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what girls want in the morning

Women are the most complicated species on this planet. They might silently want something but won’t tell you. Especially how they want their day to start off with( the waking and romantic sides). There are some certain things every woman wants in the morning but will never tell you and they expect you to know them.
And sometimes, you find them weird and they won’t stop pissing you off till you get to do some research about them. Here, I got you covered and I know you are a good spouse that wants your woman’s happiness, and these little secrets are going to bring back another spark of love in your relationship.
Here are some tips of what every woman expects from you in the morning and won’t let you know.

1.They Want You To Wake Them Up Like Babies.

Nothing gives a woman a greater joy than being wake up like a baby by her man. She wants you to cuddle her and whisper something that will send some shivers all over her body. They always want you to treat them like they are the most fragile beings on Earth.
This is the part I enjoy from my man especially those sweet moments, and I love his arms around my body. This keeps my day as warm as a morning brewed coffee.

2.They Want To Be Kissed In The Morning.

morning kiss
I’m not talking about hot kisses. You know that cool, gentle pecking on the cheeks that leads to passionate kis$ing on the lips? That’s the type every woman wants. It has been scientifically proven that kissing a woman in the morning helps to boost her happy hormones and increase her affection towards you.
Trust me, we love that more than the “ I love you,” we hear every day. It makes us feel like we are the best thing that happened to you and it creates room for more bonds.

3. They Want To Be Asked How Their Night Was After Waking Up.

Apparently, this is the first thing she wants to hear from you when she wakes up. It makes her feel special and thankful for having a man, who is concerned about her well-being and how she slept at night. This gives her room to always talk about you whenever she is with her friends cause she wants to show them that you are the perfect man for her.
If you are not close to her, you might send a morning text with a lovely emoji. This is the most important part of what every woman wants in the morning but will never tell you.

4.They Want To Be Told How Beautiful They Are.

Yummy, my man knows how to create those ‘butterflies in my belly’ feelings whenever we are together. He will look into my eyes and whisper into my ear that he is lucky to have me, and I am the most beautiful woman he has ever met. I will giggle and keep smiling like a baby.
Telling your woman how beautiful she is, will only leave her feeling good for the rest of the day. You will see her smiling to herself and always want to check herself in the mirror. This is the good start of winning a woman’s heart and making her fall so deeply for you.

5. They Want To Be Told How They Are Loved.

Telling her those words “I love you.” in the morning has a long effect on her mood for the rest of the day. She wants you to tell her every second of the day and mind you, in a romantic way. Not that “I love you” with a harsh or high-pitched voice. You can write it down and keep it where she can see it. Maybe, places like:

• on the dinner table. She will always see it when she goes to set the table for breakfast.
• on the mirror of a steamy bathroom. This is good and eye-catching. I love this part.
• Inside her diary, notebook, or favorite bag she goes out with.
• on the kitchen door or on a mug filled with warm coffee. That is a perfect place you can keep your love notes.
• you can paste it on the fridge door. She will always find it when getting something off the fridge, and this makes them feel special.

6. They Want To Be Told How Lucky You Are To Have Them In Your Life.

Every woman wants to hear her man say that to her especially in the morning. She wants to be appreciated and see that, she is everything you asked for. She wants to feel like a Godsent gift in your life. This triggers her love hormones more and she won’t regret having you too.

7. They Want A Breakfast In Bed.

breakfast on bed

breakfast on bed

Oh, yeah! I love seeing my man carrying that tray of freshly toasted bread with a cup of well-brewed brown tea to MY bed in the morning. He will make me sit and feed me too. So romantic to eat from his hands and been fed like a kid!!!

Who doesn’t want her man to give her the best morning treat, huh? Even you guys want the same. Breakfast on the bed gives room to a happy marriage. Not like you do it every day but at least, once or twice a week keeps her talking about it till the year runs out. This is the best part of having a romantic husband, who knows what a woman wants. You don’t need a prophet to tell you, she will be happy if you do that. That’s the key to unlock certain things in your relationship. She will always want to cling to you and will not look at other guys cause to her, “ you are all she prayed for.”

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8. They Want You To Carry Them Out Of Bed.

Every lady wants to be carried out of bed always. I really love it when he runs his hand on my hair and lifts me up from the bed, straight to the bathroom, and fills my brush will toothpaste to do my thing.
Awwww! Why wouldn’t I love him? These are small things you need to do if you want to create a stronger bond in your relationship. Even when you are not around, leave a text that reminds her of how you missed the warmth of her hands in your arms.

• Tell her, you want to carry her always and you are happy doing that.
• Tell her, she is your baby and you love her body in your arms.
• Let her know, you love the way she smiles and shy away.
• Give her room to know that, without her, you are incomplete.

9. They Want You To Wake Them Up For Prayers.

Not like they don’t want to do it by themselves but having a man, who wants to see the progress and the well-being of his family is what every woman prays for.
Truthfully, you have won the battles of life. Every woman wants a life partner, who knows God and always wants to lead them to Him. Waking your partner for morning prayer gives room to a stronger relationship and she will always appreciate your efforts in helping her.

10. They Want You To Make Them A Hot Bath Or Bath Them.

I don’t think I need to explain much here. Who doesn’t like the bathroom smooching while having a bath? Str*pping her off and running those bubbling water with the gentle touch of the sponge over her body, will always be imprinted in her heart. Every woman wants to be treated like this and she won’t tell you but she wants it so dearly.

11. They Want You To Help With The Laundry In The Morning.

Helping her with the laundry in the morning will send her off with a good smile. Helping around in the morning, start from:
• washing the dishes
• Cleaning the house
• waking the kids,
• preparing breakfast and many of them.
Hey! I’m not turning you into a house helper but you know every woman needs help sometimes. Those chores are tiring, and a hand can relieve a little stress from us. This also works best, if you understood your woman’s love language especially the language of the act of service. On the other hand, it shows that you are concerned about her comfort.

12. They Want You To Take The Kids To School.

This is one thing I love about my father. He knows his ways around my mom’s heart. Those times, in the morning, he drives me to school using his bike.  You don’t know how happier my mom was, just for that. Actually, I don’t have kids yet but I know this is one thing I want my man to be doing for me every morning( if he is chanced). They might not ask you to do that but this is the part, which they need help the most.

13. They Want To Read Your Text Messages Every Morning Especially When You Are Not Around.

Women know how good this works for them. Getting a lovely text from the one you love is the best medicine to heal a woman’s loneliness. There are a lot of messages, every woman wants to hear but will never tell you. You can start with:
• “I hope you had an amazing night.” This works best when you are not around or left earlier for work.
• “I miss you.” Tell her that you miss everything about her and you can’t wait to be with her again.
• “I wish I was waking up next to you.” This is so spicy to make her day good.
• “ you are always on my mind.”
• “You look amazing. Even without your makeup.”
• “I love you.” Always tell her that your love for her has no imperfections.
• “I have missed your beautiful face and your smile.” This will put a smile on her face and make her always stare in the mirror.
• “ Hope the kids are not stressing you much?” Only this question will make her need you around.
• “I will be back soon to join you.” I love hearing this so much like the sound of romantic music.

14. Finally, They Want You To Compliment Them Before Going To Work.

Yes, I love to be compliment especially on the way I dress, my makeup, and my hairstyle before going to the office. Even if your woman is not working, always tell her, she is the best wife and mother in the whole world.
Practically, Compliments work well more than the sweet things you do for her. Let her know, she is special and she looks hot in her dresses, whether at home or at work.


Women are not difficult to deal with just that, they always think you know everything they want.
These tips will help you win your woman back and she will always be happy as you never thought she would. I got you, and know that you are a genius in treating your woman nicely.


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How To Break Up With A Married Man With Ease



how to break up with a married man

You tapped on this post because you’re in a situation like this and you feel guilty for dating another woman’s husband or you’re just tired of the relationship. But here’s the thing, you want to get out and you don’t know how to. So let’s press play and start this journey together. Do you want to know how to break up with a married man?…… SOLUTION AWAY!

Now a lot of women out there get into relationships like this for reasons best known to them and because of those reasons they don’t see how unreasonable it is, literally, logically basically, and practically unreasonable. But you tapped this post because you already see that it’s unreasonable and you just can’t keep up with it.

Here’s the good news, you’re halfway through the solution.

Now breaking up with a married man would require the following procedures:

8 Sure way to Break Up with a Married Man

1: Put God first:

This is the most essential part of making any decision in life even something as ‘Sinful’ as this. Basically it is called adultery, so you’re committing a sin with a married man, Even though the sin is more on the man, you’d still be seen as a partaker of it. Remember a sin is a sin, and when you’re involved you have committed a sin.

Now how do you put God first?

Prayers: Daily communication with God enhances your relationship with him, your frequent communication with him yields faster results than leaning on your own understanding.


God would always accept you, so despite the fact that you’ve done something as “bad” as this, he’d still draw you close.


Hebrews 8:12


“For I will be merciful to their iniquities,

And I will remember their sins no more.”

God would accept you the way you are, so you wouldn’t have to worry

Romans 5:10


For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life.


Yep! That’s just self explanatory. Accepting Christ is the reconciliation, so pray and build relationship with Jesus himself


Reading and meditation of the word: While you build your relationship through prayers , read your Bible.


Without these two things you haven’t put God first. But you also have to come to the understanding that God would accept you!

2 Corinthians 6:14

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?

Even though the man doesn’t see how wrong it is, be the first to make that move, do the right thing. You basically don’t belong together, if you are a Christian, what relationship does your righteousness have with such lawlessness?

These are questions you must ask yourself

Ephesians 5:33

However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

Make the man know this. His lust/love for you shouldn’t be in the picture if he claims to truly love his  wife. It is God’s commandment and he must follow it.

Read through the rest of the bible verses and drop your questions in the comments zone.

Malachi 2:16

“For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”

Proverbs 18:22

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.

1 Corinthians 7:39

A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.

Matthew 19:5

And said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?

Genesis 2:18

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”

1 Corinthians 7:9

But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

Read your Bible on a daily basis, pray, and always communicate with God your solution comes quicker that way.

After putting God first, The “how” and the “When” comes in.

How and when do you break up with a married man

2: Do a reality check

Face reality, he’s not the one for you, you’d always be a mistress to him, you’re only needed when he needs you and not when you need him. You have no true emotional support, you’d still be left alone to live for life on your own. Your only usefulness is quench is sexual urge or desire.

3: Become independent

Most women go into relationships like this because you feel like that’s what you deserve, to be pampered and showered money when you want or need it. You feel you should have everything on a platter of gold, but think about this properly you can make that money on your own and even more. All you have to do is believe in yourself that you can do it without the help of any man. Say daily affirmations to yourself everyday, encourage yourself. Stop blaming yourself for whatever guilt you have and own up to it. Face your mistakes and fix it. Start up a business of your own. Save up some money. You can become successful without the help of a Married Man!

4: Try to scare him off

Now testing a man’s love for his wife or the fear of losing his married is quite easy. This is where the intellect comes in. Try the pregnancy scare. Tell him you’re pregnant. His reaction would determine your next action. Not all men would accept it and some men would also accept. If he doesn’t accept it, that’s your cue to leave!  Now if he accepts it that means you have to work with option B. Ask him to file a divorce with his wife. Trust me, no man would want to lose his marriage to a woman he barely loves.

In rare cases, the man might want to file the divorce. So just go straight to the point!

5: Tell his wife

This would actually be the best thing to do it trying to scare him off doesn’t work, tell his wife. Telling his wife does two things in one

  • Clearing the feeling of guilt that you have: This would make you free. It’s the truth so it would always set you free, you’d feel the burden lifted of your shoulders.
  • The fact that his children might hate you: While doing a reality check, you’d find out that if you end up getting married to that man, his children might hate you for life. Trust me if a child hates you, you’d barely survive in that house. So telling the wife actually saves you the stress.

6: Seek Counsel

You can talk to your best friend about it, or someone you trust, or an older person that might have had such experience or even a mother figure in your life. Talking about it with someone would also go a long way in relieving you from that feeling of guilt

7: Cut ties

At this point breaking up with him would be very easy. Tell him how you really feel about the whole situation then let him go his way and find yours.

8: Get yourself back

Build back that standard for yourself. Make yourself happy again. Channel your mind to finding love when the time is right and work on getting yourself back.

In conclusion

Breaking up with a married man may not be an easy process, but the result is what really matters. You can get out of such a relationship, just acknowledge that it’s a problem and work towards the outline given above. You can get yourself back. You can be happier. And your happiness is what really.

ALSO, READ 10 Sure Signs Your Ex Regrets Dumping You

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10 Sure Signs Your Ex Regrets Dumping You



signs your ex regrets dumping you

Being in love is a beautiful thing and being loved back by your partner is the best feeling ever. You would never want to lose such a beautiful relationship, however, never say never.

You should understand that not all relationships lead to a happy ending as a lot of them end in premium tears. Break-ups in relationships are inevitable especially when your partner is not committed to the relationship. Being dumped by your girlfriend/boyfriend can be so devastating and the most painful feeling that you can experience in your life. After a breakup, you will begin to wonder what went wrong in the relationship and you will have many unanswered questions. Some of the frequent questions running through your head might be if your partner has really moved on or if he/she regrets dumping you.

For the latter, you begin to look out for signs that show your ex regrets dumping you. Now let’s take a look at 10 common signs to be wary of:


1. They keep communication alive.

“They say out of sight is out of mind”. However, the ex that claims to be over you still has you in mind if he or she keeps communication alive by constantly sending unsolicited texts to you. They will always initiate communication with you and ask all sorts of personal questions so as to get you talking. This may indicate that they are not truly over you and might want you back.

In cases where it may have been a while since he/she dumped you, but out of the blues, you begin to receive texts regularly from your ex asking about your well-being and all that may indicate he/she wants you back.

Either way, they still care about you and feel some sort of regret for dumping you. It may be a sign you’re about to get back together.

 ALSO, READ Signs, You Are Not Ready to Date

2 . They always want to hang out with you. 

Dude, you just dumped me, yet you are seeking my attention! This is one of the best signs your ex regrets dumping you. Your ex simply still misses you and derives some sort of happiness from being around you. His/her feelings for you are still intact and might think about you often.

So if your ex shows a sign of wanting to always hang out with you, perhaps, they are looking for the right moment to tell you they are still interested in the relationship.

3. They apologize for dumping you.

they apologies

When your ex finally realizes his/her mistake for breaking up with you and how to hurt you must have been, they will apologize to you. This is because they obviously regret dumping you and would want to have you back in their life. 

4. They can’t stop keeping tabs on you.

When your ex begins to ask about your private life from your friends and keeps talking about you trying to know who you’re dating next, then that’s a sign of regret for dumping you.

They are always the first to like or comment on any post you make on your social media platforms even when you shut them out of your page. This obviously indicates he/she regrets the decision of dumping you.

5. They become extremely nice and more caring than before. 

When an ex suddenly becomes more loving and caring towards you after dumping you, he/she probably regrets breaking up with you. Perhaps, they are trying to get back to you by being loving and affectionate even more than they did when you were still dating. They begin to shower you with so many gifts and love to show how remorseful they were for breaking up with you.

When you notice this, it is a good sign that your ex regrets dumping you and cares about your feelings.

6. They keep talking about the happy memories you guys had.

This is another good sign that your ex regrets dumping you when they are reminiscing the good times you had together. They begin to remember how you both made a great team together and realize it was actually a bad decision letting you go.

So if you hear your ex still talking about the best memories you had together and share them with you, it could possibly mean he/she misses you and would still want to create more positive memories with you.


7. They suddenly got dumped too.

Yes, your ex can get rejected too by another person and will probably regret dumping you. They will understand that you actually loved them more, you wanted them to be happy and supported them in their worse moments. Right there, they will regret treating you badly and miss your love for them. They will realize that they lost something that meant a lot to them and would probably want to run back to you.

So if your ex lacks the courage to work through his/her current difficulties, it might indicate regrets for dumping you.

8. They are feeling depressed and lonely. 

they feel depressed

This is not a feeling that comes immediately after they break up with you; rather, it is a gradual process. At first, they might feel in control and experience this feeling of freedom and power from the decision of dumping you. However, after a few weeks, they will inevitably feel the loneliness and depression that accompanies a breakup.

When loneliness sets in, they begin to reminisce on the wonderful memories with you and a sense of regret from dumping you start setting in. Although an ex might move on and be happy when this doesn’t happen, then he/she is obviously regretting the decision.

9. They can’t stop flirting with you.  

 Flirting is a sign of attraction and when an ex still flirts with you; it means they are still fascinated by you. The attraction and attachment were never lost and they regret not being romantically involved with you.

10. They beg you for another chance.

This is most likely to happen when an ex regrets their decision for dumping you and it is also your decision to accept the plea or move on. When an ex still loves you, then they will look for any means to get you back.  

Final thoughts

When you observe these signs from your ex, it indicates your ex still loves you and might want you back. But don’t be in a haste to take him back, I know this might seem difficult especially when you still love your ex a lot. let them woo you again and fight for you so that you will be valued more. If you make it easy, your ex might just end up taking you for granted again.


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How To Spoil Your Man (Experts Advice)




It feels so good to be showered with love, care, and attention, you know that feeling when your man spoils you with gifts and surprises.

Everyone loves the idea of being spoilt, it’s not meant for a particular gender.

Women rarely think of how to spoil their men or make them feel loved. If you are among the few women thinking of how to treat your man right then you are very close to winning his heart forever. Men also need to be loved and cared for, they need our attention too, it mustn’t be all about us.

Generally, women are used to being loved and cared for by their men and they feel to realize that they also need that tender care from their women.

You don’t need to wait for a special event before you show him some love. You can surprise him with a lovely gift, a love note, or even a surprise dinner for just the two of you. Men also crave these things, you shouldn’t always expect to receive love and care but learn to extend it to them.

If you have been thinking of how to make your man feel special and loved or you want to communicate how much you love him, then below are some useful tips on how to spoil your boyfriend.

Best ways on how to spoil your man (12 Proven Tips)

1. Give him a massage

A massage will make a great deal for him especially when he just returns from the day’s activity. Men love the soft tender touch of a woman, it relieves them of their stress having you around makes them forget how stressful and tiring their day went.

ALSO, READ How to make a guy fall in love with you

2. Suprise him with his favorite home-cooked meal


Cooking for your man is one of the best ways to spoil him

There is a saying that, the easiest way to a man’s heart is his stomach. This adage is still working. if you want to please your man, prepare his favorite meal by yourself. Men love the taste of home meals. Eating out is great, but you can never measure the joy in a man’s heart when he eats the food prepared by his WOMAN for him.

3. Send him unexpected text messages

Sending messages shouldn’t be left for men to do alone, you know how you feel when you just receive a love text message from your man. That feeling of love that flows like an electric current, which makes you happy all day.

You should also do so, let him have that same feeling. You can send him while at work or even when he is sitting on the couch focused on the newspaper.

4. Spoil him with random gifts.

spoil him with random gifts

Men also love gifts, the fact that they rarely mention it doesn’t mean they don’t value or appreciate it when you buy them a gift. It will be nice if you buy your man a gift, especially something he has been craving for; this single act will make him love you more.

You must not wait till his birthday, Valentine’s Day, or Christmas to buy him a gift. let your gift come unexpectedly, it will be more appreciated.

Give him a valuable gift and tell him how much he means to you. Let him know you cherish every moment spent with him.

5. Leave him a Love Note

Leaving love notes triggers his emotions, which indicates he is always on your mind. It could be on the stairs, in his briefcase or suit pocket, wherever that seems right to you; Just make it brief and romantic. Here are some samples of a romantic love letter to keep for him.

6. Buy him flowers.

buy him flowers

The idea of buying flowers has been thought to be for women alone, flowers depict love; so it’s not a gender thing. Get your man some beautiful lovely flowers with a nice fragrance, you will have him all around you.

ALSO, READ Cute Paragraphs For Him After An Argument

7. Plan a date night

Wow! A date night doesn’t sound romantic, sure it does. Just imagine what it will look like when your man comes back from the day’s work and he meets you all dressed for dinner, with the table set with different dishes. It will be a very wonderful scene to behold.

You can also plan an outside date, it mustn’t be an in-door date, it could be in a nice restaurant, just make the dinner romantic, let the moment be memorable and remarkable.

8. Give him compliments

Just as women love to be flattered and complimented, men also love to be complimented, it triggers their “Hero instincts”. It shows that you appreciate them and you love them the way they are without having any reservations.

9. Plan a surprise

A surprise event can actually do in this case, it could be a surprise party for his birthday, your marriage anniversary or to celebrate his promotion. This will mean alot to him.

10. Take care of his laundry

wash his clothes

This is a rare task, these days you rarely see women washing their husband’s clothes. So doing his laundry simply means you care about him and his looks and you want him to always be at his best.  do his laundry and make him happy, it really means alot to them to see their women taking care of their personal belongings.

11. Plan a romantic weekend getaway.

This is an opportunity for the two of you to be together, having a quality time alone to bond and make up for the times lost. It must not be work always.

plan for a vacation or a weekend and enjoy the best of the moment.

12. Go on a mini road trip.


A mini trip is just like a short vacation or a short-distance trip to rekindle your love and ease you guys of the stress from your daily activities. It mustn’t be an expensive trip, the most important thing is the bonding and quality time spent together.


13. Get the ingredients for a new recipe and cook dinner together.

Go to the market and get some new recipes to prepare a nice dinner, you too can cook the food together, this is one of the most wonderful moments. The last time I did this with my husband he was so happy and he wished we do it often.

14. Watch the sunset.

watch the sun set

Have you ever watched a movie where two lovers sit together holding hands or cuddle each other watching the sunset? You observe the vibe and the beautiful romance in that picture, try and practice the same with your man. It is a moment for you guys to feel each other and express your love for each other.

15. Spend the day together with your phones turned off.

Our phones and other personal gadgets can distract us and make us distant from our partners. These days, couples rarely have time for each other because of social media.

Try spending time together with your phones off, to avoid distractions and keep you away from your partner. The more time you spend together the closer you guys become and the stronger your love for each other.

A little more piece

Spoiling a man doesn’t make you look cheap or desperate for his love and attention. The more you care for him, the closer you are to his heart his love for you increases. It’s nice to reciprocate the gesture he shows towards you as well.

Men wish to be loved too and pampered, treat them like your hero, your baby, and your partner. The love we desire from them is also what they desire.

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