What to really teach your child in Sex Education
The sudden rampage in rape and other sexual abuse of young people is horrible and inhuman. Sex education is something parents cannot overlook. I know that our parents forgot to teach us about sex education. But we cannot afford to make that mistake. If you want to help and save your children from the rape pandemic, then you must teach them sex education. There is a rise in sexual perverts and you must help guide your children through sexual education. I have always said that parenting is about being intentional. You can check out my article on HOW TO DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILD
If you leave your child to chance, then you will raise a nuisance who will make mistakes in life. Likewise, you cannot trust schools to teach your child sex education because some teachers do not even know what to do.
What is sex education?
Sex education according to Planned Parenthood is high-quality teaching and learning about a broad variety of topics related to sex and sexuality, exploring values and beliefs about those topics, and gaining the skills that are needed to navigate relationships and manage one’s sexual health. It is simply teaching your children about their sexual organs and how to use them. It is teaching them how to set boundaries. How to say no. I remember the story of how a man raped twins. How? The man promised one of the twin 200NGN to have sex with her and she agreed. After some time, the other twin came to the man and said I want money as well. She said give me money and also sleep with me. When I heard it, I shivered. And surprisingly, that is how many young people were abused.
However, compare this story to that of another child who immediately told her mom about the man who touched her buttocks. The man was shocked that the little girl of about 3 years could report such an act. The child’s mom said she taught her child to report anyone who touches her in inappropriate places. That is sex education in simple terms.
SEX EDUCATION: When and what to teach your child
While there is no fast and easy route to teaching your child sex education, I will be providing a guide to know what to teach your child at every stage. It will also take away the anxiety most parents feel if you know what to teach. Because most parents feel uncomfortable, but you must do it uncomfortable and afraid.
- Teach your child about his/her sexual organs (call sexual organs by their proper names):
- Teach them the difference between good touch and bad touch: bad touch will be when a stranger touches your daughter’s breast or vagina. Also, bad touch will be when a lady touches or fondles your son’s penis.
- Teach your child where to sit when an adult carries him/her: let your child know that he/she is not allowed to sit on strangers’ thighs. Because this is how touching and fondling happens.
- Teach your child to report any unusual touch: at this stage, children are trusting and can easily share their thoughts. Let your child know that he/she can tell you about any unusual touch from family, friends, or strangers.
- teach your child the difference between hug and fondling
- let them know the difference between appropriate and inappropriate contents (porn, sex movies, and images)
- Let them know the changes that come with puberty
- Teach them about dating and crushes
- Let them know about sex and reproduction
- Let them know about their sexual health
- Teach them the dangers of pre-marital sex
- Answer questions that are bugging them
- Teach them safety and consent
Why teach sex education?
The simple answer is Safety. Your child will be safe from consuming the wrong information from friends, the internet, and even terrible relatives. The sooner you teach them sex education, the sooner you take charge. It prevents your child from malicious, offensive information. By teaching your child sex education, you will prevent them from the following:
- Inappropriate content in movies, TV shows, and advertisements: the media is full of provocative content that can alter the mind-set of your child. If you teach your child sex education, you are helping your child avoid these provocative contents. You have to teach your child the power of graphics over the mind. And let your child understand that it helps sanity to steer way from provocative images.
- Internet pornography: the internet has a way of luring young people into porn. Some websites trick people into viewing porn videos. Therefore you must teach your child sex education.
- The rising trend of sexting: sexting is using a sexual word in texting and chatting. However, with sex education, your child can protect him/herself from sexting.
- Sexual peer pressure: peers have a way of influencing your child. If you do not arm your child with the right information, then his/her peer will do it for you. And the result will cause great harm to your child. It is not unusual to find teenagers daring themselves to try sex or send a nude picture. This is why you have to teach your child sex education.
- Sexual harassment: if you teach your child what sexual harassment means, then you will help your child stay safe from perverts. Let your child know that your communication lines are always open. Also, your child should know the difference between sexual harassment and what to do in the case of attempted sexual harassment or sexual harassment.
- Rape: sex education will help your child draw the line between rape and consent. The cases on rape that the world is facing currently hangs on the issue of consent. Let your child know that unless there is consent, then it is rape.
So go ahead. Shun the embarrassment and anxiety. Just teach your child sex education.
How impotent men can make love?
Impotence is not to be perceived as an end to fulfilling sex life. It is surely a man’s problem and a woman’s despair. Impotence can be a ruthless relationship killer.
Impotence or ED (Erectile Dysfunction) is still majorly perceived as a man’s problem alone. Because of its embarrassment, many men who suffer refuse to effectively communicate it to their partners. They are ashamed and feel they have to carry the burden of it by dealing with it themselves.
The embarrassment also withholds the suffering men from seeking professional help. The only way they choose to cope is by avoiding sexual contact altogether. Even if the man with the said affliction gathers the guts to reach the therapist’s office, he is against his partner accompanying him more often than not.
Leaving the woman out of the equation alienates her and doubles the impact the man’s impotence has on her well-being. A woman with an impotent partner may feel she is unloved or her appeal is unsexy. She may feel the romantic spark that burned bright with her partner has completely faded.
In her reluctance to appear insensitive, she may hesitate to be proactive in communicating with her partner to satisfy her pent-up s3xual desires. The Woman may fear something’s wrong with her man, something that has to do with his health or his work.
Many men also regain their potency. Even those who don’t can also be effective lovers. With some insights and creative imagination, it’s possible to restrict impotence from ruining your love life and the beauty in your relationship.
When is it not impotence?
An occasional performance failure cannot be categorized as the feared impotence. When a man who was a stellar performer in bed slips in his action one time, her partner may start questioning her self-image and attraction. It is usual for some women to suspect their husbands of having affairs.
All men now and then go through something like this. These occasional failures do not define their identity as impotent. The reasons for it may vary, it can be the many stressful and anxiety-inducing fast-paced lifestyles we are increasingly adopting. Persistent worry and professional obligations may have some part to play.
If it’s an occasional occurrence in performance, ignore it and steer yourself away from the counterproductive thoughts. Don’t start obsessing over it. If such a thought process enters your consciousness, the performance anxiety will slowly creep in. It can lead to a vicious cycle.
How to regain the lost intimacy and make love again?
The most important and effective tool for a very satisfying sex life or a very fulfilling relationship is clear communication. If you have ED, there is no better way to start addressing and doing something about it.
Talk openly and freely about your intimate desires. Without hesitation communicate your deep fears. The whole experience will manifest a new bond that solidifies your relationship. This eliminates the worry the woman may be having regarding her attraction and sex appeal. It is essential to reassure each other and remain supportive.
Don’t be afraid to seek professional help. A good sex therapist can help you and your partner in overcoming these issues and provide valuable insights on improving your sex life.
Stress and anxiety are significant contributors to ED. In many cases, their role is more impactful than the physiological problems. When buried in worry, both the performance and the enjoyment dwindles.
Redirect your focus and attention from your ED to getting intimate with your partner. Lose yourself in the moment. Enjoy the little things that make the atmosphere romantic and sensual. Cherish the time you are getting to spend with your partner. Try deep breathing exercises to relax and be mindful.
A gentle erotic touch may bring simple pleasure. The more relaxed you are, the more you’ll break the barrier of impotency to experience fulfilling and stress-free sexual action.
Reflect on the moments you and your partner had when you first started your relationship. Channel that experience of each touch electrifying your senses. Remember what it was like to explore so many new things about this fascinating person. You both had built this bridge of relationship discovering each other’s life from a unique perspective.
Relive those beautiful moments of togetherness. Kiss, laugh and experiment. There are many sex toys available for adult play. Just immerse yourself in the act and just purely enjoy it. Touch and caress each other. Discover the joy in extra-foreplay and sync intimately with your partner.
Even without a firm erection, you may still be able to 0rgasm. Even without intercourse, you and your partner can indulge in a great deal of sexual pleasure. All you need is a desire to take action and a twisted creative thought.
Mutual masturb@tion is one great way to learn more about what you and your partner enjoy. Experiment with innovative s3x toys to turn things spicy on the bed. Sex Vibrators are great to provide CLIT0RAL STIMULATI0N. Penis sleeves are fascinating toys for men with ED to wear and satisfy their partners. Along with tools for arousal and action, both mutual and oral stimulation can also be fun and exciting.
Sex doesn’t just have to be a game where the playground is always the bed. You can choose different and safe locations to be intimate and let the novelty of the place add extra excitement.
Physical intimacy is an essential part that sustains a happy and satisfying relationship. It’s possible to establish a relationship and have a sexually fulfilling time even without an active ERECTI0N.
Doctors may prescribe medications and treatments for ED. There might be other underlying ignored conditions that need to be addressed. Impotency can also mean early warning signs of heart disease.
For a long-term satisfying s3x life, it’s important to take care of your overall health. You also need to practice good communication to clearly convey your intentions and desires. Have a grip on your sexual expectations, adopt healthy habits into your lifestyle. Don’t forget to get creative to satisfy each other’s needs.
CAN YOU FLUSH CONDOMS (Here’s the answer)?
After having great sex, you probably roll outta of the bed, take your used condoms and flush it!! The two major reasons why people still use condoms today are to avoid unwanted pregnancy and STDs but still on it, that shouldn’t be an excuse to flush the used condoms. Couples feel that flushing a condom is one of the safest ways to avoid letting your kids see it but unknowingly to them, it’s environmentally harmful.
F.A.Q (frequently asked questions)
WHY DO GUYS FLUSH CONDOMS DOWN THE TOILET? :
- They hide it to avoid anyone knowing that they are secretly having sex.
- They may hide it because they don’t want their partner to know that they are cheating.
- Guys actually feel that flushing a condom is one of the safest ways.
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IS IT TRUE THAT FLUSHING A CONDOM WILL CAUSE IT TO COME UP LATER?
No, condoms are small in size, so when flushed, it’ll go. It’ll only come back if the plumber didn’t do his work correctly. Condoms are not likely to get stuck in a pipe’s bend.
A YouTuber named Viva Frei took a TMI video during a sewage dump in the city of Montreal. All they planned to see in the sewage was organic material so that they’ll flush them down into St. Lawrence River. It was necessary for the sewage to be dumped so that some work in the city could be completed.
But, unfortunately, at the last lap of the video, they saw lots of condoms.. In his commentary video, he exclaims, “It’s not just that there’s one condom. There are multiple condoms,” and then, “Condom! Condom! Condom!” There are SO MANY CONDOMS, in just one corner of the river bed. So you’ve heard it! If you’re practically flushing condoms down the toilet, it’s really disgusting especially when they flow out on public waterways.
. Watch the entire disgusting thing below:
you may feel so comfortable flushing your condoms but condoms can cause a huge environmental repercussion.
If you’ve been asking questions like can you flush condoms? The answer is No, Below are some of the reasons why flushing a condom is bad;
Why You Should Never Flush Condoms Down The Toilet
1.IT CANNOT BE BROKEN DOWN BY ENVIRONMENTAL RECYCLING:
Condoms are inorganic material, unlike other organic material which can be broken down, examples such as leaves, lawn clippings, cornstalks, and straw. This was said by Tom Hird, a marine biologist nicknamed the ‘Blowfish’. Condoms are made from latex, produced from a rubber tree.
Most sewages in the developed cities go down to the sea, but in an underdeveloped area, what they do is that they bury the contents in the ground or leave it in a bush..
Hird, who is also a Marine Conservation Society ambassador, is well-versed in the subject of plastic (and how it affects the environment).
He said: ‘The chemicals added to the latex mix, which provide shelf life and stability, stop the condom from breaking down swiftly in the ocean. In fact, scientists are currently unsure how long your sexy sheath takes to break down in the ocean, but estimates put it at around 30 years.
‘In that time, the rubber johnny is free to go on a worldwide jolly of seas and beaches, and if it doesn’t get washed up on shore, then it is extremely likely to be eaten by an aquatic animal mistaking it for food.’
The fact that it takes 30years for condoms to break down in the oceans doesn’t mean you should wash and use your condoms again.
2.CONDOMS CAN CAUSE DRAIN BLOCKAGES:
Unlike feces that degrade in water, condoms don’t! That’s why a slight mistake can cause a huge blockage that’ll require the plumber to come and fix it.
What you should know about Rainbow Kiss ( The REAL TRUTH)
Rainbow Kiss: The whole secret about rainbow kissing
The first time I ever heard about a rainbow kiss, I thought it’s usually a kiss that only takes place when the rainbow is out. A lot of persons have probably kissed their partner at such time, and then come out openly to say… “Have you tried the rainbow kissing? I eventually kissed my partner when the rain fell yesterday evening when the rainbow appeared, and it was just mind-blowing.” The above statement, sounds too absurd, and the boldness to utter it publicly, only ends up making an individual classified as uneducated. So, in this article, we’ll get to understand the true meaning of “rainbow kiss” and all there is, to know.
What is a Rainbow Kiss?
A rainbow kiss may sound casual. Albeit, it’s a word, not for kids, the impact from it is so deep, with strong intimacy between partners. In one of our articles, we talked about different kisses and their meanings. In that article, there are kisses meant for someone you just met, probably a person who has a high social value, and there are kisses meant for someone who’s just a friend. You can’t have a french kiss with someone who’s just a friend, except you both have feelings for each other.
Rainbow Kiss definition: here, is a kiss between a woman on her period and another person, who is usually a man. It sounds so n@ughty. This particular kiss occurs when a man gets blood in his mouth after performing oral sex with his partner, and also she’ll do the same and get his s*men in her mouth. Afterward, they’ll kiss themselves with both contents in their mouths. That’s exactly what rainbow kiss is all about.
Rainbow kissing is better done when having the 69 position after having great s3x. According to Danyell Fima, a co-founder of Velvet Co. He said that rainbow kissing is actually a unique way of celebrating your sexual achievements.
Is a Rainbow Kiss healthy?
The fact to consider about this is that both blood and sperm have the probability of harboring lots of infected particles such as hepatitis, HIV, etc.
Also, apart from rainbow kissing, kissing generally, is one of the fastest ways of transferring diseases/pathogens like Infectious mononucleosis, influenza, coronavirus, meningitis, herpes, syphilis, gingivitis, and many more. If one’s partner by any means has nasal congestion, it certainly will be transmitted via kissing. These are researches made, confirmed, and tested by medical practitioners.
It is best advised not to share “rainbow kisses” with just a regular person or a friend, firstly, it must be someone you trust, and secondly, It must be someone whose STD”s status is properly known.
Here’s a thread made by a famous Nigerian Doctor on his Twitter Twitter handle on the 30th of November 2020.#OurFavOnlineDoc 💎 (@DrOlufunmilayo)
Who came up with the rainbow Kiss?
According to Wikipedia, Simon Farquhar sang a song about Rainbow Kiss. he’s actually a Scottish writer. The script was published by Oberon Books.
Rainbow Kiss Urban Dictionary
According to the Urban Dictionary, A rainbow kiss refers to performing cunnilingus on a menstruating female, which is frequently followed by orally swapping semen, blood, and other secretions. THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HOMOSEXUALS.
Are there any rainbow Kiss Variations?
From the urban dictionary, a rainbow kiss has to do with heteronormative sex acts. A rainbow kiss is not meant for g@ys or lesbians, it’s meant for those who are straight.
What people may think about a Rainbow Kiss?
A lot of Christians out there think that a rainbow kiss is usually demonic or fetish in nature. So a lot of preachers out there may preach against it due to its awkward nature.
Why are people into rainbow kissing?
The founder of TickleKitty, Sadie Allison Ph.D. explains that one of the ways people can enjoy period s3x is to give a rainbow kiss.
A lot of persons do what they do not because they like it. Couples might have a rainbow kiss because they want to taste and see how it looks like. Allison encourages couples performing the rainbow kiss to try using flavored lube to break a new dimension to their sensory play.
A Ph.D. holder Wendasha Jenkins, also stated that rainbow kissing is also good for those who are adventurous and kinky. Wendasha also said that orgasms can actually help to relieve menstrual cramps.
Also, Fima describes rainbow kiss as “the pinnacle of showing comfort with and respect for your partner’s body and your own.”
How is rainbow kiss performed??
A rainbow kiss is performed when a Man gives a girl head while she’s on her period to lick all the blood, holding them in his mouth. And the girl would give the guy a head and get his semen in her mouth, then both will kiss together holding the s*men and blood in their mouths.
The two keywords in knowing how and when a rainbow kiss is performed is that.
- It must be on her period.
- The best s3x position is 69 for it to be very easy.
- They both must reach orgasm at the same time so that one will not hold the blood or semen for a very long time.
Best tips for a rainbow Kiss
- Both Partners Must Agree:
Both partners must be ready to hold each other’s either blood and or sperm respectively in their mouth. Although, an irritable act, to some it sounds okay, so far as they are both comfortable doing it.
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- Study the best time your partner reaches his/her climax:
Rainbow kiss is not for novice partners who just started having a new affair and want to explore. They must be together for a long time so as to be fully aware of each other’s high time, else the whole fun comes to a quench. Only a good communication and timing would help facilitate a rainbow kiss.
A rainbow Kiss is really one amazing thing for most people. A lot of persons have it all concluded in their minds, to certainly try it out. But then, if you feel you’re not ready for it, let your partner know in a very polite way, because being violent about your partner’s choice may result in losing your relationship to someone else who’s ready to do the seemingly dirty things with him or her.
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