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Critically speaking, falling in love with yourself is one big problem that faced 80% of us. And sometimes, life makes it so hard for us to accept them. We can easily admire others, but when it comes to ourselves, it becomes a bigger problem. I am a victim of this, and honestly, it took me time to accept who I am.

Falling in love with oneself can go either two ways:
-Loving who you are, or
-Accepting what you are.

Quote of life states, “Life is a big mirror and what it reflects is what we give it”.

Whatever you put out in the world, comes back to you in tenfold. If you give love, love comes in return; if you give out hate, it comes back too.

If you are finding it so hard to accept or fall in love with yourself, it means there are things triggering them.
For instance: it might be your appearance, lifestyle, self-deception, jealousy, failure, guilt, your worth or value in society or you might think you aren’t good at anything you do and many more.
And when these thoughts keep occupying our minds, self-hatred creeps in, which can lead you to harm or bullying yourself or others.
But the good news is, every problem has a solution, and its solution starts from you.

HERE ARE THE: 17 ways on how to fall in love with yourself.

1. You need to accept who and what you are:

accept who and what you are:

“Self-love is not selfish. There is no way you can give love if you don’t love yourself.”

Accepting yourself is one of the keys to falling in love with yourself. Accepting who you are, what you are, gives you the confidence to embrace life. This makes you see yourself as one of the best gifts on this earth. It makes you feel “complete”. It makes you stand for yourself when people are trying to judge you or remind you of who or what you are.

A friend said, “someone can never hurt you without your permission”.
Is not about what life gives you, but your reaction towards it. You might never like yourselves because of certain things, but that’s not your fault(you are not to be blamed for what you didn’t create or do). That you don’t look good doesn’t mean you are bad either.
Changing yourself for society to accept you, shows that you are weak and it doesn’t stop that way, cause you keep on needing approval from people for you to be ok. If you are finding it so difficult to accept yourself the way you are, I got so practicable tips for you.
• First, make a list of what you think that makes you unique, and also a list of all the negative judgment you have towards yourself.

• Go through them and know those ones that are hard for you to accept.
• Take those ones and start working on them. You might pick one and work on it every day or twice a week till you fully get used to it.

For instance: you may not like the way you look, and it is hard for you to accept that you are beautiful or ugly.
Why not take the first step by looking at the mirror whenever you wake up and say something positive about your look.
I was faced with this kind of thing till I started speaking positively about my look. Each morning, I would stand in front of my mirror and tell myself I look good. It became a habit.
Cultivating this art will make you fall deeply for yourself.

• Disconnect from whatever that reminds you of those negative behavior towards yourself. It might come from friends, music, books, and connect yourself with those that improve your self-esteem.

• Identify your weakness.

identify your weakness

You might be the type of person that procrastinates a lot, impatient about things, easily bored, shy, scared of public, strict, doesn’t like to be criticized, stubborn, always emotional over little things. I suggest you make a list too, paste it somewhere you can see them and work on them.

• Take every failure as an experience to do better.

• Don’t compare yourself with anybody. You are unique and you need nobody to tell you that. What matters is how you see yourself and not how people see you.

• Learn to accept your imperfections.
The more you accept the part of yourself, you don’t like, the more personal freedom you create. When you begin to see your imperfections as part of you, you begin to feel free from anxiety and low self-esteem.
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2. Accept things about yourself that you can’t change.
Everybody has their own flaws, but there are some certain things we can’t change about ourselves. You might be fat and you want to be thin, which is obtainable, likewise, when you are thin also.

On the other hand, you might have this big nose which makes you feel uncomfortable. Instead of finding ways to reduce it, why not accept it the way it is. You can keep telling yourself that, ‘this my nose has its purpose and without it, I can’t breath’.
A lot of us( especially ladies) are faced with this kind of “body shaming” problem, which pushed some of us into opting for plastic surgery.

Embracing your flaws is the best way to love yourself madly. Our flaws are not there to make us bad, but give us the courage to look at them as part of us that we need to improve in life.

3.Apologise to yourself.

Like the way we offend others and tend to apologize to them. Do the same thing to yourself. Be comfortable to admit you disappointed yourself, and find strength in knowing that, it doesn’t define you.

You can write a letter of apology to yourself stating where you hurt yourself, how much sorry you feel, and how you are going to make it up to you. This sounds weird, but it is a good way to stay in love with yourself.

4. Forgive your past mistakes.
“One thing is for sure—you will make mistakes. Learn to learn from them. Learn to forgive yourself. Learn to laugh when everything falls apart because, sometimes, it will.” Vironika Tugaleva

How do you start to love yourself, if you still hang those mistakes around your neck and be waiting for someone to take them off? It starts from you, and that decision can be made by you alone.
Your past mistakes should not determine your future. You feel guilty about what you did, fine! But reminiscing on them for long is totally out of it.
Peace of mind is what you should look for, and you can only get it if you learn to forgive yourself from your past mistakes.

5. Redirect every negative thought about yourself.
This is an irrational and unrealistic thought that comes to our mind when things didn’t turn out well. There are inner voices that keep reminding us of our inadequacies.
And when we nurture them, they deteriorate our minds into believing a lot of negative things about us.

However, it is time for you to start channeling every negative thought about you into something good.
You might be the one that usually uses negative words on yourself, why not say something positive even when it is hard to admit you are good.

Tips that can help you stay positive.
• Focus on the good things that happen in your life, no matter how little they seem to appear. They might be, you waking up strong, a little help you rendered to someone, and a lot of them.
• Try turning those negative words into positive ones. You can write them and paste them where you can see them when you wake up in the morning or go to bed.
This will help you stay positive and fall in love with yourself deeply.

Identify your area of negativity and work on them.
Specifically, you might be a person that quickly gets angry over something without identifying the cause, why not tell yourself to stay calm and find out why the thing happened that way.

This will help you read deep meaning into them which helps you to sort for solutions instead of being angry at them, which might affect your mood for the rest of the day.

• Make sure you stay away from things that trigger negative thoughts. This feeling may be coming from, friends, movies, books, or co-workers. Just try your best to stay away whenever they come in contact with you.

• Open yourself to humor. Though this part is hard to implement, try to laugh at things even when they are difficult. It will make them look easier to solve. Watch funny videos or comedies and tell yourself that, you can’t let life push you the way it likes.

• Spend time with people, things that bring positive vibes. You may attend conferences, seminars, hangout, or take a tour around beautiful places.

• Always remember to compliment yourself each day of your life.
Compliment lightens the mood and it affects the rest of our days.
Speak positive words and pray to God to help you in all your doings.

6.No more comparison.

stop comparing yourself if you must love yourself

stop comparing yourself if you must love yourself

Now, it is time for you to stop all the comparisons you have with others. You need to know that, “you are you and not them”. They are living fine because they have money, which should be their problems and not yours. What you need is to focus on achieving a better future, living happily, and not being in any competition with anyone else.
A friend says, “in life, the only thing that should matter to you, is your happiness and how to get them”.
Comparing yourself with others will only do more harm than good to you. Look at their success stories as a “push” for you to do more rather than sitting in your shell looking for whom to blame or how life treats you badly.

7.Create a better picture of yourself in your mind.

create a better picture of yourself

create a better picture of yourself

You might want to be a great person that inspires people. Try creating the picture of that great person in your mind, live like one, and pursue them diligently till you finally become them.

8.Be comfortable in your own skin.
The best way to fall In love with yourself is to be comfortable in your own skin. This means building yourself for who and what you want to be, and not what others want you to look like.
It is a little treasure box inside of you, that is filled with contentment and love.
Tips on how to achieve that.

• Take good care of yourself. Spend time with yourself, eat good food, exercise well, take yourself out, dress well, feed your mind with good things, spoil yourself and make sure you stay healthy.Stop caring about what others think about you. What matters is what you think about yourself.

• Be your own best friend. The way you make friends with people, also make friends with yourself. If there is anything inside of you that is hindering you from loving yourself, get rid of it and replace it with something that acts like your best friend. It might be a voice or self-doubt. Replace it with someone that wants the best for you.

9.Pay Attention to yourself.
If you are the busy type that doesn’t even have time for yourself. I think it is high time you took a break and pay attention to yourself. Listen to yourself and know where you are not getting it.

• When was the last time, you grabbed a cup of good cappuccino or ate out alone in a good restaurant?

• When was the last time you strolled around your garden picking flowers and smiling at nature?
Or the last time you visited the cinema to see good movies or wore those beautiful clothes you kept in the closet for long?
Just take your time and pay attention to those things and see how self-love grows on its own.

10. Have fun

have fun with yourself

Enjoy your life while you can. Nobody is going to do those things for you. Take yourself out on dates, treat yourself right, go shopping, go to a spa to have a good body treatment and the benefits that come with it, go to the museum, go to a concert, grab a cup of ice cream, cook special food for yourself, go biking, gaze at the stars, go swimming, learn a new musical instrument, drown in your fantasy, meditate, travel out, unplug to be alone, act like a kid and many more.

11.Invest in something you love or good at.
It might be a career, hobby, interest, charity, or skills you want to learn or do. Take your time and explore more in whatever makes you happy and see how much you can stay longer in love with yourself.

12. Reflect on your happiest moments.
Always reflect on your happiest moments whether in the past or present. Keep track of those things that created the best moments in your life and reflect on them more.

13.Take care of your environment.
Keeping our environment clean adds more to our moods. You can change those things you wanted to change a long time ago. Arrange your room in a fashionable way that can lights up your mood and makes you feel at peace.

14. Celebrate your accomplishments.
They said, “name your blessings and count them one by one”. It is not bad to celebrate your little wins or your accomplishments. Give credit to yourself for doing more. You deserve it! It is your hard work, and you need to be celebrated for achieving them.

15. Be thankful
Always be thankful for the opportunities that come your way, your friends, family, and where you have been in life.
In fact, Gratitude and appreciation should always be part of your life cause they bring more favors and blessings in our lives.

16. Learn and grow
Whatever that had happened to you in life, learn from it and move on. Develop yourself into someone you will be proud of in the next 10 years. Learn things you want to learn, likewise reading those books you wanted to and practice them always.

16. Music
Listen to music that improves self-love, which mellows you out and gives you room to stay on a good track. They are good music that speaks more about self-love and boost self-confidence like,
• I love me by Meghan Trainer
• survivor by destiny’s child
• love myself by hailee steinfeld
• new rule by Dua lipa and many more.

17. Love more
Give out love and it will come back to you. Love yourself more, pour out every love you have, and watch it grows. Don’t ever allow someone to talk you out of loving yourself. Treat yourself well. Love yourself as you ever wanted to be loved. It is not must you need someone in your life before you do that, do it for yourself and see how you fall In love with yourself without any stress.


Self-love is one key to winning in life. If you don’t treat yourself the way you want to be treated, it becomes hard to break the walls you wanted to break.
You deserve better, and you will give it to yourself. You came to this world alone and nobody should make you feel bad for who you are. Give in everything and see how you reap the best fruits you ever wanted.

Always remember that you are God’s best gift and gifts are precious things that come in beautiful packages. God is love, and he is the only one that gives selfless love. Invite him into your life. He is always ready to help you stay in love and stay happy.


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Chubby girlfriend- Top Reasons why you should date them




Who’s a chubby person?

A chubby person is someone who is plump, fleshing, rounded, or slightly overweight. Also, a chubby person is slightly overweight, has a moderate amount of fat in his or her body. in this article, we’ll be talking about the reasons to consider dating a chubby girlfriend.

Being fat these days seems like a curse to most ladies, because they think fat ladies are mostly rejected by men. many will say if I get fat now, no many will want to marry me”. The perfect idea woman for most men is dating someone who’s slim,  beautiful, having a great skin tone, and model-like in nature.

There are men out there who’re still crazy about chubby girls. A lot of men that married fat women not necessarily mean that they actually wanted it, but along the line they feel in love with the lady.

Ever since I was born, I hated anything called fat. I ran away from most chubby girls who were chasing after me. I was so good at running away from them with the slightest opportunity I have Until met one, then my whole mentality changed. from my little experience then, saw that the power of love can change a whole lot of things. Love can make you do things you never wished or plan to do. She was so irresistible that I had to break my law. I actually had the best relationship with her until we broke up.
Love has nothing to do with shape, size, background, or outward appearance. Therefore a chubby girl should not be denied respect, love, and awesome sex.

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13  Reasons Chubby Girls Make The Best Girlfriends

1.They are not afraid Of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

When you go on a date with her, you’ll have full confidence that they won’t waste your food. They are simply more romantic when you’re out with them eating. They’ll even try eating your meal too. I’ve been on several dates with skinny girls and I ended up regretting buying stuffs for us to eat. slim girls are not the food type.

Chubby girls are not so afraid of gaining weight, because they already have it, so they’ll always want to explore and try new things.  dating a chubby girl will not actually dampen your foodie spirit because they love eating.
Despite all I’ve said, Some men also have this negative feeling, that when they marry a chubby girlfriend, she’ll finish the whole food at home. lol

2. Easy to talk to

Research has shown that fat girls are much easier to talk to. Their ability to talk about anything is what makes them more spectacular. They simply focus on other things rather than their looks. Instead of their physical appearance, they can engage you in tons of topics.

3.Chubby girls are strong


Apart from trying to say that chubby girls have weight, they are really strong emotionally and physically. So Living this way transforms every chubby woman into the epitome of realized confidence! when it comes to things pertaining to emotions, they are strong in absorbing them.

4.Chubby ladies are good in bed

chuuby girls are good in bed

I know you must have said things like, skinny girls are actually the best because they are light weighted and probably good at exploring. When it comes to having sex, fat women have a higher endorphin release, which is the neurotransmitter that makes sex feel AMAZING.
We also have science on our side. St. Andrew’s University researchers discovered that men prefer a chubbier lady in the bedroom over a slim lady.

5. They are charming

They may not be charming as you think. Their looks may not capture you as much, due to their shapeless butt. What they do is that they’ll try to be charming in other areas, such as their social life. They’ll always try to leave a trademark of good attitude that would make you want them the more.

6.She won’t be picked up by any guy.

Like I said In the beginning, guys love dating slim women. So, a guy who has a chubby girlfriend will have a lesser fear of someone trying to steal them away. When you’re dating a chubby girl, you’ll have a lesser worry about traveling away for some time and having the feeling that someone would take your girlfriend from you.

7.Most chubby girls Enjoy Laughing


There is always a joy that springs up whenever you tease a lady and she laughs. Most chubby girls laugh at the easiest jokes you make, even when it’s not so funny. This makes it more amazing to be with them.

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8. It’s soothing to lie on their bosom.

Chubby girlfriends are good at Comforting you especially when you’re stressed or having a problem. This is because your worries tend to billow away like light smoke when you lie on their bosom.

9. Always active and sporty

chubby girls are not lazy as you think. Whether you want to go on a hike, jogging, water sports, or on a road trip, a chubby girlfriend would always want to accompany you. They may look lazy to you because of their physique or health status. The truth is that chubby girls are much more active, sporty, and energetic than other girls.

10. Chubby girls are deep.

When you make a chubby girl your GF, you’ll discover that she’s not just into your hot bod, but also into your goals, dreams, and ambitions.
Chubby girls are inspirers, they are just amazing in so many ways!!

11. They Know How to Drink

Whenever you go out, she won’t just take a bottle of beer and dull your fun moments. Research has shown that women who eat a lot have a better tolerance for alcohol, hence they are able to absorb it very fast. so they have the capacity to take a large quantity of alcohol. Chubby girls are really good at partying very long at night.

12.Not afraid to go outdoor

Dating a chubby girl differs from dating a slim woman. A slim lady may not want to follow you to some social events because of her body image. A fat girl is always proud of herself anywhere she goes. A chubby girlfriend would want to do dirty things with you anytime, anywhere…. She has no fear of her body shaming!!

13. Affectionate

Chubby girls are so romantic.  Fat girls love to hug and cuddle., if you’re the type who loves cuddling a lot, then dating a chubby girl should be my recommendation to you. because their soft skin and big body make it an adventure for you..  You can never be stranded of affection when you date a fat girl, she’d give you an overdose of love.

Wrapping Up

Having a chubby girlfriend isn’t a bad idea. Don’t ever be demotivated by the words of your friends. If you see a girl who’s fat and you like herm, go for her. Always follow your heart if you feel that she’ll give you peace of mind that you desire, then go for her,

ALSO, READ Signs, You Are Not Ready to Date.

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17 signs you are dating your soulmate



How to Identify Your Soulmate


A Soulmate is someone that is divinely made for you, soulmate’s connection It’s a connection of the minds, soulmates have mutual respect, unconditional love, and a total understanding. You are always yourself when you are with your Soulmate, not only does the person connects with you but they understand your thoughts and are right there with you, side by side.

Love chemistry is a unique, special and peculiar connection that exists between soulmates. It’s something you feel not just for anyone but for your soulmate.

Just like chemistry reaction. Love chemistry can be felt and observed. It creates a strong bond between you two, an unrepeatable bond, even when you want to fight it, it’s just there waiting for you to notice it and accept it. It’s a feeling only you can ascertain.

A soulmate is your better half, you feel complete, confident, and safe with that special someone. With your soulmate, you are sure and sincere of what you feel, there is a deep feeling and assurance that you are with the right person, you just know it’s true.

There is a unique chemistry that exists between soulmates its called the “LOVE CHEMISTRY” This love chemistry can only be for your soulmate, it’s a genuine feeling irrespective of status, looks, or personality. It’s a true love feeling and is real.


 Signs you are dating your soulmate


1.You just know it

You just know this is the one, you have a deep feeling that you are with the right person when you meet them. You know this is the perfect one for you, it’s as if there’s a spiritual force leading you to give up everything you initially expected and be completely taken.

2.You have crossed paths

Soulmates are divinely connected people, you must have crossed paths before but at the right time, you meet. You might have met in a bar, petrol station, or you might even live in the same area but haven’t noticed each other, but when the time is right you meet.

3.Your soul connects at the right time

.Your soul connects at the right time

At the right time your soul connects, soulmates are unique people and everything is about timing when it comes to soulmates.It might have to take you to be involved in failed relationships but at the said time your soul connects (Divinely connected).


4.Your quiet space is your peaceful Place.

Whether you are reading in the same room or driving in the car or you are not in the same place, you have an internal connection. That moment of silence gives a peaceful place and an inner peace for you two to bond.

5.You can hear the other person’s silent thought

With soulmate is easy to read each other’s thought even if it’s not verbally expressed. You understand each other perfectly, you put yourself in each other’s shoes, you both understand each other’s stress, pains, and hardship together. The moment they walk in through that door you know how their day went.

 6.You can feel each other’s pain.

You know when your partner is hurt, you feel their pain and help them get over it. You both help each other overcome your pains, stress, and worries. You make each other comfortable and peaceful without any selfish reasons.

7.You know each other’s flaws and the benefits in them.

Yes, it’s true we all have flaws and also benefits. We have our bad and good sides, you look out for the good even when it doesn’t seem good. The good always complements the bad and even the bad have its benefits.

Example: Stubborn people are good at handling issues properly and they are difficult to manipulate, they are good decision-makers, while overly organized people are good at coordinating and putting things in check.


8.You share the same life goals

two sweet couples

You guys have the same ideas, mindset and share similar goals. You may have a different way of accomplishing your goals but you both have the same end result. That’s the unique thing about a soulmate, your same goals make the both of you plan together always which gives you a better understanding of each other and value each other’s opinion and ideas.


 9.You are not afraid of having a conversation.

Initiating a conversation can be very challenging, but in this case, you find it easier to communicate, share your ideas or feelings, you are free to engage in a conversation, you don’t feel belittled or scared to speak your mind. No matter how demeaning it sounds, you let it out knowing that your partner accepts you for who you are.


 10.You are not threatened by the need for alone time.

Your alone time is never a threat to your relationship. Whether he is hanging out with the guys or she is with the girls or in a beach party, or you decide to be alone, you are not perturbed, because you know when you guys come together you have a special moment.


11.You don’t experience jealousy.

Pretty girls at work or handsome guys at the gym or training center doesn’t make you feel jealous because you know you are the only and special one.

12.You respect each other’s opinions and differences.

You sure both have different opinions, ideas, and thoughts because soulmates are polar opposite people, instead of agreeing to disagree with you, allow the other person to complete you. Though it might seem difficult, but you respect each other’s differences and opinions knowing you are both from different backgrounds.


13.You don’t scream, curse or threaten each other with a breakup or divorce.

You respect each other and hold each other in high esteem. You don’t abuse, criticize or underestimate each other or threaten with a divorce. When you have issues you settle them amicably.

14.You give in because you want to make your partner happy.

Giving in when you feel you are right can be very difficult most times, but you rather give in to make your partner happy than making your partner sad, because when your soulmate is happy you are also happy.

 15.You know how to apologize.

Saying sorry when you are at fault or accepting you hurt someone is one of the most difficult things to say or do. You admit you are wrong immediately you discover your partner is hurt, it’s never difficult for you to say sorry.

Soulmates are not punitive, obnoxious, or revengeful, they always find a way to apologize and make up for their mistakes. It doesn’t matter if you feel justified, but immediately you discover your partner is hurt you apologize, because when your partner is hurt you are hurt too.


 16.You would marry each other again.

Yes, it’s true, with soulmates you would marry each other again because you know this is the one and the only person for you.No other people can fit into your life.

Even in crisis, stress, challenges, and misunderstanding, you choose your soulmate again, because you guys understand each other and make up for your differences.


17.You complete each other

Soulmates complete each other, they are polar opposite people attracted to each other. One might be social or simple, extrovert or introvert, they both complete each other. Their polar opposite differences complement their character which enables them to fit into each other properly.



Soulmates are like locks without the right key you can’t open it. You are the lock, Your soulmate is the key that can fit into your life and make it a better place to dwell. Soulmates are divinely connected people made to spend their lives eternally together. Two souls attracted and connected to each other to complete each other.

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10 Simple Hack to make a girl send Her Nudes



How Do I Make A Girl Send Nudes


Getting a Nude from a girl is not as easy as you may think. A lot of ladies out there have has bad experiences with some guys who leaked their nudes on the internet. Even at that a lot of girls in this world still send nudes to guys, but the problem here is “how to initiate it?”. If you’re wondering or asking questions like “how can I make a girl send nudes”, then Keep reading this. A lot of girls out there don’t even buy the idea of sending a naked picture to a guy.

The major reason why a girl will never send you her nude is because of what might happen in the future, she might wake up one morning to see that her picture is all over the internet.  Several years ago, while I was still in the University, the nude photos of a beautiful girl were leaked online.  Immediately she saw it, she tried to jump off a cliff in order to commit suicide, and luckily she was saved by her friends. From this short story, you’ll see that such a girl will never send a guy nude ever, no matter how sweet-talking or trickish the guy might be.


This article is NO MAGIC, we will rather simply give you guidelines that will help you get those nude from her and also help you to maintain your integrity even if she doesn’t agree to send you. if you don’t choose words wisely and thread with caution, the girl will start seeing you as an irresponsible guy.

These are the top 5 comments I got from ladies when I asked them about sending nudes to guys.

  • I can’t even try that!!
  • Never!!
  • I’ll only send it to him when I know I’m married to him.
  • He’ll rather see my nude live than sending it to him.
  • I’m not a p0rn st@r, I wasn’t brought up that way.
  • That’s a sin I cant try it..
  • As far his my husband, if he asks me politely I’ll gladly send it to him, after all, I’m his and he’s mine.

The bitter truth here is that some people still send nudes to their partners the way people send good morning messages.  Men aren’t supposed to beg for nudes because nudes should come as a gift from them.

3 Things to know before asking a girl to send nudes

1.How long have you known her?: This should be the first question, that you should ask yourself before asking her for her nudes. You can’t meet a girl today and you’re asking her to send nudes, it’s never going to work. Rather she’ll insult you and put your perverted self where you belong.

2.Know how religious she is: before requesting a nude from a girl, the few time you’ve spent with her you’d be able to know if she’s a religious person. If you fail to know about this, when you eventually ask for it, she might even start telling people how irresponsible you are. She’ll tell her church members that you lack manner, home training, and respect for women,

3.Check if free and Very open with you: Examine how free she is with you when you tell her things. if she’s so strict and hard to penetrate, then you need to take things really slow.

How to ask a girl for her nude easily ()

If you want to learn how to ask for a nude politely, then you’ll need to read till the end. If you want to ask them for a nude, never try to ask it directly. Things like this are done in a corny way gradually, till you get what you want.

Anything that you’re doing should flow according. just because you’re crushing on her doesn’t mean you’ll just tell her “send nude”. When you do that she’ll gradually lose respect and regard for you. if she’ll send you a nude pic, you’ll actually perceive signs before she does. She might decide to say words like ” I just bought a hot bra” or something deeper than this. Then you can boldly tell her “hello sugar, ill like to see it on you, how about that (wink emoji)”

1.Make sure she’s comfortable around You

For you to easily get a nude from her, then you need to make her comfortable. A girl would never send a nude pic to someone she not comfortable with. Hence, create an amazing atmosphere, whenever she’s around you. Always appear trustworthy. Girls are so smart that they records of things you say. If you tell a girl something that isn’t so nice today, in the next three years, there is a 100% chance that she’ll remind you of what you say in the exact words. Make her feel safe even when you’re around other ladies,’

2.Don’t Ever Try to send your Nude to Her

This is what so many guys do and it’s very disgusting to most ladies. Some time ago, I was with a very close female friend while i was with her,  she asked me to help her reply  her messages on Facebook messenger. While I was chatting,  a young man stumbled on her account. I began to chat with this guy, not up to 10 minutes, I started chatting with him, he started confessing his love and before I opened my eyes, he sent a picture of his d**k, gosh!! I was so ashamed.  A guy may do this because he thinks she’ll return the favor, and this might never happen. If she asks for a picture of your d**k, then it’s fine, you can send it if you want to send. it’s better for her to ask you to send and naturally expect her to send hers to you someday.

“ what you say today can actually hurt that beautiful moment when she’s almost sending you nudes.”

3.Don’t Use wrong emoji’s:

This could be funny, but please don’t try it!! don’t send an eggplant and a water drop emoji Except you guys are so free to talk about anything with each other.

#never send pictures of your dick.

4. Try to Initiate Sexting

initiate sexting

Because I said sexting doesn’t mean you should just jump right into it at the beginning of the conversation. There are perfect times for this. If she’s a busy person, then you shouldn’t be initiating it at work. The best time to sexting her is at night or early hours of the day. Apart from initiating sexting at night, you can also do that at noon. But before you do that you’ll need to know if she at home or at work.  if she’s at home and she tells you, I’m seeing a movie or  I’m just trying to read a novel, then you should just opt-out.

There’s always an opportunity for sexting you could start by saying, “do you know that I’m secretly turned on whenever I’m with you? I just didn’t want to tell you.”. just start from somewhere…  teasing her using her eyes, nose, lips, or her body structure. The real truth is that if you can have a s*x chat with each order at least 3 times, be rest assured that you’re very close to getting what you want.

If she saying lets s*x chat, then you can ask her while the fun the reaching its peak.

NB; if your relationship with her is not intimate, forget about asking her for a nude.

5.Ask for her pic

You’d probably be asking yourself if you don’t have her pictures.  while chatting with her you can tell her to send a Hot pic. or if she’s going out, you can as well tell her to take a sexy pic. just tease her by telling her that you’d like to change your display picture to the most beautiful and sexiest girl in the world.

6.Use Funny Memes or stickers to get naughty

You can google  #sendnudesmeme and send to her, or use sticker to get naughty. when you do this,  you’ll start planting seeds in her heart that would make her want to send her pic. This is actually preparation in disguise.  She might be waiting for you to send her those naughty memes because she’s also in for what you’re looking for.

7.Give Her Outstanding/hot compliments

Whenever she’s dresses always give her amazing compliments, don’t just give her the normal regular reply a guy would give. Make her feel she’s the prettiest girl in town.’

8.Ask her for it when you know it’s time.

When you’ve done everything you need to do to make her want to send it to you, you can simply tell her that you would like to see the cuteness of her b**bs, she may definitely ask why? But before she asks why, just tell her that if she doesn’t feel safe putting her face in the photo, then she shouldn’t add her face. This will make her have more respect, confidence, and trust in you. she may then decide to send it without putting her face.

But if you start bugging her on why she didn’t add her face in the video or photo, you may end up turned,. Because she’ll start suspecting you want to expose her.

9.Work Hard:

If you must get success in what you do, then working hard shouldn’t be a big deal right? So you have to put in the work! Make her your project till you get what you want. If you’re probably a married man and your wife is far off, then the workload might not be tedious. All you need to do is to be Nice and romantic till you get what you want.

 “a slow and steady win’s the race”.

 “patience is a virtue”

10.Appreciate Her:

Appreciate her to the fullest when she finally sends you the nude. Also, tease her even if she might be so ugly.

Wrapping Up

Nudes are made to be kept confidential. No matter how intimate you may be to the girl, never feel bad if she shuns you down. In fact, she has every right to tell you NO so stop pestering her against her will. I bet you if you follow these tips you’ll have a 70% success rate for any girl you MEET.

 ALSO, READ How to identify or spot a crush


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