the things that make a gentleman based on research

1. Define who you are. Gentlemen know themselves, they do not have identity confusion and they always project their identity to anyone they meet.
2. Maintain proper hygiene.
3. Be mature in dealings.
4. Grow up. Gentlemen don’t sulk or throw tantrums.
5. Mind your language. Never be caught using the f-word or swearing.
6. Always network with people. Be more open to sensible conversation and connect well with people. Know a bit of a lot so that you can contribute to most conversations.

7. Find your passion and pursue it.
8. Know what you want in all scenarios or situations.
9. Keep to time. Learn to be punctual.
10. Keep your word. A gentleman is a man of his word.
11. When you promise something or someone, fulfill it.
12. Hold the door open. This is one of the most common traits of a gentleman.
13. Don’t owe favors. Always return it!.
14. Keep your space neat. Clean up after yourself.
15. Never kiss and tell. It ruins your image in front of others.
16. Tell a good story without hiccups. You should look like a natural to those listening.

17. Learn to give an exceptional toast.
18. Be you.
19. Be able to distinguish between confidence, boldness, and arrogance.
20. Be open-minded but still maintain your morals and beliefs.
21. Don’t judge.
22. Know how to make a good meal.
23. Remove greed from your dealings. Fight it.
24. In most cases that require payment and you are with 2 or more persons, offer to pay.

25. Know when to keep quiet or talk.
26. Know the right time to clap and the right amount of claps.
27. Offer to help your guest with their luggage.
28. Learn to dance at least one classical.
29. Filter your social media and remove irrelevant and childish information from before.

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30. Always let your partner knows you care. Be sure to tell her daily.
31. Before proposing to your partner, seek her family’s blessings.
32. before helping a lady with her coat, ask for her permission first.
33. learn and exhibit table manners.
34. Be diligent and pay attention to details.
35. Being a gentleman is also a matter of character so you must respect your elders.

36. Chivalry should be your focus.
37. Maintain a positive attitude.
38. Always make reservations for the restaurant if you eating out with a friend.
39. Guard your reputation and name In a society very jealously.
40. Be mindful of your choice of words in any form of communication.
41. Walk confidently with a bold demure.
42. Strive to be better daily by learning, observing, and studying but avoid idolizing

43. When having a conversation, maintain eye contact but don’t not stare.
44. Always be willing to offer help to those who need it.
45. Learn humor.
46. Mind your liquor and know your gauge.
47. Be mindful of what you listen to. Since most times we tend to reproduce what we hear
48. Keep good company
49. Quickly admit when you are wrong and apologies. Apologizing doesn’t make you weak. It’s actually a strength
50. Learn to say the magic words “please” ”excuse me” ”sorry ”” thank you” “pardon me”
51. Wish the success of others
52. Don’t pick unnecessary fights
53. Learn to do things for others without expecting anything in return
54. Be flexible and open to change
55. Take alone times
56. Easily forgive others. To err is human and to forgive is divine
57. Make breakfast in bed oftentimes
58. Don’t ever send more than two texts in a row to some person
59. Don’t call more than twice in a row. Instead, just leave a message
60. Never pick your nose in public
61. Always smell nice, use a deodorant
62. Make your handshakes firm
63. Don’t pretend inability. If you can’t do something, don’t say you can
64. Don’t wear dusty shoes. Always clean your shoes.
65. When going on a date be very polite
66. Be quick to offer your jacket if a lady looks cold
67. Be a good guy even behind the scenes
68. Always show up at an event like birthdays, weddings, baby showers, etc. with a gift
69. Share your ideas with those around you except for a good reason
70. Don’t wear wrinkled or rumpled shirts
71. Be gracious
72. Be humble
73. Offer your seat to ladies especially the pregnant
74. In every aspect of your life strive for excellence
75. When intending to go for an event, if you can make it let them know beforehand.
76. Lead by example
77. Have high standards and values
78. Always keep your and don’t pick on little issues
79. Be authentic and genuine
80. Respect peoples space
81. Don’t be polygamous in a relationship. Keep to one lady at a time
82. Don’t intentionally hurt people’s feelings
83. Encourage people especially your partner to pursue their goals and dreams in life
84. Be a good listener
85. No one or two sports and be good at them
86. When going out on a date, put everything into thought
87. Encourage people to be better
88. Send flowers and chocolates to your significant other often
89. Pull out the chair for a lady
90. Compliment your lady when she is looking nice
91. Stand when a lady approaches or is about to leave a table
92. Always keep your room tidy
93. Take responsibilities
94. Learn to prioritize things and keep the ones important to you
95. Be reliable
96. Always look sharp
97. Check up on a friend after they leave your place to ensure they got home safe
98. Embrace loyalty
99. Open the cab door for people regardless of their gender

Wrapping Up

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Originally posted 2021-09-07 21:58:12.