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FALLING IN LOVE! – ALL YOU SHOULD KNOW

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FALLING IN LOVE!

 

Hello to you, dear readers

Let’s talk.

We are going to talk about being in love, mhmm, yes. Many of us have no idea how wonderful it is. We just call it a ‘fling,’ and before we know it, we end that ‘fling‘ which should have turned onto something beautiful.

 

WHAT IS LOVE?

Love has so many definitions. Many people have said this.

_love is pain

_love is hurtful

_love is fear

_love is brave

_love is magical

_love is beautiful

_love is peace.

_love is patient

_love is tolerance, and so on.

There isn’t one specific definition to love. From my view, I’d just say love is the act of being brave.

Is love suffering oneself just because this other person brings you Joy?

Love is happiness.

But still, nothing in this life is perfect.

 

People say one-sided love is the best. But I do not believe that! How can I be the only one dishing out the love when I know for sure it’s not coming from you.

They say love is blind.

But I know for sure it’s not, infatuation is.

Many people have no idea that there is a difference between love, lust, infatuation, and obsession. We will get to that.

Here’s a quote I got somewhere it’s from a book I read.

“Love is beautiful fear.”

Another goes like this.

“When you love someone you let them go”, until I read somewhere else.

“If you love someone and let them go, you lose them like a drop of blood”. And this particular one got to me.

In other words, when you say love is patient, it can also be impatient, where you say love is beautiful; it can also be ugly when you say it’s healing. It can also be hurting.

And sometimes you have to fight for that one person who you truly love.

You don’t just give up because you heard stuff about them. That’s why it’s called “tolerance”.

n.b: Don’t you ever let something that belongs to you go to another.

LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT?

When you say at first sight, what exactly does it mean?

Jessi works out of the store into the street; she sips her juice adjusts her bag, and just as she’s about crossing the road, her eyes lands on this beautiful dress that’s on a doll.

It’s beautiful, she mutters and crosses the road to get it with a smile.

Now, in this scenario, I tag it at first sight. Jessi walks out of a store, and what she sees once she steps out into the street is that beautiful dress.

Helda sips her drink she’s lost in thought. How could he have betrayed her trust like this? She takes another sip and shakes her head.

“Mind if I join you?”, Someone asks. It irritated her when people bothered her when it was clear she wanted her peace of mind.

 

She prepared to ignore him or say no. She glanced up slowly with a frown, but it quickly died when she saw him.

He just stood there, smiling down at her.

She thought she felt butterflies in her tummy; he is cute! She thought.

Where would you place this scenario is it love at first sight?

Many people might say it is, but IS IT?

To me, love, at first sight, is far-fetched. That shit is a little bit scary, I believe in annoying at first sight funny right? Or maybe admiration at first sight.

You may meet someone for the first time, and you both could have this perfect vibe that many people would mistake for love when sometimes it’s just lust.

Sometimes it’s just chemistry.

Love is something that grows along the way; having a crush on someone is different from falling in love with that person.

I no overtime a crush might develop into love, but if you ain’t careful, that love might end up being one-sided and can lead to heartbreak.

You can’t just wake up one morning, stretch out and tell yourself “today I will make sure I fall in love”, but you can wake up one morning to realize “oh my God I’m in love with her or I’m in love with him”, that’s when reality eventually hits. You experience this beautiful feeling that sometimes can’t be explained.

You just want to keep spending time with this person; you can’t stay around them without wanting to touch them every minute you get.

“Friends were friends and lovers were Lovers”.

It’s a saying I have heard so often, and along the line, I found out it was true.

You can make a lover out of a friend, but you can’t make a friend out of a lover. It’s not easy.

Tell me, how can you tell someone you’ve dated for more than a month someone you loved at one point, and they loved you too, that “I don’t think I’m interested anymore, let’s just be friends”, how do you think that sounds?

How do you think you can cope? No matter how strong you feel you are, that person was your one weakness at some point.

You can’t see that person as a friend all the time. There will be an ignition of that tiny spark again.

So sometimes I advise people it’s better you just let go permanently.love is beautiful

 

LUST or LOVE

We’ve discussed love now let’s see what lust is.

Lust is a strong feeling of desire; it’s sometimes sexual. No, did I say sometimes?

Let’s rephrase it’s a strong feeling of desire that is sexual.

That’s why I said that many people mistake Lust for Love.

The first time Andy met Debby was at a friend’s birthday party.

A friend of a friend had invited her, that was her explanation.

“And now she’s ditched me for this other guy who she’s just met…like I can’t believe her. Debby knows I no no one here and she just decided to ditch me just like that”, and she talked a lot, he nodded took a sip of his drink just when he thought she was done she turned to him again, “I love the way the lights hang low here…I even like the color it’s really beautiful”.

She was dramatic; he could have left her sure if only his sister Nina had come back from the bathroom, he wondered what exactly she was doing there.

“Hey stranger…”, He turned to her not because she had called him stranger, but because her voice had changed.

She smiled. Her eyes twinkled.

“I’ve been talking, and you haven’t said a thing…well I’m Debby what’s your name?”,

Within the space of a few mins, he realized one thing about her. When she wasn’t rambling and talking too much, her voice sounded sexy.

“Andy”, he replied

“Oh Andy, that’s a nice name…”, He turned her out.

Nina came back. He left Debby’s side. He had never liked women who talked a lot.

The second time he met her was at a club, he had acted like he hadn’t seen her, but she had come over to him.

 

Heyyyyyy I know you! Andy right?”, He nodded, “I knew it”,

She looked good enough to eat in a red bodycon dress with a split in front.

Some hours later, Andy stripped it off her in the back seat of his car.

The third time he stripped her dress off was at a cheap motel. But they both didn’t give a damn.

Andy thought he was falling in love with this woman.

Debby knew it was only a fling. When Andy told her he felt he might be in love with her, she turned to him smile

“Darling, you’re going to realize what you feel soon”. But he didn’t understand, every little time he spent with her was never enough.

He knew it was love.

Until she left him without an explanation months later, he was heartbroken. The only woman he had come to love had left him just like that.

He slowly began to understand when he met Miriam that with Debby, it had never been love, but Andy knew he had enjoyed it all while it lasted.

I hope it’s not so confusing in this scenario, but this is what happens these days.

Andy and Debby’s story is something that’s happening all the time; many people eventually end up with the wrong people because they mistake lust for love.

And it’s never easy to differentiate them.

Reality.

 

What’s Infatuation:

Infatuation is an immensely strong love or sexual attraction.

The difference between Lust and Infatuation is very little.

People say love is blind, but I do not think so, I said it earlier that infatuation is.

Do you love them? Or just the idea of them? Or just the idea of being with them?

 

Infatuation isn’t love honey.

The moment you fall in love with someone, you start seeing them differently, because of love… it’s all-seeing, it’s accepting, seeing the darkness in that person and willing to stand by them, willing to be the light in their darkest days.

It’s like this because you think you love that special someone until you see how they act when they are hungry, under pressure, broke, in pain, sleep and eat in their natural environment or the moment they wake up in the morning. Love isn’t seeing someone’s mistakes and flaws and just leaving them alone.

When you are in love and not infatuated or obsessed or lust, you defy the urge to jump ship. You learn to be patient and kind even when you ain’t that kind of person.

You eventually learn to tolerate their filthy habits.

You learn to teach them.

 

Falling In Love:

When eventually you fall for someone, you’d realize how beautiful that feeling is. It feels like you are floating, sometimes you are unable you think straight.

Here are some quotes I got somewhere.

The first best is falling in love, second-best being in love, and Least good is falling out of love. But any of it is better than never having been in love.

—Maya Angelou (it’s beautiful right)

 

In life, you have to take the pace that love goes. You don’t force it. You just don’t force love, you don’t force falling in love, you don’t force being in love – you just become. I don’t know how to say that in English, but you just feel it.

—Juan Pablo Galavis

(You just feel)

 

She wasn’t exactly sure when it happened. Or even when it started. All she knew for sure was that right here, and now, she was falling hard, and she could only pray that the feeling is mutual.

 

—Nicholas Sparks. (Sometimes the pain it brings is unpredictable)

 

The saddest thing about falling in love is that sooner or later, something will go wrong.

—Unknown (Eventually life isn’t a bed of roses)

 

I was falling and falling through time and space and stars and sky and everything in between. I feel for days and weeks and what felt like a lifetime across lifetimes. I fell until I forgot I was falling.

—Jess Rothenberg

 

I think falling in love is always a surprise, right?

—Josh Dallas (It is)

 

Isn’t that how falling in love so often works? Some stranger appears out of nowhere and becomes a fixed star in your universe.

—Kate Bolick.

 

I hope you get to experience this beautiful scenario.

I hope yours gets to last forever.

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How To Break Up With A Married Man With Ease

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You tapped on this post because you’re in a situation like this and you feel guilty for dating another woman’s husband or you’re just tired of the relationship. But here’s the thing, you want to get out and you don’t know how to. So let’s press play and start this journey together. You want to know how to break up with a married man?……SOLUTION AWAY!

Now a lot of women out there get into relationships like this for reasons best known to them and because of those reasons they don’t see how unreasonable it is, literally, logically basically and practically unreasonable. But you tapped this post because you already see that it’s unreasonable and you just can’t keep up with.

Here’s the good news, you’re half way through the solution.

Now breaking up with a married man would require the following procedures:

8 Sure way to break Up with a Married Man

1: Put God first

This is the most essential part of making any decision in life even something as ‘Sinful’ as this. Basically it is called adultery, so you’re committing a sin with a married man, Even though the sin is more on the man, you’d still be seen as a partaker of it. Remember a sin is a sin, and when you’re involved you have committed a sin.

What does God say about adultery?

Hebrews 13:4

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

It says here that you’d judged for being adulterous, why would you want to face God’s wrath for just a few months of pleasure. Just be assured that, that married man would always pick his wife over you.

1 Corinthians 15:33

Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”

It shows that it corrupts you, it reduces your dignity and the standard that you may have built for yourself, you become a shadow of your own self.

1 Corinthians 7:2

But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

The bible gives an alternative, Get yours and don’t reap the fruit you did not sow.

Matthew 5:28

But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

This explains the side of the man, as long as the man looks at you, he’d always commit a sin because all he would need you for is sex!

Genesis 2:24

Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

With this, You dating a married man means you’ve hindered the main ordinance of marriage, Coming Into the life of a married man means you’ve broken a bond that was made by God.

Luke 16:18

“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.

This is self explanatory. It buttresses the point of the former when It means you’ve broken a bond created by God. But this is seen in another context and still makes the same point. Whatever makes you date a married man who had been divorced is not love but lust, or just admiration for what he claims to be. Succumbing to him only makes you commit adultery. This generation doesn’t even see the absurdness of this, but putting God first makes you see this.

1 Corinthians 6:18

Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.

The bible also see this as sexual immorality! Which means you don’t just sin against God but against yourself. That’s a loss on both sides!

2 Corinthians 6:14

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?

Even though the man doesn’t see how wrong it is, be the first to make that move, do the right thing. You basically don’t belong together, if you are a Christian, what relationship does your righteousness have with such lawlessness?

These are questions you must ask yourself

Ephesians 5:33

However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

Make the man know this. His lust/love for you shouldn’t be in the picture if he claims to truly love his  wife. It is God’s commandment and he must follow it.

Read through the rest of the bible verses and drop your questions in the comments zone.

Malachi 2:16

“For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”

Proverbs 18:22

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.

1 Corinthians 7:39

A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.

Matthew 19:5

And said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?

Genesis 2:18

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”

1 Corinthians 7:9

But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

Read your Bible on a daily basis, pray and always communicate with God your solution comes quicker that way.

After putting God first, The “how” and the “When” comes in.

How and when do you break up with a married man

2: Do a reality check

Face reality, he’s not the one for you, you’d always be a mistress to him, you’re only needed when he needs you and not when you need him. You have no true emotional support, you’d still be left alone to live for life on your own. Your only usefulness is quench is sexual urge or desire.

3: Become independent

Most women go into relationships like this because you feel like that’s what you deserve, to be pampered and showered money when you want or need it. You feel you should have everything on a platter of gold, but think about this properly you can make that money on your own and even more. All you have to do is believe in yourself that you can do it without the help of any man. Say daily affirmations to yourself everyday, encourage yourself. Stop blaming yourself for whatever guilt you have and own up to it. Face your mistakes and fix it. Start up a business of your own. Save up some money. You can become successful without the help of a Married Man!

4: Try to scare him off

Now testing a man’s love for his wife or the fear of losing his married is quite easy. This is where the intellect comes in. Try the pregnancy scare. Tell him you’re pregnant. His reaction would determine your next action. Not all men would accept it and some men would also accept. If he doesn’t accept it, that’s your cue to leave!  Now if he accepts it that means you have to work with option B. Ask him to file a divorce with his wife. Trust me, no man would want to lose his marriage to a woman he barely loves.

In rare cases the man might want to file the divorce. So just go straight to the point!

5: Tell his wife

This would actually be the best thing to do it trying to scare him off doesn’t work, tell his wife. Telling his wife does two things in one

  • Clearing the feeling of guilt that you have: This would make you free. It’s the truth so it would always set you free, you’d feel the burden lifted of your shoulders.
  • The fact that his children might hate you: While doing a reality check, you’d find out that if you end up getting married to that man, his children might hate you for life. Trust me if a child hates you, you’d barely survive in that house. So telling the wife actually saves you the stress.

6: Seek Counsel

You can talk to your best friend about it, or someone you trust, or an older person that might have had such experience or even a mother figure in your life. Talking about it with someone would also go a long way relieving you from that feeling of guilt

7: Cut ties

At this point breaking up with him would be very easy. Tell him how you really feel about the whole situation then let him go his way and find yours.

8: Get yourself back

Build back that standard for yourself. Make yourself happy again. Channel your mind to finding love when the time is right and work on getting yourself back.

In conclusion

Breaking up with a married man may not be an easy process, but the result is what really matters. You can get out of such relationship, just acknowledge that it’s a problem and work towards the outline given above. You can get yourself back. You can be happier. And your happiness is what really

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10 Sure Signs Your Ex Regrets Dumping You

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Being in love is a beautiful thing and being loved back by your partner is the best feeling ever. You would never want to lose such a beautiful relationship, however, never say never.

You should understand that, not all relationships lead to a happy ending as a lot of them ends in premium tears. Break-ups in relationships are inevitable especially when your partner is not committed to the relationship. Being dumped by your girlfriend/boyfriend can be so devastating and the most painful feeling that you can experience in your life. After breakup, you will begin to wonder what went wrong in the relationship and you will have many unanswered questions. Some of the frequent questions running through your head might be if your partner has really moved on or if he/she regrets dumping you.

For the latter, you begin to look out for signs that show your ex regrets dumping you. Now let’s take a look at 10 common signs to be wary of:

10 SIGNS YOUR EX REGRETS DUMPING YOU

1.They keep communication alive.

“They say out of sight is out of mind”. However, the ex that claims to be over you still has you in mind if he or she keeps communication alive by constantly sending unsolicited texts to you. They will always initiate communication with you and ask all sorts of personal questions so as to get you talking. This may indicate that they are not truly over you and might want you back.

In cases where it may have been a while since he/she dumped you, but out of the blues, you begin to receive texts regularly from your ex asking about your well-being and all that, may indicate he/she wants you back.

Either way, they still care about you and feel some sort of regret for dumping you. It may be a sign you’re about getting back together.

 ALSO, READ Signs You Are Not Ready to Date

2 .They always want to hang out with you. 

Dude, you just dumped me, yet you are seeking for my attention! This is one of the best signs your ex regrets dumping you. Your ex simply still misses you and derives some sort of happiness being around you. His/her feelings for you are still intact and might think about you often.

So if your ex shows a sign of wanting to always hang out with you, perhaps, they are looking for the right moment to tell you they are still interested in the relationship.

3.They apologize for dumping you.

they apologies

When your ex finally realizes his/her mistake for breaking up with you and how hurt you must have been, they will apologize to you. This is because they obviously regret dumping you and would want to have you back in their life. 

4.They can’t stop keeping tabs on you.

When your ex begins to ask about your private life from your friends and keeps talking about you trying to know who you’re dating next, then that’s a sign of regret for dumping you.

They are always the first to like or comment on any post you make on your social media platforms even when you shut them out of your page. This obviously indicates he/she regrets the decision of dumping you.

5.They become extremely nice and caring than before. 

When an ex suddenly becomes more loving and caring towards you after dumping you, he/she probably regrets breaking up with you. Perhaps, they are trying to get back to you by being loving and affectionate even more than they did when you were still dating. They begin to shower you with so many gifts and love to show how remorseful they were for breaking up with you.

When you notice this, it is a good sign that your ex regrets dumping you and cares about your feelings.

6.They keep talking about the happy memories you guys had.

This is another good sign that your ex regrets dumping you when they are reminiscing the good times you had together. They begin to remember how you both made a great team together and realize it was actually a bad decision letting you go.

So if you hear your ex still talking about the best memories you had together and share them with you, it could possibly mean he/she misses you and would still want to create more positive memories with you.

ALSO, READ SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION

7.They suddenly got dumped too.

Yes, your ex can get rejected too by another person and will probably regret dumping you. They will understand that you actually loved them more, you wanted them to be happy and supported them in their worse moments. Right there, they will regret treating you badly and miss your love for them. They will realize that they lost something that meant a lot to them and would probably want to run back to you.

So if your ex lacks the courage to work through his/her current difficulties, it might indicate regrets for dumping you.

8.They are feeling depressed and lonely. 

they feel depressed

This is not a feeling that comes immediately they break up with you; rather, it is a gradual process. At first, they might feel in control and experience this feeling of freedom and power from the decision of dumping you. However, after few weeks, they will inevitably feel the loneliness and depression that accompanies a breakup.

When loneliness sets in, they begin to reminisce on the wonderful memories with you and a sense of regret from dumping you starts setting in. Although, an ex might move on and be happy but when this doesn’t happen, then he/she is obviously regretting the decision.

9.They can’t stop flirting with you.  

 Flirting is a sign of attraction and when an ex still flirts with you; it means they are still fascinated about you. The attraction and attachment was never lost and they regret not being romantically involved with you.

10.They beg you for another chance.

This is most likely to happen when an ex regrets their decision for dumping you and it is also your decision to accept the plea or move on. When an ex still loves you, then they will look for any means to get you back.  

Final thoughts

When you observe these signs from your ex, it indicates your ex still  loves  you and might want you back. But don’t be in a haste to take him back, I know this might seem difficult especially when you still love your ex a lot. let them woo you again and fight for you so that  you will be valued  more. If you make it easy, your ex might just end up taking you for granted again.

ALSO, READ 10 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULDN’T DATE YOUR FRIEND’S EX

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How To Spoil Your Man (Experts Advice)

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It feels so good to be showered with love, care, and attention, you know that feeling when your man spoils you with gifts and surprises.

Everyone loves the idea of been spoilt, it’s not meant for a particular gender.

Women rarely think of how to spoil their men or make them feel loved. If you are among the few women thinking of how to treat your man right then you are very close to winning his heart forever. Men also need to be loved and cared for, they need our attention too, it mustn’t be all about us.

Generally, women are used to being loved and cared for by their men and they feel to realize that they also need that tender care from their women.

You don’t need to wait for a special event before you show him some love. You can surprise him with a lovely gift, a love note, or even a surprise dinner for just the two of you. Men also crave for these things, you shouldn’t always expect to receive love and care but learn to extend it to them.

If you have been thinking of how to make your man feel special and loved or you want to communicate how much you love him, then below are some useful tips on how to spoil your boyfriend.

Best ways on how to spoil your man (12 Proven Tips)

1. Give him a massage

A massage will make a great deal for him especially when he just returns from the day’s activity. Men love the soft tender touch of a woman, it relieves them of their stress having you around makes them forget how stressful and tiring their day went.

ALSO, READ How to make a guy fall in love with you

2. Suprise him with his favorite home-cooked meal

COOK FOR YOUR MAN

Cooking for your man is one of the best ways to spoil him

There is a saying that, the easiest way to a man’s heart is his stomach. This adage is still working. if you want to please your man, prepare his favorite meal by yourself. Men love the taste of home meals. Eating out is great, but you can never measure the joy in a man’s heart when he eats the food prepared by his WOMAN for him.

3. Send him unexpected text messages

Sending messages shouldn’t be left for men to do alone, you know how you feel when you just receive a love text message from your man. That feeling of love that flows like an electric current, which makes you happy all day.

You should also do so, let him have that same feeling. You can send him while at work or even when he is sitting on the couch focused on the newspaper.

4. Spoil him with random gifts.

spoil him with random gifts

Men also love gifts, the fact that they rarely mention it doesn’t mean they don’t value or appreciate it when you buy them a gift. It will be nice if you buy your man a gift, especially something he has been craving for; this single act will make him love you more.

You must not wait till his birthday, Valentine’s Day, or Christmas to buy him a gift. let your gift come unexpectedly, it will be more appreciated.

Give him a valuable gift and tell him how much he means to you. Let him know you cherish every moment spent with him.

 

5. Leave him a Love Note

Leaving love notes triggers his emotions, which indicates he is always on your mind. It could be on the stairs, in his briefcase or suit pocket, wherever that seems right to you; Just make it brief and romantic. Here are some samples of a romantic love letter to keep for him.

 

6. Buy him flowers.

buy him flowers

The idea of buying flowers has been thought to be for women alone, flowers depict love; so it’s not a gender thing. Get your man some beautiful lovely flowers with a nice fragrance, you will have him all around you.

ALSO, READ Cute Paragraphs For Him After An Argument

7. Plan a date night

Wow! A date night doesn’t sound romantic, sure it does. Just imagine what it will look like when your man comes back from the day’s work and he meets you all dressed for dinner, with the table set with different dishes. It will be a very wonderful scene to behold.

You can also plan an outside date, it mustn’t be an in-door date, it could be in a nice restaurant, just make the dinner romantic, let the moment be memorable and remarkable.

8. Give him compliments

Just as women love to be flattered and complimented, men also love to be complimented, it triggers their “Hero instincts”. It shows that you appreciate them and you love them the way they are without having any reservations.

9. Plan a surprise

A surprise event can actually do in this case, it could be a surprise party for his birthday, your marriage anniversary or to celebrate his promotion. This will really mean alot to him.

10. Take care of his laundry

wash his clothes

This is a rare task, these days you rarely see women washing their husband’s clothes. So doing his laundry simply means you care about him and his looks and you want him to always be at his best.  do his laundry and make him happy, it really means alot to them to see their women taking care of their personal belongings.

11. Plan a romantic weekend getaway.

This is an opportunity for the two of you to be together, having a quality time alone to bond and make up for the times lost. It must not be work always.

plan for a vacation or a weekend and enjoy the best of the moment.

12. Go on a mini road trip.

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A mini trip is just like a short vacation or a short-distance trip to rekindle your love and ease you guys of the stress from your daily activities. It mustn’t be an expensive trip, the most important thing is the bonding and quality time spent together.

 

13. Get the ingredients for a new recipe and cook dinner together.

Go to the market and get some new recipes to prepare a nice dinner, you too can cook the food together, this is one of the most wonderful moments. The last time I did this with my husband he was so happy and he wished we do it often.

14. Watch the sunset.

watch the sun set

Have you ever watched a movie where two lovers sit together holding hands or cuddle each other watching the sunset? You observe the vibe and the beautiful romance in that picture,try and practice same with your man.It is a moment for you guys to feel each other and express your love for each other.

15. Spend the day together with your phones turned off.

Our phones and other personal gadgets can distract us and make us distant from our partners. These days, couples rarely have time for each other because of social media.

Try spending time together with your phones off, to avoid distractions and keeping you away from your partner. The more time you spend together the closer you guys become and the stronger your love for each other.

 

A little more piece

Spoiling a man doesn’t make you look cheap or desperate for his love and attention. The more you care for him, the closer you are to his heart his love for you increases. It’s nice to reciprocate the gesture he shows towards you as well.

Men wish to be loved too and pampered, treat them like your hero, your baby, and your partner. The love we desire from them is also what they desire.

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