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In this writeup we’ll be talking how to do away with your ex in your new relationship. Sometimes, it is very difficult to tell if you’re really done with your ex. You might think that you’ve moved on — and you are really sure that you do— but, suddenly, you realize you’re still thinking about your past love.

Maybe the breakup came out so suddenly—maybe you were never ready and it came like a time bomb— and all you want to do was to forget all and move on and you jumped into a new relationship to find solace. On a long run, you just found out that you still crave for your ex and you are not giving your full attention In your new relationship.

You are not alone in this journey, we all have passed through a lot of things but I assured you that there are solutions to this.

So, I am going to share some tips that will help you fight this and you are going to promise me, you are a strong person and will do your best to walk out of this situation.

 

1. The first thing to do is to survey yourself

You need to be open to yourself. The best thing one can ever do is, to be honest with one’s self. You can’t be telling us you want to move on while you have made up your mind to go back to it. You have to be sincere with your answers and ask yourself if this is actually what you want? If you need a solution or just deceiving yourself and your new partner?

If Your answer is ‘Yes, I Want A Solution to this,’ then know what pops up the idea of your ex in your mind? Are you missing your ex-partner? Do you still wish you guys were still together? Are you feeling sorry for them because you were the one that caused the break-up or you are still angry that the union ended so badly? Or do you wish your new spouse has your ex-lover’s qualities or you just missed the time you spent together with them—the unforgettable memories?

It’s important to have a clear mind about how you’re feeling about them, thinking about them constantly — even if you do not hate them — it can be a sign you crave for them or you are so obsessed with so much hate for them.

Google defines it:

  “Anger is an emotion characterized by antagonism toward someone or something you feel has deliberately done you wrong.” So if they don’t pique your interest, they should be out of the picture.

Just take a journal and pen down what you feel, look at them, and tell yourself whether you still need them or not.

Oh, yes! This is the only way out and trust me, it might feel weary but you got to save yourself from this mess.

And when you are done listing them, talk to God about it. You need him to come and open your heart and guide you through all this and He will definitely help.

2. You Need To Have A Cool heart to heart Talk With Your Partner Once You’ve Figured Out Your Feelings.

Talk to your spouse as soon as you were done, let your partner know how you feel for your past love and how much you want to take your ex-lover out of the picture.hearth to heart

Make sure you have figured it all out before having this conversation cause it will only be a waste of time for both of you. Maybe, you’re not sure where you stand or you think you are doing your new lover a favor when you know deep down you miss your past love more than them.

Whether it’s “I’m really struggling to let go of my anger towards my ex,” “I’m not sure I’ve really moved on,” or “I don’t know what I feel right now,” your spouse deserves to know.

Your companion might feel so jealous or angry but if they are understandable, they might figure a way out of this; they might suggest you go for counseling (a relationship therapist is the best for this) or always be there to guide and help you. Just know that, once you open your heart for this: it will perfectly work out fine.

3. Decide if You Are Really Ready For This New Relationship

Like I said earlier about surveying yourself, you still need to ask yourself if you really want to be in a relationship, or do you need time to heal?

Only you know if you’re ready to be in a relationship or are you just doing it to hide from your past love’s hurt? or are you using your new lover for your own selfish gain?two lovers holding hands together

If this whole break-up hit you so hard and you still find yourself craving for your ex-lover while you are with your current lover, I think you need to let your spouse know that you can’t return that kind of love they need.

Know what your new lover has to say about this; how they want to support you or their decision on this and plan on your next moves.

a friend said:

” If you figure out you still crave for your ex while in your new relationship, I think you need to figure yourself out first, just come out of the relationship and focus on loving yourself, and if someone who will love you like you love yourself comes by, you will feel nothing for your past love.”  And it is pure truth.

Maybe you haven’t faced your F.E.A.R yet and you are still wearing the ‘victim shoes,’ you keep on wishing for a relationship that doesn’t exist anymore but only in your mind.

It is time to face those fears, embrace them and win over them.

One of the love coaches said:

“It usually means you’re feeling brave enough to risk being brokenhearted. It’s normal to feel ready one day and not ready the next. I usually tell people not to give in to the fear. Sometimes we need to lean into the fear instead of allowing it to dictate the direction of our lives.” By Brooke Bergman, relationship and dating coach.

But if you find out you can fight for your new love and deal away with your past love, then it is about time I take you by your hand and embark on this loving journey.

 

The Action Plans.

Yes! We have arrived and we need to do the necessary to win this battle, but first stand in front of your mirror and wear a ‘conqueror’s smile’

It Is Time To Implement The Action Plans And Here We Go:

 

1. Disconnect yourself from anything that reminds you of them.

Those things that spark up those old memories, you need to get rid of them. It might be Calls, Texts, Pictures of both of you sharing Lovable moments in your phone, Gifts, Clothes, Social media, Favorite food, Game, Restaurant, Music, and so on.

You need to trash them away or return the ones you can but if you can’t stand them, I suggest you give them out.

Then after sometimes, try and create new memories with your new spouse with almost the same pattern—you must not do it the way with your ex but let it be similar to it in a different way—if they keep on coming back to you.

Why? It erases the old memories and gives room to new ones. Tell your new lover, you want to do these and they will understand and help you out.

2. Never try to compare the two

Don’t ever try it unless you want to kill the relationship. As far as you accepted to adapt and move on, you don’t need to do it.

You have a new partner and your goals should be creating a beautiful life together, and not the ‘do or don’t’ in the relationship.

Let it run at its own pace and you will see everything falling in its place.

3. Let go of the fantasy

You know what I meant? The beautiful lives you have created at the beginning of the relationship with your ex-lover and the good and sweet things you want to do, the places you want to travel to, and the beautiful achievement you two had planned to get.letting go

Wait! You can still do all these in your current relationship but don’t expect them to come fast and spoil the whole love thing. Create a new vision for your future that doesn’t include them—past vision— and run with them.

4. Let go of the blame

There is no need to feel guilty over what happened— whether the fault was from you or them— you need to let it go.

There is no room for all these causes. By now, you should have forgiven yourself or your ex and let God take control of everything.

Also know that not all break up are bad; it might be a good opportunity to see your flaws and know how to improve them. At last, you will be thankful that the whole thing happened.

5. Make peace with the past

It really hurts when the person you trusted so much betrays you or treats you like you worth nothing, it is natural to get angry at them.

But for how long should we linger on this anger and let it be destroying us?.

We can’t let their actions limit our abilities to move forward cause if you still hold onto them, it means they have control over your life.

Forgiveness isn’t about letting the person off the hook for their bad attitudes towards you; it is about your emotional freedom.

a friend said:

You need to challenge your spirit to concentrate on the present and future realities, thereby differentiating your past from the future.”

Forgive and learn to forget what actually happened in the past and focus more on your new-found self.

If you can meet up with your past love and talk about this, fine! But if you are not sure whether you can stand them, just don’t go.

Relax and enjoy your new relationship and stay happy.

6.Evaluate your past mistakeevaluate your past mistake

This is more important than every other thing because it gives you the reasons why you broke up with your past love? What really happened? The weakness and strength of the relationship? The mistakes you made and the causes? The foundation you built it on? Try to examine them and find a solution for them.

Write them down, take them step by step, and try to avoid them in your current relationship. Trust me, it works perfectly fine.

7.Surround yourself with things that don’t remind of your ex

Spend time with yourself, your family, and your new-found love. Get a hobby, discover your passion, engage in things that give you enough Peace of mind, go shopping and avoid places that will bring back the old mesurrounding yourself with friendsmories unless you are fit and free to associate with them when they come by.

Look! You don’t need to hide from anybody or anything. Don’t let anyone make you feel uncomfortable just because you are still healing, show them you are not a toy to play with. It is your life and only you can permit what happens to it.

8.Listen to music that keeps your mind busy when you are alonelistening to music

Have a music playlist that keeps your mind busy and out of the mood. Enjoy your time alone and keep reminding yourself that you can do better. You can make a long list of your favorite music and flow with them. Life is so beautiful to waste it on things that are not important in our lives.

9.Discover new passion or career that keeps you busy.

You know all those things you love doing, it is time to engage in them and discover what you can do to help the world. Enjoy every bit of life. Travel to where you can afford. Try those new things you have ever imagined to do and your life will be so beautiful

And one more thing: It is ok to still love your ex cause they are humans and we can’t hate them forever.

Love is never wrong. Just we humans are making it look like one. Know that whoever comes into your life gives you the opportunity to experience love, which is the best gift ever.

You have to recognize that love is not enough to make a relationship to work. Many other factors and circumstances, such as timing, incompatibility, values, choices and decisions, understanding and more of them, play a significant role in our lives. You can’t be too blind to see them because you are madly in love.

Sometimes, the only way to let go is to love someone enough to the extent of wanting the best for them even if you are not together with them.

If you can still keep them as friends, fine but if you are not comfortable having them around just stay away, ok?

Know that you are the best gift God gave to mankind, and you are here for a reason. If you also have someone facing the same problem past this to them too.

I will like to hear from you on the comment section and know how effective these have helped you and where I can help you more.

I LOVE YOU

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Chubby girlfriend- Top Reasons why you should date them

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CHUBBY GIRLFRIEND

Who’s a chubby person?

A chubby person is someone who is plump, fleshing, rounded, or slightly overweight. Also, a chubby person is slightly overweight, has a moderate amount of fat in his or her body. in this article, we’ll be talking about the reasons to consider dating a chubby girlfriend.

Being fat these days seems like a curse to most ladies, because they think fat ladies are mostly rejected by men. many will say if I get fat now, no many will want to marry me”. The perfect idea woman for most men is dating someone who’s slim,  beautiful, having a great skin tone, and model-like in nature.

There are men out there who’re still crazy about chubby girls. A lot of men that married fat women not necessarily mean that they actually wanted it, but along the line they feel in love with the lady.

Ever since I was born, I hated anything called fat. I ran away from most chubby girls who were chasing after me. I was so good at running away from them with the slightest opportunity I have Until met one, then my whole mentality changed. from my little experience then, saw that the power of love can change a whole lot of things. Love can make you do things you never wished or plan to do. She was so irresistible that I had to break my law. I actually had the best relationship with her until we broke up.
Love has nothing to do with shape, size, background, or outward appearance. Therefore a chubby girl should not be denied respect, love, and awesome sex.

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13  Reasons Chubby Girls Make The Best Girlfriends

1.They are not afraid Of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

When you go on a date with her, you’ll have full confidence that they won’t waste your food. They are simply more romantic when you’re out with them eating. They’ll even try eating your meal too. I’ve been on several dates with skinny girls and I ended up regretting buying stuffs for us to eat. slim girls are not the food type.

Chubby girls are not so afraid of gaining weight, because they already have it, so they’ll always want to explore and try new things.  dating a chubby girl will not actually dampen your foodie spirit because they love eating.
Despite all I’ve said, Some men also have this negative feeling, that when they marry a chubby girlfriend, she’ll finish the whole food at home. lol

2. Easy to talk to

Research has shown that fat girls are much easier to talk to. Their ability to talk about anything is what makes them more spectacular. They simply focus on other things rather than their looks. Instead of their physical appearance, they can engage you in tons of topics.

3.Chubby girls are strong

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Apart from trying to say that chubby girls have weight, they are really strong emotionally and physically. So Living this way transforms every chubby woman into the epitome of realized confidence! when it comes to things pertaining to emotions, they are strong in absorbing them.

4.Chubby ladies are good in bed

chuuby girls are good in bed

I know you must have said things like, skinny girls are actually the best because they are light weighted and probably good at exploring. When it comes to having sex, fat women have a higher endorphin release, which is the neurotransmitter that makes sex feel AMAZING.
We also have science on our side. St. Andrew’s University researchers discovered that men prefer a chubbier lady in the bedroom over a slim lady.

5. They are charming

They may not be charming as you think. Their looks may not capture you as much, due to their shapeless butt. What they do is that they’ll try to be charming in other areas, such as their social life. They’ll always try to leave a trademark of good attitude that would make you want them the more.

6.She won’t be picked up by any guy.

Like I said In the beginning, guys love dating slim women. So, a guy who has a chubby girlfriend will have a lesser fear of someone trying to steal them away. When you’re dating a chubby girl, you’ll have a lesser worry about traveling away for some time and having the feeling that someone would take your girlfriend from you.

7.Most chubby girls Enjoy Laughing

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There is always a joy that springs up whenever you tease a lady and she laughs. Most chubby girls laugh at the easiest jokes you make, even when it’s not so funny. This makes it more amazing to be with them.

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8. It’s soothing to lie on their bosom.

Chubby girlfriends are good at Comforting you especially when you’re stressed or having a problem. This is because your worries tend to billow away like light smoke when you lie on their bosom.

9. Always active and sporty

chubby girls are not lazy as you think. Whether you want to go on a hike, jogging, water sports, or on a road trip, a chubby girlfriend would always want to accompany you. They may look lazy to you because of their physique or health status. The truth is that chubby girls are much more active, sporty, and energetic than other girls.

10. Chubby girls are deep.

When you make a chubby girl your GF, you’ll discover that she’s not just into your hot bod, but also into your goals, dreams, and ambitions.
Chubby girls are inspirers, they are just amazing in so many ways!!

11. They Know How to Drink

Whenever you go out, she won’t just take a bottle of beer and dull your fun moments. Research has shown that women who eat a lot have a better tolerance for alcohol, hence they are able to absorb it very fast. so they have the capacity to take a large quantity of alcohol. Chubby girls are really good at partying very long at night.

12.Not afraid to go outdoor

Dating a chubby girl differs from dating a slim woman. A slim lady may not want to follow you to some social events because of her body image. A fat girl is always proud of herself anywhere she goes. A chubby girlfriend would want to do dirty things with you anytime, anywhere…. She has no fear of her body shaming!!

13. Affectionate

Chubby girls are so romantic.  Fat girls love to hug and cuddle., if you’re the type who loves cuddling a lot, then dating a chubby girl should be my recommendation to you. because their soft skin and big body make it an adventure for you..  You can never be stranded of affection when you date a fat girl, she’d give you an overdose of love.

Wrapping Up

Having a chubby girlfriend isn’t a bad idea. Don’t ever be demotivated by the words of your friends. If you see a girl who’s fat and you like herm, go for her. Always follow your heart if you feel that she’ll give you peace of mind that you desire, then go for her,

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17 signs you are dating your soulmate

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How to Identify Your Soulmate

 

A Soulmate is someone that is divinely made for you, soulmate’s connection It’s a connection of the minds, soulmates have mutual respect, unconditional love, and a total understanding. You are always yourself when you are with your Soulmate, not only does the person connects with you but they understand your thoughts and are right there with you, side by side.

Love chemistry is a unique, special and peculiar connection that exists between soulmates. It’s something you feel not just for anyone but for your soulmate.

Just like chemistry reaction. Love chemistry can be felt and observed. It creates a strong bond between you two, an unrepeatable bond, even when you want to fight it, it’s just there waiting for you to notice it and accept it. It’s a feeling only you can ascertain.

A soulmate is your better half, you feel complete, confident, and safe with that special someone. With your soulmate, you are sure and sincere of what you feel, there is a deep feeling and assurance that you are with the right person, you just know it’s true.

There is a unique chemistry that exists between soulmates its called the “LOVE CHEMISTRY” This love chemistry can only be for your soulmate, it’s a genuine feeling irrespective of status, looks, or personality. It’s a true love feeling and is real.

 

 Signs you are dating your soulmate

 

1.You just know it

You just know this is the one, you have a deep feeling that you are with the right person when you meet them. You know this is the perfect one for you, it’s as if there’s a spiritual force leading you to give up everything you initially expected and be completely taken.

2.You have crossed paths

Soulmates are divinely connected people, you must have crossed paths before but at the right time, you meet. You might have met in a bar, petrol station, or you might even live in the same area but haven’t noticed each other, but when the time is right you meet.

3.Your soul connects at the right time

.Your soul connects at the right time

At the right time your soul connects, soulmates are unique people and everything is about timing when it comes to soulmates.It might have to take you to be involved in failed relationships but at the said time your soul connects (Divinely connected).

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4.Your quiet space is your peaceful Place.

Whether you are reading in the same room or driving in the car or you are not in the same place, you have an internal connection. That moment of silence gives a peaceful place and an inner peace for you two to bond.

5.You can hear the other person’s silent thought

With soulmate is easy to read each other’s thought even if it’s not verbally expressed. You understand each other perfectly, you put yourself in each other’s shoes, you both understand each other’s stress, pains, and hardship together. The moment they walk in through that door you know how their day went.

 6.You can feel each other’s pain.

You know when your partner is hurt, you feel their pain and help them get over it. You both help each other overcome your pains, stress, and worries. You make each other comfortable and peaceful without any selfish reasons.

7.You know each other’s flaws and the benefits in them.

Yes, it’s true we all have flaws and also benefits. We have our bad and good sides, you look out for the good even when it doesn’t seem good. The good always complements the bad and even the bad have its benefits.

Example: Stubborn people are good at handling issues properly and they are difficult to manipulate, they are good decision-makers, while overly organized people are good at coordinating and putting things in check.

 

8.You share the same life goals

two sweet couples

You guys have the same ideas, mindset and share similar goals. You may have a different way of accomplishing your goals but you both have the same end result. That’s the unique thing about a soulmate, your same goals make the both of you plan together always which gives you a better understanding of each other and value each other’s opinion and ideas.

 

 9.You are not afraid of having a conversation.

Initiating a conversation can be very challenging, but in this case, you find it easier to communicate, share your ideas or feelings, you are free to engage in a conversation, you don’t feel belittled or scared to speak your mind. No matter how demeaning it sounds, you let it out knowing that your partner accepts you for who you are.

 

 10.You are not threatened by the need for alone time.

Your alone time is never a threat to your relationship. Whether he is hanging out with the guys or she is with the girls or in a beach party, or you decide to be alone, you are not perturbed, because you know when you guys come together you have a special moment.

 

11.You don’t experience jealousy.

Pretty girls at work or handsome guys at the gym or training center doesn’t make you feel jealous because you know you are the only and special one.

12.You respect each other’s opinions and differences.

You sure both have different opinions, ideas, and thoughts because soulmates are polar opposite people, instead of agreeing to disagree with you, allow the other person to complete you. Though it might seem difficult, but you respect each other’s differences and opinions knowing you are both from different backgrounds.

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13.You don’t scream, curse or threaten each other with a breakup or divorce.

You respect each other and hold each other in high esteem. You don’t abuse, criticize or underestimate each other or threaten with a divorce. When you have issues you settle them amicably.

14.You give in because you want to make your partner happy.

Giving in when you feel you are right can be very difficult most times, but you rather give in to make your partner happy than making your partner sad, because when your soulmate is happy you are also happy.

 15.You know how to apologize.

Saying sorry when you are at fault or accepting you hurt someone is one of the most difficult things to say or do. You admit you are wrong immediately you discover your partner is hurt, it’s never difficult for you to say sorry.

Soulmates are not punitive, obnoxious, or revengeful, they always find a way to apologize and make up for their mistakes. It doesn’t matter if you feel justified, but immediately you discover your partner is hurt you apologize, because when your partner is hurt you are hurt too.

 

 16.You would marry each other again.

Yes, it’s true, with soulmates you would marry each other again because you know this is the one and the only person for you.No other people can fit into your life.

Even in crisis, stress, challenges, and misunderstanding, you choose your soulmate again, because you guys understand each other and make up for your differences.

 

17.You complete each other

Soulmates complete each other, they are polar opposite people attracted to each other. One might be social or simple, extrovert or introvert, they both complete each other. Their polar opposite differences complement their character which enables them to fit into each other properly.

 

Conclusion

Soulmates are like locks without the right key you can’t open it. You are the lock, Your soulmate is the key that can fit into your life and make it a better place to dwell. Soulmates are divinely connected people made to spend their lives eternally together. Two souls attracted and connected to each other to complete each other.

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10 Simple Hack to make a girl send Her Nudes

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How Do I Make A Girl Send Nudes

10 TRICKS  TO GET A GET TO SEND HER NUDES

Getting a Nude from a girl is not as easy as you may think. A lot of ladies out there have has bad experiences with some guys who leaked their nudes on the internet. Even at that a lot of girls in this world still send nudes to guys, but the problem here is “how to initiate it?”. If you’re wondering or asking questions like “how can I make a girl send nudes”, then Keep reading this. A lot of girls out there don’t even buy the idea of sending a naked picture to a guy.

The major reason why a girl will never send you her nude is because of what might happen in the future, she might wake up one morning to see that her picture is all over the internet.  Several years ago, while I was still in the University, the nude photos of a beautiful girl were leaked online.  Immediately she saw it, she tried to jump off a cliff in order to commit suicide, and luckily she was saved by her friends. From this short story, you’ll see that such a girl will never send a guy nude ever, no matter how sweet-talking or trickish the guy might be.

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This article is NO MAGIC, we will rather simply give you guidelines that will help you get those nude from her and also help you to maintain your integrity even if she doesn’t agree to send you. if you don’t choose words wisely and thread with caution, the girl will start seeing you as an irresponsible guy.

These are the top 5 comments I got from ladies when I asked them about sending nudes to guys.

  • I can’t even try that!!
  • Never!!
  • I’ll only send it to him when I know I’m married to him.
  • He’ll rather see my nude live than sending it to him.
  • I’m not a p0rn st@r, I wasn’t brought up that way.
  • That’s a sin I cant try it..
  • As far his my husband, if he asks me politely I’ll gladly send it to him, after all, I’m his and he’s mine.

The bitter truth here is that some people still send nudes to their partners the way people send good morning messages.  Men aren’t supposed to beg for nudes because nudes should come as a gift from them.

3 Things to know before asking a girl to send nudes

1.How long have you known her?: This should be the first question, that you should ask yourself before asking her for her nudes. You can’t meet a girl today and you’re asking her to send nudes, it’s never going to work. Rather she’ll insult you and put your perverted self where you belong.

2.Know how religious she is: before requesting a nude from a girl, the few time you’ve spent with her you’d be able to know if she’s a religious person. If you fail to know about this, when you eventually ask for it, she might even start telling people how irresponsible you are. She’ll tell her church members that you lack manner, home training, and respect for women,

3.Check if free and Very open with you: Examine how free she is with you when you tell her things. if she’s so strict and hard to penetrate, then you need to take things really slow.

How to ask a girl for her nude easily ()

If you want to learn how to ask for a nude politely, then you’ll need to read till the end. If you want to ask them for a nude, never try to ask it directly. Things like this are done in a corny way gradually, till you get what you want.

Anything that you’re doing should flow according. just because you’re crushing on her doesn’t mean you’ll just tell her “send nude”. When you do that she’ll gradually lose respect and regard for you. if she’ll send you a nude pic, you’ll actually perceive signs before she does. She might decide to say words like ” I just bought a hot bra” or something deeper than this. Then you can boldly tell her “hello sugar, ill like to see it on you, how about that (wink emoji)”

1.Make sure she’s comfortable around You

For you to easily get a nude from her, then you need to make her comfortable. A girl would never send a nude pic to someone she not comfortable with. Hence, create an amazing atmosphere, whenever she’s around you. Always appear trustworthy. Girls are so smart that they records of things you say. If you tell a girl something that isn’t so nice today, in the next three years, there is a 100% chance that she’ll remind you of what you say in the exact words. Make her feel safe even when you’re around other ladies,’

2.Don’t Ever Try to send your Nude to Her

This is what so many guys do and it’s very disgusting to most ladies. Some time ago, I was with a very close female friend while i was with her,  she asked me to help her reply  her messages on Facebook messenger. While I was chatting,  a young man stumbled on her account. I began to chat with this guy, not up to 10 minutes, I started chatting with him, he started confessing his love and before I opened my eyes, he sent a picture of his d**k, gosh!! I was so ashamed.  A guy may do this because he thinks she’ll return the favor, and this might never happen. If she asks for a picture of your d**k, then it’s fine, you can send it if you want to send. it’s better for her to ask you to send and naturally expect her to send hers to you someday.

“ what you say today can actually hurt that beautiful moment when she’s almost sending you nudes.”

3.Don’t Use wrong emoji’s:

This could be funny, but please don’t try it!! don’t send an eggplant and a water drop emoji Except you guys are so free to talk about anything with each other.

#never send pictures of your dick.

4. Try to Initiate Sexting

initiate sexting

Because I said sexting doesn’t mean you should just jump right into it at the beginning of the conversation. There are perfect times for this. If she’s a busy person, then you shouldn’t be initiating it at work. The best time to sexting her is at night or early hours of the day. Apart from initiating sexting at night, you can also do that at noon. But before you do that you’ll need to know if she at home or at work.  if she’s at home and she tells you, I’m seeing a movie or  I’m just trying to read a novel, then you should just opt-out.

There’s always an opportunity for sexting you could start by saying, “do you know that I’m secretly turned on whenever I’m with you? I just didn’t want to tell you.”. just start from somewhere…  teasing her using her eyes, nose, lips, or her body structure. The real truth is that if you can have a s*x chat with each order at least 3 times, be rest assured that you’re very close to getting what you want.

If she saying lets s*x chat, then you can ask her while the fun the reaching its peak.

NB; if your relationship with her is not intimate, forget about asking her for a nude.

5.Ask for her pic

You’d probably be asking yourself if you don’t have her pictures.  while chatting with her you can tell her to send a Hot pic. or if she’s going out, you can as well tell her to take a sexy pic. just tease her by telling her that you’d like to change your display picture to the most beautiful and sexiest girl in the world.

6.Use Funny Memes or stickers to get naughty

You can google  #sendnudesmeme and send to her, or use sticker to get naughty. when you do this,  you’ll start planting seeds in her heart that would make her want to send her pic. This is actually preparation in disguise.  She might be waiting for you to send her those naughty memes because she’s also in for what you’re looking for.

7.Give Her Outstanding/hot compliments

Whenever she’s dresses always give her amazing compliments, don’t just give her the normal regular reply a guy would give. Make her feel she’s the prettiest girl in town.’

8.Ask her for it when you know it’s time.

When you’ve done everything you need to do to make her want to send it to you, you can simply tell her that you would like to see the cuteness of her b**bs, she may definitely ask why? But before she asks why, just tell her that if she doesn’t feel safe putting her face in the photo, then she shouldn’t add her face. This will make her have more respect, confidence, and trust in you. she may then decide to send it without putting her face.

But if you start bugging her on why she didn’t add her face in the video or photo, you may end up turned,. Because she’ll start suspecting you want to expose her.

9.Work Hard:

If you must get success in what you do, then working hard shouldn’t be a big deal right? So you have to put in the work! Make her your project till you get what you want. If you’re probably a married man and your wife is far off, then the workload might not be tedious. All you need to do is to be Nice and romantic till you get what you want.

 “a slow and steady win’s the race”.

 “patience is a virtue”

10.Appreciate Her:

Appreciate her to the fullest when she finally sends you the nude. Also, tease her even if she might be so ugly.

Wrapping Up

Nudes are made to be kept confidential. No matter how intimate you may be to the girl, never feel bad if she shuns you down. In fact, she has every right to tell you NO so stop pestering her against her will. I bet you if you follow these tips you’ll have a 70% success rate for any girl you MEET.

 ALSO, READ How to identify or spot a crush

 

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