Exploring the different sexual location
Exploring different sexual location is something entirely new to most persons. We all grew up with the notion that sex is a secret and should only happen in the bedroom at night. However, times are changing rapidly. In this current century, if you only engage in such traditional ways of sexual activities, it may become a threat to your relationship. Things will get boring. So, spice it up by exploring sex in all its awesomeness. Hey, I am not saying you should go extreme like threesomes and such. Albeit, it won’t be such a bad idea. In other words, spice your sex life up. Try new positions, even the daring ones.
Come on; it gets boring saying Hello to the bed all the time. Sex is an art that we can create in places our imaginations take us to. So, reignite your sex life as you learn the best places to turn all your wild thoughts into reality without overthinking it.
Before we go into these location explorations, here a little extra tip for your relationship.
-Be aware that the fundamental emotional need of a woman is to be loved. And that of a man is to be respected and appreciated.
-To make a woman feel loved, give her these triple As:
And for a man give him these triple Rs:
To sum up, as long as the other’s emotional needs fulfill each partner, it thrives. Working together in this way encourages both giving and receiving. Hold on to your relationship with your heart generously.
Now back to our main focus of discussion, below are a few places where you can explore your sexuality.
At an event
Talk about naughty yea? Imagine sneaking out of an event to one of the bathrooms or bedrooms to get down. It could be a birthday, wedding, or any social gathering where you both are fortunate to attend. Always remember, the thought of getting caught increases the sexual tension and sensation.
So you could try out a quickie and come back to the event looking like nothing happened. But believe me when I say you would always reminisce on the moment for a long while. Oh, the exciting part is the rush of those hormones when you are anticipating the action.
Hurry and try out the Stand and Carry Position, Ballet Dancer Position, and the Doggy Sex Position before they catch you in action.
In a Hotel
Sex in a hotel room is fantastic. No cleanups after sex, and imagine having ice-cream sex or food sex, and all. Then you have to clean up after the mess is yourselves?
You can do this in a hotel whenever you have the opportunity since you don’t have to worry about anything. I mean, room service does all the work from delivering food to cleaning up. Therefore totally concentrate on pleasing each other.
You can even try it on the room’s balcony later to make it extra spicy. Especially where you know you can get caught but able to smoothly run into your room when that happens. “No one knows you, so calm down and enjoy the moment.”
Here, you can try out all the sex positions you have ever imagined, and switch them as the inspiration comes.
In the car
You must have read this in the romance novels, here is your chance of being that character.
Car sex is fantastic because you don’t have much space. You can do it on the driver’s seat. Just slide it back and ride him or get in the back seat and try other positions. If you want something snappy yet highly sensual, you should try this out. The panting you’d have afterward could leave you wanting more.
I bet you think there isn’t much to explore here, but you could try the missionary style, Cowgirl style, Face-off style, and the Speed bump sex position. Amazing stuff!
In a Cinema
I bet this sounds like something we do in a Truth or Dare game. But cinema sex is exciting even if you can only pull off fingering.
In between the high-level sounds in the room, your moaning can also add a rhythm. So long you got the best seats, which are the back seats. Ladies, make sure you wear something that makes it easily accessible for his fingers to slide through.
In case you are bothered about people noticing, pick a very dull movie. You know wouldn’t pull crowds and enjoy yourselves.
You can try out the hot seat sex position right here without attracting much attention to yourself.
On the beach
Talk about romance. Imagine having sex in the sunset with sand in between your legs. The warmth and calm effect that soothes you while you engage in Ecstasy matters.
People wouldn’t disturb you as it is almost dark, so don’t fret. The only attention you should focus on is your partner’s attention.
Don’t be too adventurous, though; lay a mat or towel on the sand before laying on it to prevent sand from getting where you do not want. You can even order sex on the beach before the explicit act. The drink is to make it more playful as you become the character you so desire.
Ensure you are away from the water as well since saltwater doesn’t exactly go well with sex.
You could try the G-whiz style, deck chair style, doggy style, and the reverse cowgirl sex positions.
In the Shower or Bathtub:
Water and sex is a perfect match. You should try this out in the shower or bathtub.
A private swimming pool would be equally great. But not a general pool, as it makes you more susceptible to all the wrongs we don’t want in our body. Even condoms can’t save us from such.
The shower is a beautiful idea as water, either warm or cold, dripping down your body, sends this crazy sensation down your spine. It is wet and slippery. Or is it the bathtub sex that can send you rays of wild sex creativity? Whichever team you decide to be on, be sure you make us proud.
In the shower, you can try the Ballet Dancer, Doggy Style, and the Stand and Carry sex position. In the bathtub, you could try out the Hot Seat and Face-Off sex position.
On the stairs
Did you just say how? The stairs are there to help you go up and down. But it can also be a great place to explore your sexual desires. Here, you could try the Standing Doggie style, the Traditional Missionary style, and the Ballet Dancer style, but be careful not to lose grip, you can use the rails or steps as support.
After this mischievous act, whenever you see a staircase, down below would always be triggered with sexual excitement.
On top of the washing machine/ laundry machine
Have you ever seen a washing machine vibrate while in use?
Oh! Oh!! Oh!!! Now imagine you and your Sweet Lover on top of that.
To be frank, sex on a washing machine sends all the right sensations to your body and makes the act more intense than usual. This act is what most of us need intense sex.
When last did you get that feeling? Don’t be scared of exploring, dear. Go on and have fun.
On the sofa
Have you ever wondered why it feels cozy when sharing a sofa with a lover? That is because sharing it is the real deal.
Either it is watching movies, porn, or just plain TV, it can ignite that passion for sex. So, instead of holding in it till you get to the bedroom, why not just chill overnight on the sofa?
The uncomfortable effect makes sex even more daring. And if you are lucky, the TV might even decide to add some juice to it, by following up with some sounds that would act as your sex beats.
You could try the Face-Off, Hot Seat, G-Whiz sex positions.
The Kitchen table
The kitchen is a great place to have sex. It is where you prepare delicious meals. But who says you are not more delicious to your partner than that meal you are cooking?
Trust me, heat and sex are partners. The kitchen alone is enough to heighten your sensitivity.
So, cook up something outstanding in the kitchen before adding a topping somewhere else. In case you choose not to end it in the kitchen. Try out the padlock sex position, but just make sure there are no sharp objects. We don’t want the story changing to sex gone wrong.
I hope this article helps bring back that vibe to your relationship and help you explore your sexuality. Don’t forget the list is endless. So, be sure to add yours along the way.
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How impotent men can make love?
Impotence is not to be perceived as an end to fulfilling sex life. It is surely a man’s problem and a woman’s despair. Impotence can be a ruthless relationship killer.
Impotence or ED (Erectile Dysfunction) is still majorly perceived as a man’s problem alone. Because of its embarrassment, many men who suffer refuse to effectively communicate it to their partners. They are ashamed and feel they have to carry the burden of it by dealing with it themselves.
The embarrassment also withholds the suffering men from seeking professional help. The only way they choose to cope is by avoiding sexual contact altogether. Even if the man with the said affliction gathers the guts to reach the therapist’s office, he is against his partner accompanying him more often than not.
Leaving the woman out of the equation alienates her and doubles the impact the man’s impotence has on her well-being. A woman with an impotent partner may feel she is unloved or her appeal is unsexy. She may feel the romantic spark that burned bright with her partner has completely faded.
In her reluctance to appear insensitive, she may hesitate to be proactive in communicating with her partner to satisfy her pent-up s3xual desires. The Woman may fear something’s wrong with her man, something that has to do with his health or his work.
Many men also regain their potency. Even those who don’t can also be effective lovers. With some insights and creative imagination, it’s possible to restrict impotence from ruining your love life and the beauty in your relationship.
When is it not impotence?
An occasional performance failure cannot be categorized as the feared impotence. When a man who was a stellar performer in bed slips in his action one time, her partner may start questioning her self-image and attraction. It is usual for some women to suspect their husbands of having affairs.
All men now and then go through something like this. These occasional failures do not define their identity as impotent. The reasons for it may vary, it can be the many stressful and anxiety-inducing fast-paced lifestyles we are increasingly adopting. Persistent worry and professional obligations may have some part to play.
If it’s an occasional occurrence in performance, ignore it and steer yourself away from the counterproductive thoughts. Don’t start obsessing over it. If such a thought process enters your consciousness, the performance anxiety will slowly creep in. It can lead to a vicious cycle.
How to regain the lost intimacy and make love again?
The most important and effective tool for a very satisfying sex life or a very fulfilling relationship is clear communication. If you have ED, there is no better way to start addressing and doing something about it.
Talk openly and freely about your intimate desires. Without hesitation communicate your deep fears. The whole experience will manifest a new bond that solidifies your relationship. This eliminates the worry the woman may be having regarding her attraction and sex appeal. It is essential to reassure each other and remain supportive.
Don’t be afraid to seek professional help. A good sex therapist can help you and your partner in overcoming these issues and provide valuable insights on improving your sex life.
Stress and anxiety are significant contributors to ED. In many cases, their role is more impactful than the physiological problems. When buried in worry, both the performance and the enjoyment dwindles.
Redirect your focus and attention from your ED to getting intimate with your partner. Lose yourself in the moment. Enjoy the little things that make the atmosphere romantic and sensual. Cherish the time you are getting to spend with your partner. Try deep breathing exercises to relax and be mindful.
A gentle erotic touch may bring simple pleasure. The more relaxed you are, the more you’ll break the barrier of impotency to experience fulfilling and stress-free sexual action.
Reflect on the moments you and your partner had when you first started your relationship. Channel that experience of each touch electrifying your senses. Remember what it was like to explore so many new things about this fascinating person. You both had built this bridge of relationship discovering each other’s life from a unique perspective.
Relive those beautiful moments of togetherness. Kiss, laugh and experiment. There are many sex toys available for adult play. Just immerse yourself in the act and just purely enjoy it. Touch and caress each other. Discover the joy in extra-foreplay and sync intimately with your partner.
Even without a firm erection, you may still be able to 0rgasm. Even without intercourse, you and your partner can indulge in a great deal of sexual pleasure. All you need is a desire to take action and a twisted creative thought.
Mutual masturb@tion is one great way to learn more about what you and your partner enjoy. Experiment with innovative s3x toys to turn things spicy on the bed. Sex Vibrators are great to provide CLIT0RAL STIMULATI0N. Penis sleeves are fascinating toys for men with ED to wear and satisfy their partners. Along with tools for arousal and action, both mutual and oral stimulation can also be fun and exciting.
Sex doesn’t just have to be a game where the playground is always the bed. You can choose different and safe locations to be intimate and let the novelty of the place add extra excitement.
Physical intimacy is an essential part that sustains a happy and satisfying relationship. It’s possible to establish a relationship and have a sexually fulfilling time even without an active ERECTI0N.
Doctors may prescribe medications and treatments for ED. There might be other underlying ignored conditions that need to be addressed. Impotency can also mean early warning signs of heart disease.
For a long-term satisfying s3x life, it’s important to take care of your overall health. You also need to practice good communication to clearly convey your intentions and desires. Have a grip on your sexual expectations, adopt healthy habits into your lifestyle. Don’t forget to get creative to satisfy each other’s needs.
CAN YOU FLUSH CONDOMS (Here’s the answer)?
After having great sex, you probably roll outta of the bed, take your used condoms and flush it!! The two major reasons why people still use condoms today are to avoid unwanted pregnancy and STDs but still on it, that shouldn’t be an excuse to flush the used condoms. Couples feel that flushing a condom is one of the safest ways to avoid letting your kids see it but unknowingly to them, it’s environmentally harmful.
F.A.Q (frequently asked questions)
WHY DO GUYS FLUSH CONDOMS DOWN THE TOILET? :
- They hide it to avoid anyone knowing that they are secretly having sex.
- They may hide it because they don’t want their partner to know that they are cheating.
- Guys actually feel that flushing a condom is one of the safest ways.
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IS IT TRUE THAT FLUSHING A CONDOM WILL CAUSE IT TO COME UP LATER?
No, condoms are small in size, so when flushed, it’ll go. It’ll only come back if the plumber didn’t do his work correctly. Condoms are not likely to get stuck in a pipe’s bend.
A YouTuber named Viva Frei took a TMI video during a sewage dump in the city of Montreal. All they planned to see in the sewage was organic material so that they’ll flush them down into St. Lawrence River. It was necessary for the sewage to be dumped so that some work in the city could be completed.
But, unfortunately, at the last lap of the video, they saw lots of condoms.. In his commentary video, he exclaims, “It’s not just that there’s one condom. There are multiple condoms,” and then, “Condom! Condom! Condom!” There are SO MANY CONDOMS, in just one corner of the river bed. So you’ve heard it! If you’re practically flushing condoms down the toilet, it’s really disgusting especially when they flow out on public waterways.
. Watch the entire disgusting thing below:
you may feel so comfortable flushing your condoms but condoms can cause a huge environmental repercussion.
If you’ve been asking questions like can you flush condoms? The answer is No, Below are some of the reasons why flushing a condom is bad;
Why You Should Never Flush Condoms Down The Toilet
1.IT CANNOT BE BROKEN DOWN BY ENVIRONMENTAL RECYCLING:
Condoms are inorganic material, unlike other organic material which can be broken down, examples such as leaves, lawn clippings, cornstalks, and straw. This was said by Tom Hird, a marine biologist nicknamed the ‘Blowfish’. Condoms are made from latex, produced from a rubber tree.
Most sewages in the developed cities go down to the sea, but in an underdeveloped area, what they do is that they bury the contents in the ground or leave it in a bush..
Hird, who is also a Marine Conservation Society ambassador, is well-versed in the subject of plastic (and how it affects the environment).
He said: ‘The chemicals added to the latex mix, which provide shelf life and stability, stop the condom from breaking down swiftly in the ocean. In fact, scientists are currently unsure how long your sexy sheath takes to break down in the ocean, but estimates put it at around 30 years.
‘In that time, the rubber johnny is free to go on a worldwide jolly of seas and beaches, and if it doesn’t get washed up on shore, then it is extremely likely to be eaten by an aquatic animal mistaking it for food.’
The fact that it takes 30years for condoms to break down in the oceans doesn’t mean you should wash and use your condoms again.
2.CONDOMS CAN CAUSE DRAIN BLOCKAGES:
Unlike feces that degrade in water, condoms don’t! That’s why a slight mistake can cause a huge blockage that’ll require the plumber to come and fix it.
What you should know about Rainbow Kiss ( The REAL TRUTH)
Rainbow Kiss: The whole secret about rainbow kissing
The first time I ever heard about a rainbow kiss, I thought it’s usually a kiss that only takes place when the rainbow is out. A lot of persons have probably kissed their partner at such time, and then come out openly to say… “Have you tried the rainbow kissing? I eventually kissed my partner when the rain fell yesterday evening when the rainbow appeared, and it was just mind-blowing.” The above statement, sounds too absurd, and the boldness to utter it publicly, only ends up making an individual classified as uneducated. So, in this article, we’ll get to understand the true meaning of “rainbow kiss” and all there is, to know.
What is a Rainbow Kiss?
A rainbow kiss may sound casual. Albeit, it’s a word, not for kids, the impact from it is so deep, with strong intimacy between partners. In one of our articles, we talked about different kisses and their meanings. In that article, there are kisses meant for someone you just met, probably a person who has a high social value, and there are kisses meant for someone who’s just a friend. You can’t have a french kiss with someone who’s just a friend, except you both have feelings for each other.
Rainbow Kiss definition: here, is a kiss between a woman on her period and another person, who is usually a man. It sounds so n@ughty. This particular kiss occurs when a man gets blood in his mouth after performing oral sex with his partner, and also she’ll do the same and get his s*men in her mouth. Afterward, they’ll kiss themselves with both contents in their mouths. That’s exactly what rainbow kiss is all about.
Rainbow kissing is better done when having the 69 position after having great s3x. According to Danyell Fima, a co-founder of Velvet Co. He said that rainbow kissing is actually a unique way of celebrating your sexual achievements.
Is a Rainbow Kiss healthy?
The fact to consider about this is that both blood and sperm have the probability of harboring lots of infected particles such as hepatitis, HIV, etc.
Also, apart from rainbow kissing, kissing generally, is one of the fastest ways of transferring diseases/pathogens like Infectious mononucleosis, influenza, coronavirus, meningitis, herpes, syphilis, gingivitis, and many more. If one’s partner by any means has nasal congestion, it certainly will be transmitted via kissing. These are researches made, confirmed, and tested by medical practitioners.
It is best advised not to share “rainbow kisses” with just a regular person or a friend, firstly, it must be someone you trust, and secondly, It must be someone whose STD”s status is properly known.
Here’s a thread made by a famous Nigerian Doctor on his Twitter Twitter handle on the 30th of November 2020.#OurFavOnlineDoc 💎 (@DrOlufunmilayo)
Who came up with the rainbow Kiss?
According to Wikipedia, Simon Farquhar sang a song about Rainbow Kiss. he’s actually a Scottish writer. The script was published by Oberon Books.
Rainbow Kiss Urban Dictionary
According to the Urban Dictionary, A rainbow kiss refers to performing cunnilingus on a menstruating female, which is frequently followed by orally swapping semen, blood, and other secretions. THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HOMOSEXUALS.
Are there any rainbow Kiss Variations?
From the urban dictionary, a rainbow kiss has to do with heteronormative sex acts. A rainbow kiss is not meant for g@ys or lesbians, it’s meant for those who are straight.
What people may think about a Rainbow Kiss?
A lot of Christians out there think that a rainbow kiss is usually demonic or fetish in nature. So a lot of preachers out there may preach against it due to its awkward nature.
Why are people into rainbow kissing?
The founder of TickleKitty, Sadie Allison Ph.D. explains that one of the ways people can enjoy period s3x is to give a rainbow kiss.
A lot of persons do what they do not because they like it. Couples might have a rainbow kiss because they want to taste and see how it looks like. Allison encourages couples performing the rainbow kiss to try using flavored lube to break a new dimension to their sensory play.
A Ph.D. holder Wendasha Jenkins, also stated that rainbow kissing is also good for those who are adventurous and kinky. Wendasha also said that orgasms can actually help to relieve menstrual cramps.
Also, Fima describes rainbow kiss as “the pinnacle of showing comfort with and respect for your partner’s body and your own.”
How is rainbow kiss performed??
A rainbow kiss is performed when a Man gives a girl head while she’s on her period to lick all the blood, holding them in his mouth. And the girl would give the guy a head and get his semen in her mouth, then both will kiss together holding the s*men and blood in their mouths.
The two keywords in knowing how and when a rainbow kiss is performed is that.
- It must be on her period.
- The best s3x position is 69 for it to be very easy.
- They both must reach orgasm at the same time so that one will not hold the blood or semen for a very long time.
Best tips for a rainbow Kiss
- Both Partners Must Agree:
Both partners must be ready to hold each other’s either blood and or sperm respectively in their mouth. Although, an irritable act, to some it sounds okay, so far as they are both comfortable doing it.
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- Study the best time your partner reaches his/her climax:
Rainbow kiss is not for novice partners who just started having a new affair and want to explore. They must be together for a long time so as to be fully aware of each other’s high time, else the whole fun comes to a quench. Only a good communication and timing would help facilitate a rainbow kiss.
A rainbow Kiss is really one amazing thing for most people. A lot of persons have it all concluded in their minds, to certainly try it out. But then, if you feel you’re not ready for it, let your partner know in a very polite way, because being violent about your partner’s choice may result in losing your relationship to someone else who’s ready to do the seemingly dirty things with him or her.
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