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How to fall in love? ( 13 WAYS)




13 ways to FALL IN LOVE

Falling in love is the best thing that can happen to people who share the same goals, passion, sorrow, happiness, and always appreciate their efforts to adjust their flaws. It makes you feel like the world revolves around you. Just like in Cinderella’s story: to live happily ever after.

On the other hand, when love turns out bad, we close our hearts and shut our backs at it. It seems impossible to be loved again and whoever comes close wants to hurt you. Love becomes a horrible rhyme that you don’t want to hear. You shut yourself out from the world and never extend your hand to feel it again.
And sometimes, you do ask if you would ever fall in love again? If there is a second chance? If you can ever make it right?
Yes, I can feel your pain. I understood the way you feel but how do you know these answers, if you don’t give them a try?

I felt the same way when I got stabbed by my best friend. She was having an affair with my boyfriend. when I found out it was already too late to revoke what happened. She was already pregnant for him and this hit me so bad that I thought of committing suicide. It took me time to find myself. It seemed like my world has been shattered. But now, I can proudly say, I am in love again.
Your case might be different from being hurt by someone you love. It might be you, your look, your body, and many of them. You might be having a hard time trying to love who you are but no matter how you try, it seems you are not getting it right.

Trust me, I know how it feels to be mock by friends and family as well. The countless night you spent crying in your bedroom and how you would stare in the mirror for a thousand times.
All I need from you is to believe you are stronger than all these problems that seem to be the center of attraction.
I know you want to fall in love again. Whether with yourself or with someone and I am here to help you do that. All I need you to do is to follow these strategies which will unlock your heart again.

1. you need to love yourself.
If you want to see yourself falling in love again, this is the best medicine you can go for.
There is no how you will love someone without loving yourself first.
You need to appreciate your strength, know your weakness, and have the right mindset about yourself.
If you don’t love yourself, you can’t make anything right for the other person. You might pretend to be in love and when it turns out bad, you will end up hating yourself or blaming yourself for what happened.

How do you find self-love? These tips will help you better.
• First, you need to isolate yourself from those bad vibes and being lonely. Then, open your heart to heal from those pains, accept who you are, and whenever you look in the mirror, see yourself as God’s best love.

• Never underestimate what you can do. You can do anything if you believe you can do it.
A friend says,
Believing in oneself is the best way to build one’s confidence.”
You can’t break a wall if you don’t believe you can do it. Sometimes, we give up on one strike. This should not be you. All you need is to keep hitting hard and you won’t know when it falls off.

• Know your weakness.
Once you are aware of your strengths, identifying your weakness becomes easy. Find out your flaws, improve on them and this helps you build your self-esteem and understand who you are.

• Give yourself the best treat. Appreciate your efforts and always compliment yourself daily. This helps you to feel relaxed and relieved.

2.Accept things about yourself that you can’t change.
Everybody has his own flaws but there are certain things we can’t change about ourselves.
For instance: you might have a big head or you don’t like your face due to burnt scars or your height.
Instead of hiding away from them, you need to find a way to improve on them. I don’t suggest you going for plastic surgery but finding healthier activities to follow.

Embracing your flaws is the best way to fall in love again. Just know you are already like that and you won’t change them for anything.
• Tell yourself you are God’s best image and he loves you against all odds.

• Always remind yourself that you have a lot of potentials and you are a great person. You can stand in front of your mirror and tell yourself, “I am the best version of myself.

• You can sign up for healthier exercises that are good for body development. Read books on self-improvement and keep positive vibes around you.

3. Be vulnerable.
Being vulnerable doesn’t mean you are weak or you can allow anything or anyone into your life to hurt you. It is where you need to understand your defense mechanism. You might have built a wall around your heart and letting people in becomes a problem.

Maybe, all these happened because of your past relationship and you don’t want to take the risk again.
Opening up your heart is the key to find love again and this helps you understand your fears and insecurities.
You might be afraid of getting hurt but you need to give it a try. Try to be honest with yourself and know that you can’t have a perfect life likewise seeing a perfect person to love.

4. Redirect every negative thought about yourself
This is bound to happen cause everybody has been riding this same boat. This is an irrational and unrealistic thought that comes to our mind especially when things didn’t turn out well.
negative thoughts will hinder your self-growth cause it makes you see the bad side of you instead of the better one.

However, if you are good at saying “I can’t do anything well or no one can accept me the way I am” why not say, “I know I have potential, I will look forward to the things I can do best.”
Tips that can help you to stay positive:
• Whenever those negative thoughts come to your mind. Try to do something that will take your mind far from them. You can go out with friends and watch movies that boost self-love and good thoughts.

• Try turning those negative statements into positive ones. You can write them down and read them every morning before starting off your day.

• Make sure you stay away from things that trigger them. It might be a conversation with friends, books, or movies. Stay positive and speak positive things into your life.

5. Don’t be afraid of rejection.
Sometimes, we got stuck in this unrequited love circle. And it seems like we are not going to get it no matter how we try.
You don’t need to assume that you are not going to be loved when you haven’t tried it.
All you need is to put yourself out there and when someone rejects you, know that it is not the end of the world.

Just know that love comes naturally, it will surely come to you. All you need to do is to open up your heart and stay strong.

6. Don’t play the hard-to-get game.
Some of us love playing this hard-to-get game especially if we are been asked out. Nobody is asking you to stoop so low or act cheap but never make it too hard for the other partner to come in.
Just be yourself and let it flow by itself. Don’t show that “I don’t need you” attitude, it will only scare the other partner away.
For instance: you might go for a date and you keep acting as if he/ she is pressuring you or wasting your time.
Resist the urge of playing games and try to appreciate the other partner’s effort in making your day great.

7. Meet new people
This is time to go out there and meet people. You can’t be hiding inside your house and be wishing for prince charming or Cinderella to find you.
Hey! You only find the right one for you if you associate with people.
Though, finding love takes effort. Don’t wish to stumble on your perfect soulmate rather you go out there and find one for yourself.
You can go to seminars, church programs, friends’ parties, join a club, go shopping and find where young or old people gather a lot.
This will help you gain a better understanding of what you want in a partner instead of writing them down and be waiting for a miracle to happen.

8. Get a hobby or find out what you can do best.
This is a good start if you want to fall in love with someone that has the same passion/hobby as you.
You can sign up for an activity related to your interest. Maybe, you love dancing, you can join a dancing club or sign up for the class. Find a group in that class and stick together and you will discover that there is more to life than hiding.
Follow your heart on what you love doing best, try to update on it.

Making a name for yourself will help you build self-confidence and will easily attract people towards you.
Nobody wants to date an idle person. You need to get involved in something and you will get to meet other partners in the same field.

9: Always be kind
Good people attract good things. Show kindness to people and don’t be a mole in people’s heart.
Smile always, try to help out where you can, never underestimate people, be sincere with your words, and stay away from negative vibes.
9b Come up with the special qualities that you want in other partners.
This will help you stay focus on what you actually want and when the person comes around, you will know.

This gives you the perceptive of what you want. For instance: you want someone, who is responsible, honest, good-looking, has a good accent, fears God, has a sense of humor, and many of them.

This would keep you on track and helps you differentiate the wrong person from the right one.( remember we don’t have perfect ones either).
I suggest you go for someone that shares the same goals, passion as you.
Physical appearance plays a part but doesn’t make it your top priority cause it fades or something might happen.

10:Try Dating again.
You can try to date again, I believe by now you might have caught someone who seem to be interested in you.
You can give it a try if you want to. Or You might try signing up for online dating (only if you are ready).
Take it slowly and trust your instincts when you meet your partner. This will help you open up your heart to embrace love.

Note: Opening open is so important in building a close relationship. You don’t need to say everything about yourself on the first day. You might get to know the other partner well, Talk about personality and a lot of things. Just take it gradually and let them know, they have the chance to come into your life.

11. Don’t be too quick to discharge someone.
You might meet someone for the first time and you have already concluded that the person is not good enough for you.
Try to have an open mind and don’t give in to judgment without checking the person out.
Likewise at your own part: don’t assume you are not good enough for others to have you around.
Just stay positive, you might catch some feelings and you won’t notice at first. It is a gradual process.

12. Build a lasting connection with your partner.
This is when you have finally gotten the perfect soulmate you have been waiting for.
Building a lasting relationship will always improve your self-growth and keeps you falling deeply in love with your partner.
Few Tips to build a lasting relationship:
• Have a positive curious mindset.
Always find a way to have fun with your partner, enjoy spending time with them, try knowing them better, share your goals, passion with them likewise theirs.

• Try to take it slowly and don’t put too much pressure, they might see it as a burden to them.

• Establish strong communication.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Always find a time to initiate conversation. This helps you two share your hopes, fears, insecurities, happiness, dislikes, likes, share your flaws, your motives, your compatibility.

• Find ways to settle arguments in a healthier way.
This helps when a problem sets in. Instead of shouting at each other, you go for what I call relationship review. This is where you two sit to find out what is wrong then who is wrong.
Some people called it relationship surgery.
It is a tool that helps in building a strong relationship.

• Always discuss your goals and plans with each other.

• Treat your partner as your hero. Create trust, support each other, know that you two are two separate people with different lives. know when your partner needs to be alone and you too(privacy matters so much in a relationship).

• Share new experiences of things you have done. It might be business, places you have been in. This will make your partner want to do more with you.

• Keep moments together. You can go out to have fun, take pictures, visit the zoo, go shopping, cook for each other, exchange gifts, compliment each other.

• Emotional availability matters too. Don’t act as if you are not bothered about them. Be there for your partner and they will always see the true meaning of love.

• Do little act of kindness for each other.
Little thing you do for your partner is a great way to show your lover, you love them.
You can surprise your partner by helping out with chores, cooking, etc. You bring home gifts, leave a note, and give them the best part of you. These matter a lot in building a strong relationship.

13. Allow your relationship to grow on its own than forcing it.
Don’t control the outcome of your relationship. Let it grow naturally and just be patient.
You can’t force love, it comes at its own pace. All you have to do is to wait for it and allow yourself to follow.
If you see yourself controlling it, just take a deep breath and remind yourself why you started.
Sometimes, it doesn’t turn out well but just takes it as an opportunity to learn, and one day, you will find someone that’s right for you, and falling in love becomes not a problem to you.
Finally: Always pray to God to bring your destined one or someone who will love you the way you are. He knows the best for us and he will never fail.

I pray you to find the best version of you and someone who will love you the way you love yourself.



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Chubby girlfriend- Top Reasons why you should date them




Who’s a chubby person?

A chubby person is someone who is plump, fleshing, rounded, or slightly overweight. Also, a chubby person is slightly overweight, has a moderate amount of fat in his or her body. in this article, we’ll be talking about the reasons to consider dating a chubby girlfriend.

Being fat these days seems like a curse to most ladies, because they think fat ladies are mostly rejected by men. many will say if I get fat now, no many will want to marry me”. The perfect idea woman for most men is dating someone who’s slim,  beautiful, having a great skin tone, and model-like in nature.

There are men out there who’re still crazy about chubby girls. A lot of men that married fat women not necessarily mean that they actually wanted it, but along the line they feel in love with the lady.

Ever since I was born, I hated anything called fat. I ran away from most chubby girls who were chasing after me. I was so good at running away from them with the slightest opportunity I have Until met one, then my whole mentality changed. from my little experience then, saw that the power of love can change a whole lot of things. Love can make you do things you never wished or plan to do. She was so irresistible that I had to break my law. I actually had the best relationship with her until we broke up.
Love has nothing to do with shape, size, background, or outward appearance. Therefore a chubby girl should not be denied respect, love, and awesome sex.

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13  Reasons Chubby Girls Make The Best Girlfriends

1.They are not afraid Of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

When you go on a date with her, you’ll have full confidence that they won’t waste your food. They are simply more romantic when you’re out with them eating. They’ll even try eating your meal too. I’ve been on several dates with skinny girls and I ended up regretting buying stuffs for us to eat. slim girls are not the food type.

Chubby girls are not so afraid of gaining weight, because they already have it, so they’ll always want to explore and try new things.  dating a chubby girl will not actually dampen your foodie spirit because they love eating.
Despite all I’ve said, Some men also have this negative feeling, that when they marry a chubby girlfriend, she’ll finish the whole food at home. lol

2. Easy to talk to

Research has shown that fat girls are much easier to talk to. Their ability to talk about anything is what makes them more spectacular. They simply focus on other things rather than their looks. Instead of their physical appearance, they can engage you in tons of topics.

3.Chubby girls are strong


Apart from trying to say that chubby girls have weight, they are really strong emotionally and physically. So Living this way transforms every chubby woman into the epitome of realized confidence! when it comes to things pertaining to emotions, they are strong in absorbing them.

4.Chubby ladies are good in bed

chuuby girls are good in bed

I know you must have said things like, skinny girls are actually the best because they are light weighted and probably good at exploring. When it comes to having sex, fat women have a higher endorphin release, which is the neurotransmitter that makes sex feel AMAZING.
We also have science on our side. St. Andrew’s University researchers discovered that men prefer a chubbier lady in the bedroom over a slim lady.

5. They are charming

They may not be charming as you think. Their looks may not capture you as much, due to their shapeless butt. What they do is that they’ll try to be charming in other areas, such as their social life. They’ll always try to leave a trademark of good attitude that would make you want them the more.

6.She won’t be picked up by any guy.

Like I said In the beginning, guys love dating slim women. So, a guy who has a chubby girlfriend will have a lesser fear of someone trying to steal them away. When you’re dating a chubby girl, you’ll have a lesser worry about traveling away for some time and having the feeling that someone would take your girlfriend from you.

7.Most chubby girls Enjoy Laughing


There is always a joy that springs up whenever you tease a lady and she laughs. Most chubby girls laugh at the easiest jokes you make, even when it’s not so funny. This makes it more amazing to be with them.

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8. It’s soothing to lie on their bosom.

Chubby girlfriends are good at Comforting you especially when you’re stressed or having a problem. This is because your worries tend to billow away like light smoke when you lie on their bosom.

9. Always active and sporty

chubby girls are not lazy as you think. Whether you want to go on a hike, jogging, water sports, or on a road trip, a chubby girlfriend would always want to accompany you. They may look lazy to you because of their physique or health status. The truth is that chubby girls are much more active, sporty, and energetic than other girls.

10. Chubby girls are deep.

When you make a chubby girl your GF, you’ll discover that she’s not just into your hot bod, but also into your goals, dreams, and ambitions.
Chubby girls are inspirers, they are just amazing in so many ways!!

11. They Know How to Drink

Whenever you go out, she won’t just take a bottle of beer and dull your fun moments. Research has shown that women who eat a lot have a better tolerance for alcohol, hence they are able to absorb it very fast. so they have the capacity to take a large quantity of alcohol. Chubby girls are really good at partying very long at night.

12.Not afraid to go outdoor

Dating a chubby girl differs from dating a slim woman. A slim lady may not want to follow you to some social events because of her body image. A fat girl is always proud of herself anywhere she goes. A chubby girlfriend would want to do dirty things with you anytime, anywhere…. She has no fear of her body shaming!!

13. Affectionate

Chubby girls are so romantic.  Fat girls love to hug and cuddle., if you’re the type who loves cuddling a lot, then dating a chubby girl should be my recommendation to you. because their soft skin and big body make it an adventure for you..  You can never be stranded of affection when you date a fat girl, she’d give you an overdose of love.

Wrapping Up

Having a chubby girlfriend isn’t a bad idea. Don’t ever be demotivated by the words of your friends. If you see a girl who’s fat and you like herm, go for her. Always follow your heart if you feel that she’ll give you peace of mind that you desire, then go for her,

ALSO, READ Signs, You Are Not Ready to Date.

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17 signs you are dating your soulmate



How to Identify Your Soulmate


A Soulmate is someone that is divinely made for you, soulmate’s connection It’s a connection of the minds, soulmates have mutual respect, unconditional love, and a total understanding. You are always yourself when you are with your Soulmate, not only does the person connects with you but they understand your thoughts and are right there with you, side by side.

Love chemistry is a unique, special and peculiar connection that exists between soulmates. It’s something you feel not just for anyone but for your soulmate.

Just like chemistry reaction. Love chemistry can be felt and observed. It creates a strong bond between you two, an unrepeatable bond, even when you want to fight it, it’s just there waiting for you to notice it and accept it. It’s a feeling only you can ascertain.

A soulmate is your better half, you feel complete, confident, and safe with that special someone. With your soulmate, you are sure and sincere of what you feel, there is a deep feeling and assurance that you are with the right person, you just know it’s true.

There is a unique chemistry that exists between soulmates its called the “LOVE CHEMISTRY” This love chemistry can only be for your soulmate, it’s a genuine feeling irrespective of status, looks, or personality. It’s a true love feeling and is real.


 Signs you are dating your soulmate


1.You just know it

You just know this is the one, you have a deep feeling that you are with the right person when you meet them. You know this is the perfect one for you, it’s as if there’s a spiritual force leading you to give up everything you initially expected and be completely taken.

2.You have crossed paths

Soulmates are divinely connected people, you must have crossed paths before but at the right time, you meet. You might have met in a bar, petrol station, or you might even live in the same area but haven’t noticed each other, but when the time is right you meet.

3.Your soul connects at the right time

.Your soul connects at the right time

At the right time your soul connects, soulmates are unique people and everything is about timing when it comes to soulmates.It might have to take you to be involved in failed relationships but at the said time your soul connects (Divinely connected).


4.Your quiet space is your peaceful Place.

Whether you are reading in the same room or driving in the car or you are not in the same place, you have an internal connection. That moment of silence gives a peaceful place and an inner peace for you two to bond.

5.You can hear the other person’s silent thought

With soulmate is easy to read each other’s thought even if it’s not verbally expressed. You understand each other perfectly, you put yourself in each other’s shoes, you both understand each other’s stress, pains, and hardship together. The moment they walk in through that door you know how their day went.

 6.You can feel each other’s pain.

You know when your partner is hurt, you feel their pain and help them get over it. You both help each other overcome your pains, stress, and worries. You make each other comfortable and peaceful without any selfish reasons.

7.You know each other’s flaws and the benefits in them.

Yes, it’s true we all have flaws and also benefits. We have our bad and good sides, you look out for the good even when it doesn’t seem good. The good always complements the bad and even the bad have its benefits.

Example: Stubborn people are good at handling issues properly and they are difficult to manipulate, they are good decision-makers, while overly organized people are good at coordinating and putting things in check.


8.You share the same life goals

two sweet couples

You guys have the same ideas, mindset and share similar goals. You may have a different way of accomplishing your goals but you both have the same end result. That’s the unique thing about a soulmate, your same goals make the both of you plan together always which gives you a better understanding of each other and value each other’s opinion and ideas.


 9.You are not afraid of having a conversation.

Initiating a conversation can be very challenging, but in this case, you find it easier to communicate, share your ideas or feelings, you are free to engage in a conversation, you don’t feel belittled or scared to speak your mind. No matter how demeaning it sounds, you let it out knowing that your partner accepts you for who you are.


 10.You are not threatened by the need for alone time.

Your alone time is never a threat to your relationship. Whether he is hanging out with the guys or she is with the girls or in a beach party, or you decide to be alone, you are not perturbed, because you know when you guys come together you have a special moment.


11.You don’t experience jealousy.

Pretty girls at work or handsome guys at the gym or training center doesn’t make you feel jealous because you know you are the only and special one.

12.You respect each other’s opinions and differences.

You sure both have different opinions, ideas, and thoughts because soulmates are polar opposite people, instead of agreeing to disagree with you, allow the other person to complete you. Though it might seem difficult, but you respect each other’s differences and opinions knowing you are both from different backgrounds.


13.You don’t scream, curse or threaten each other with a breakup or divorce.

You respect each other and hold each other in high esteem. You don’t abuse, criticize or underestimate each other or threaten with a divorce. When you have issues you settle them amicably.

14.You give in because you want to make your partner happy.

Giving in when you feel you are right can be very difficult most times, but you rather give in to make your partner happy than making your partner sad, because when your soulmate is happy you are also happy.

 15.You know how to apologize.

Saying sorry when you are at fault or accepting you hurt someone is one of the most difficult things to say or do. You admit you are wrong immediately you discover your partner is hurt, it’s never difficult for you to say sorry.

Soulmates are not punitive, obnoxious, or revengeful, they always find a way to apologize and make up for their mistakes. It doesn’t matter if you feel justified, but immediately you discover your partner is hurt you apologize, because when your partner is hurt you are hurt too.


 16.You would marry each other again.

Yes, it’s true, with soulmates you would marry each other again because you know this is the one and the only person for you.No other people can fit into your life.

Even in crisis, stress, challenges, and misunderstanding, you choose your soulmate again, because you guys understand each other and make up for your differences.


17.You complete each other

Soulmates complete each other, they are polar opposite people attracted to each other. One might be social or simple, extrovert or introvert, they both complete each other. Their polar opposite differences complement their character which enables them to fit into each other properly.



Soulmates are like locks without the right key you can’t open it. You are the lock, Your soulmate is the key that can fit into your life and make it a better place to dwell. Soulmates are divinely connected people made to spend their lives eternally together. Two souls attracted and connected to each other to complete each other.

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10 Simple Hack to make a girl send Her Nudes



How Do I Make A Girl Send Nudes


Getting a Nude from a girl is not as easy as you may think. A lot of ladies out there have has bad experiences with some guys who leaked their nudes on the internet. Even at that a lot of girls in this world still send nudes to guys, but the problem here is “how to initiate it?”. If you’re wondering or asking questions like “how can I make a girl send nudes”, then Keep reading this. A lot of girls out there don’t even buy the idea of sending a naked picture to a guy.

The major reason why a girl will never send you her nude is because of what might happen in the future, she might wake up one morning to see that her picture is all over the internet.  Several years ago, while I was still in the University, the nude photos of a beautiful girl were leaked online.  Immediately she saw it, she tried to jump off a cliff in order to commit suicide, and luckily she was saved by her friends. From this short story, you’ll see that such a girl will never send a guy nude ever, no matter how sweet-talking or trickish the guy might be.


This article is NO MAGIC, we will rather simply give you guidelines that will help you get those nude from her and also help you to maintain your integrity even if she doesn’t agree to send you. if you don’t choose words wisely and thread with caution, the girl will start seeing you as an irresponsible guy.

These are the top 5 comments I got from ladies when I asked them about sending nudes to guys.

  • I can’t even try that!!
  • Never!!
  • I’ll only send it to him when I know I’m married to him.
  • He’ll rather see my nude live than sending it to him.
  • I’m not a p0rn st@r, I wasn’t brought up that way.
  • That’s a sin I cant try it..
  • As far his my husband, if he asks me politely I’ll gladly send it to him, after all, I’m his and he’s mine.

The bitter truth here is that some people still send nudes to their partners the way people send good morning messages.  Men aren’t supposed to beg for nudes because nudes should come as a gift from them.

3 Things to know before asking a girl to send nudes

1.How long have you known her?: This should be the first question, that you should ask yourself before asking her for her nudes. You can’t meet a girl today and you’re asking her to send nudes, it’s never going to work. Rather she’ll insult you and put your perverted self where you belong.

2.Know how religious she is: before requesting a nude from a girl, the few time you’ve spent with her you’d be able to know if she’s a religious person. If you fail to know about this, when you eventually ask for it, she might even start telling people how irresponsible you are. She’ll tell her church members that you lack manner, home training, and respect for women,

3.Check if free and Very open with you: Examine how free she is with you when you tell her things. if she’s so strict and hard to penetrate, then you need to take things really slow.

How to ask a girl for her nude easily ()

If you want to learn how to ask for a nude politely, then you’ll need to read till the end. If you want to ask them for a nude, never try to ask it directly. Things like this are done in a corny way gradually, till you get what you want.

Anything that you’re doing should flow according. just because you’re crushing on her doesn’t mean you’ll just tell her “send nude”. When you do that she’ll gradually lose respect and regard for you. if she’ll send you a nude pic, you’ll actually perceive signs before she does. She might decide to say words like ” I just bought a hot bra” or something deeper than this. Then you can boldly tell her “hello sugar, ill like to see it on you, how about that (wink emoji)”

1.Make sure she’s comfortable around You

For you to easily get a nude from her, then you need to make her comfortable. A girl would never send a nude pic to someone she not comfortable with. Hence, create an amazing atmosphere, whenever she’s around you. Always appear trustworthy. Girls are so smart that they records of things you say. If you tell a girl something that isn’t so nice today, in the next three years, there is a 100% chance that she’ll remind you of what you say in the exact words. Make her feel safe even when you’re around other ladies,’

2.Don’t Ever Try to send your Nude to Her

This is what so many guys do and it’s very disgusting to most ladies. Some time ago, I was with a very close female friend while i was with her,  she asked me to help her reply  her messages on Facebook messenger. While I was chatting,  a young man stumbled on her account. I began to chat with this guy, not up to 10 minutes, I started chatting with him, he started confessing his love and before I opened my eyes, he sent a picture of his d**k, gosh!! I was so ashamed.  A guy may do this because he thinks she’ll return the favor, and this might never happen. If she asks for a picture of your d**k, then it’s fine, you can send it if you want to send. it’s better for her to ask you to send and naturally expect her to send hers to you someday.

“ what you say today can actually hurt that beautiful moment when she’s almost sending you nudes.”

3.Don’t Use wrong emoji’s:

This could be funny, but please don’t try it!! don’t send an eggplant and a water drop emoji Except you guys are so free to talk about anything with each other.

#never send pictures of your dick.

4. Try to Initiate Sexting

initiate sexting

Because I said sexting doesn’t mean you should just jump right into it at the beginning of the conversation. There are perfect times for this. If she’s a busy person, then you shouldn’t be initiating it at work. The best time to sexting her is at night or early hours of the day. Apart from initiating sexting at night, you can also do that at noon. But before you do that you’ll need to know if she at home or at work.  if she’s at home and she tells you, I’m seeing a movie or  I’m just trying to read a novel, then you should just opt-out.

There’s always an opportunity for sexting you could start by saying, “do you know that I’m secretly turned on whenever I’m with you? I just didn’t want to tell you.”. just start from somewhere…  teasing her using her eyes, nose, lips, or her body structure. The real truth is that if you can have a s*x chat with each order at least 3 times, be rest assured that you’re very close to getting what you want.

If she saying lets s*x chat, then you can ask her while the fun the reaching its peak.

NB; if your relationship with her is not intimate, forget about asking her for a nude.

5.Ask for her pic

You’d probably be asking yourself if you don’t have her pictures.  while chatting with her you can tell her to send a Hot pic. or if she’s going out, you can as well tell her to take a sexy pic. just tease her by telling her that you’d like to change your display picture to the most beautiful and sexiest girl in the world.

6.Use Funny Memes or stickers to get naughty

You can google  #sendnudesmeme and send to her, or use sticker to get naughty. when you do this,  you’ll start planting seeds in her heart that would make her want to send her pic. This is actually preparation in disguise.  She might be waiting for you to send her those naughty memes because she’s also in for what you’re looking for.

7.Give Her Outstanding/hot compliments

Whenever she’s dresses always give her amazing compliments, don’t just give her the normal regular reply a guy would give. Make her feel she’s the prettiest girl in town.’

8.Ask her for it when you know it’s time.

When you’ve done everything you need to do to make her want to send it to you, you can simply tell her that you would like to see the cuteness of her b**bs, she may definitely ask why? But before she asks why, just tell her that if she doesn’t feel safe putting her face in the photo, then she shouldn’t add her face. This will make her have more respect, confidence, and trust in you. she may then decide to send it without putting her face.

But if you start bugging her on why she didn’t add her face in the video or photo, you may end up turned,. Because she’ll start suspecting you want to expose her.

9.Work Hard:

If you must get success in what you do, then working hard shouldn’t be a big deal right? So you have to put in the work! Make her your project till you get what you want. If you’re probably a married man and your wife is far off, then the workload might not be tedious. All you need to do is to be Nice and romantic till you get what you want.

 “a slow and steady win’s the race”.

 “patience is a virtue”

10.Appreciate Her:

Appreciate her to the fullest when she finally sends you the nude. Also, tease her even if she might be so ugly.

Wrapping Up

Nudes are made to be kept confidential. No matter how intimate you may be to the girl, never feel bad if she shuns you down. In fact, she has every right to tell you NO so stop pestering her against her will. I bet you if you follow these tips you’ll have a 70% success rate for any girl you MEET.

 ALSO, READ How to identify or spot a crush


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