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Getting a woman’s attention can be quite easy and also difficult Because women can be really unpredictable and weird…There are some unique ways to get into a woman’s heart, you just need time and patience.

Most successful TV soaps, capture their audience’s attention and keep them coming back. They set up unresolved mysteries that leave you hanging, wondering what’s going to happen next. It’s a simple, but immensely powerful technique: whenever a plot thread is
resolved, another one has already been set up which will keep you, the viewer, tuning in for every new episode.

It gets you hooked. You can use this technique in your own life, too for talking to women. Once you learn what gets a woman’s attention, you’re likely to keep her engaged all the way until you resolve it, and in the meantime, you get
to do (almost) whatever you want.

In this article, I will take you through some mysteries in getting her attention.
Using the word “ATTENTION” as an acronym we will look at some of the key attracting tools to plug into a woman’s heart.

There is a saying that first impression matters. Your actions towards her from the start counts a whole lot, it determines if she will be attracted to you or not.

Don’t spoil your first moment with her, because that’s when you can gain access. Try to avoid rude conversation that could result in questioning, interrogation, and preying on her
Private life on your first date.

Take it slow, be calm, gentle, and accessible while talking. Look straight into her eyes and observe how she reacts to what you say and her response.keep the eye contact,
avoiding her eyes shows you are shy and it might Keep You off track, ruining the fun of the day.

Her facial expression and mood should be noted, check how she feels in each conversation, and when you change the topic, make sure she is comfortable with what you are saying or doing. Be friendly, nice, calm, and fun to be with. Your attitude should fall under the

Appearing tempting can be really amorous, it makes You attracted to her. Your looks must be striking and lovable. That is what I call the first love attractive tool, no woman wants to be noticed, by an odd-looking fellow.

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dressing tempting to raise eyebrows

Your appearance is something that would make her gaze on you for long, it should be inspiring and charming. That look will determine, her first response and she would access and probably draw her conclusion about you.
It’s what you should not joke with. It must not be an expensive outfit, just make it smart, cool and attractive, then you see your woman all
over you.

You must be reliable and honest. Open and truthful; this will make her fall for you over and over again and trust you.
Every woman wants a man she can count on, a man she can confide in and look up to. These attributes attract a woman. she will admire and honor you for as long as you guys are together. You can easily earn her trust, steal her heart, and keep it with you for as long as you want.
When I mean Trustworthy, I mean persistent trustworthiness, when your actions are doubtful, she’ll withdraw from you creating a gap between you too. Just be plain, straight, and responsible, avoid a corny lifestyle, nobody likes it, be on a clean slate and you will enjoy what you have with you. Never betray the trust you have built,
it might take you time to earn it back.

Self-expression is very important, not just in professing your feelings, but in everything you want to say. Be articulate and explicit, let your speech be understandable. Your words should connote your actions, Good Communication strengthens a relationship, you comprehend and flow easily.

When expressing yourself mind your choice of words, what you say and ask. Observe her reaction and response, don’t force words into her mouth, or push words out of her mouth.If she isn’t comfortable with your Conversation, switch to another fascinating topic, it could be a story or an event. Spice it up to get her mood back, you can even crack
a joke, compliment her, tell her how beautiful she is, to make her smile and enjoy the flow.

Natural in this context, is not just your physical or external looks, local or archaic, but
here it means normal character, without artificial or pretense. Don’t be that man with a fake and exaggerated lifestyle, trust me, she won’t take you seriously. Just be yourself, no show-off!!

Believe me when I say women are more comfortable with pretty cool natural guys, who come out plain and are sincere. You might think placing yourself high will make her fall for you, my dead you are just deceiving yourself, she will only use, exploit, suck you dry and dump you before you even realize what is going on, she out of your life
for good.

A responsible lady knows what she wants, a pretentious lifestyle is not one of it. She only wants a real, genuine man who will show her love and care.
Just be yourself, let her feel, and see your real character and personality, don’t be white today and become black tomorrow. Fake life can ruin your relationship and scare her away from you.

A thoughtful man is a kind-hearted man and a considerate one. make her feel she’s one of your major priorities. This a key weapon in any relationship, You should consider her opinion
and how she feels. It must not be yours all the time.

Your sense of maturity towards her and those around her means a lot to her. Ladies are usually fond of guys who are nice and thoughtful about their affairs. Don’t make her
feel stupid, carry her along with your plans. She shouldn’t sense that you don’t care about what goes on in her life or you don’t believe in her.

To get her hooked, find out what she likes best, love to do, places she loves to have fun. know her dreams and aspirations, discover what you guys have in common and what is different about you two.

Use these as a tool to your advantage, see how you can come in, and assist her to achieve her dreams. Don’t be one of those men that discourage a woman from Pursuing her dreams. Encourage her, let her know you are with her, be sensible enough to give her the maximum support she needs from you. Never neglect or commonize her ideas, try to be accommodating, it will make her feel important, cherished, and valued and she
will be lost in your arms forever.

A man must be strong, autonomous, reliable, and courageous. These qualities boost your confidence and earn you more respect. A self-standing man, a decisive man, one who can stand and defend his woman anytime she needs him.

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Be a man of your words, you can’t be dependent on someone and expect her to look up to you and respect you. She needs someone to talk to and share her worries with, but if you can’t solve your problems, how do you expect her to believe that you can solve hers? .

Women are very sensitive, they admire strong men with wisdom and knowledge. You must
be independent in all ramifications to get her into you. That’s what will keep her,no woman wants a contingent unfocused man.

Another important one is organization and comportment. some men are zero in this aspect. They talk flippantly in public, eat and joke like a kid always. There is time for everything when you are out with your woman be organized and well mannered.

She wants her man to be noticed and respected in a unique way, Your life should be organized for you to be attracted and accepted. Put your life on track and be focused, before you go for a lady. The way you present yourself determines what you attract. If you are scattered your life will be scattered, your woman will also be scattered, in fact, everything around you will be scattered.

The last mystical tool but not the least. Be nice, generous, sweet, charming, and lovely. This will always melt her heart, every woman wants to be pampered and loved.If
you can do this always, she will forever be yours and will never stop loving you. The only reason you will be welcomed is when you are nice and kind, not just to her but also to her
loved ones. Just as honey attracts flies, your kindness or niceness will always
make her attracted to you.


Step 1: Set up the mystery
It can be a game with an unknown outcome, or a bet, or a piece of “exclusive” info you have about her personality, but which you’re not going to give her right away. For instance, after the interaction has started you can randomly tell her that you’ve been reading up on palm reading and tell her to show you her hands (Don’t ask her if it’s alright… just say:
“Show me your hands”).

From there, you can give out a proper palm read (it helps if you know how to do it), and finally,

when you get to the end say… “Uh oh!”
She’ll say: “What??!”
You: “Umm, I don’t think I can tell you
right now, I’ll tell you later when we know each other better”

This is a playful and fun way of really grabbing someone’s attention. Although I don’t necessarily advise people to use palm reading, the idea is to have someone, wanting to know the other part of the story.

A little warning, this will drive them crazy at first! They might not let up…
“Nooo, tell me NOW!!”Ultimately, when this happens you have to keep your frame and YOU decide when to tell them. Remember, you’ll eventually have to tell them so you better
have something that you noticed about them that you haven’t
told them yet.

As a guy, it’s your job to keep the suspense up, to lead the interaction, and to make sure that you’re both having fun. If you go out and tell them everything immediately, the tension will be lost… so stretch it out for a little. Tell them a little at the beginning
and save the rest for later. They’ll be happy you did!

Step 2: Play the game.
Now you’re on. When you really want to capture a woman’s attention, you need to make her want you to tell her things. The trick to this is to gather up pertinent pieces of information about her that you can use later on. Remember, the more you know about a woman, the more you can use this to your advantage.
That’s why it’s so important to listen when they talk! If during the conversation, she mentions that she’s from Canada… then you can say that there’s something that all Canadian girls have in common…. and then just leave it at that!
Don’t tell her right away, it will drive her crazy.

Step 3: Unveil the mystery:
Eventually, however, you’ll have to resolve the mystery that you have set up. How you resolve your stories will be up to you, but remember that when you do, you should be honest and it should feel as if it’s resolved. There’s nothing worse than wondering “what the other person is thinking” only to find out that they weren’t actually thinking anything.

You’d feel robbed and cheated, so make sure you have something when you originally delay the information! It can be a little cheesy and that works, for example when you’re reading her palm but don’t want to tell her the last one. You can tell her that you had an intense feeling that you’d be kissing later on when you read her palm… but you couldn’t tell her
when you were doing the reading. All in all, the more playful you are, the better.

Create whatever kind of tension you can! During your interactions, you usually have ample opportunity to study her body language and look at her closely. You may have found a particular piece of jewelry she wears, or a tiny scar she has, or a tattoo, or that she dyes her hair (the color of her eyebrows could give that away, or the fact that near the roots, her hair has its natural color). Use everything you notice to your advantage!

It’s your call where you go after you capture a girl’s attention. You’ve set up a powerful framework for an exciting conversation, and if you follow the same method that TV soaps do, you can set up more mysteries while previous ones are unsolved, and keep things fresh and exciting.

Mysteries can be about yourself or what you pretend to have figured out about her, but be sure to use them more sparingly as the conversation progresses:
while a mystery is a great way of getting attention, putting on a show will not help you keep it. Move on to authenticity and, ultimately, a more intimate and sexual vibe.

✔️ Create a Spark with Real Conversation:
Why? Great conversation leads to great chemistry. If I’m on a first date, and the conversation is flowing, the next thing I know, I’m staring at your mouth. You’re telling a story, but I’m wondering what it feels like to kiss you.

Women look at the way you write the first message, and start the conversation, as an indication of how well you will play the first date. This is where most guys drop the ball. They write,
“How’s your night going?” or “I’m interested in getting to know you.”
These messages don’t make a good first impression because they don’t prove that a guy has read a girl’s profile. We’ll think he only looked at our pictures before messaging us.

How: Smart guys jump right into a conversation with confidence.
They don’t worry about “testing the waters” – they just drop a line
with some really good bait. The best bait is asking a simple question about something that’s important to the girl: her hobbies, unusual interests, favorite things, etc. What stands out to you as interesting in her profile?

What to Say: “Hey, that’s so cool you’re an ARTIST. What’s the best
and scariest thing about your job?
A message like this is great on multiple levels.
It proves you read her profile. She’ll be flattered you’re interested in her life and opinions – rather than just her pictures.
She’ll be impressed that you asked her the best question she’s received (probably all month). And she’ll be more much likely to reply to YOU instead of the guy who just
said, “Hey, what’s up?”

✔️ Make the Conversation Easy for Yourself:
Why: Learn a couple of tricks to save time and energy.
You deserve it, man!

How: There’s a couple of ways to do it. After she replies to your first message, you usually visit her profile again to figure out what to say next, right?
Next time, while re-reading her profile, make a few notes about conversation topics for future messages.
(Put it in an email draft, your Notes app, whatever.) This way, you don’t have to spend time looking for more things to talk about with every message.

1) What you have in common.
This is the easiest way to start a conversation. Make sure you ask a question to prompt a response from her.
Questions = continuing conversation.
What to Say: Which storyline is your favorite, right now?”

2) Things you don’t have in common.
Sparking a (friendly) debate is engaging. Engaging conversations are interesting,
and keep her interested.
What to Say: “So I see you’re really into CARDI-B
I have to say, she’s really disappointed me in the last couple of years. Do you see something I’m missing in her new stuff that could change my mind?”

3) Ways to add to something she has in her profile.
Recommendations for new restaurants, books, movies, games,
etc. are friendly, low-pressure, and all-around awesome.

My own profile mentioned my love for Nigerian writers, and some of my favorite messages were from guys who suggested new authors for me to check out. They sparked some
great conversations about books we both loved.
Your notes will keep the conversation flowing quickly and easily, so you’ll keep her on the hook.

4) Hold Her Attention.
Why: Smart guys are vigilant about keeping message conversations going. People can be busy, forgetful, and distracted. But when she’s having a great time messaging you, she won’t forget about you.
How: Using the techniques above, keep asking her about her life, interests, similarities, and differences. You’ll be a breath of fresh air after all those other guys who ask the boring “So how was your weekend?” follow-up message. You
have way more to discuss before resorting to weekend plans.

What to Say: Ask follow-up questions that jump off your original questions.
Ask her what CARDI-B like live. What’s are her favorite lyrics?
Ask her what game she plays with her friends on game night.

When she asks you questions, respond, and then relate the question back to her, or ask, “How about you?” to keep the conversation going.

Be curious, and show her you want to know her thoughts. Before you know it, the conversation will be flowing. After a couple of awesome message exchanges, she’ll be ready to continue the conversation in person. Get ready to ask her out!

As a man, there’s a harsh truth that I have to admit, most men are terrible at flirting.Are there exceptions to that rule? Of course not. Whenever a man is struggling to flirt with a girl, there always seems to be a suave Brazilian helicopter pilot nearby who can swoop in
and talk about anything.
However, that doesn’t mean all hope is lost, dudes, If you really want to know how to get a girl to like you, flirting isn’t the answer.

That sounds counter-productive, but there’s only so far you can get with a woman by tenaciously pursuing her. If she wasn’t interested in the first place, she’s going to
put an end to that really fast. The key is making her do an equal share of the work. You need to make a girl want you as much as you want her.

But how do you accomplish that? How do you convince a woman that she should be attracted to you? If you’re struggling to figure out how to attract women, here are 7 techniques that will make a girl like you.

1. Be curious.
Ask her about herself. Be genuinely interested in learning about her life and the things that are important to her.
Don’t be a creepy stalker about it, but show her that you actually care enough to ask follow-up questions.

2. Have a life of your own.
The flip-side of being curious is being prepared to answer questions about yourself. And the last thing you want to do if a woman wants to know more about you is to act
bored about your own life.
Don’t respond with shrugs or say “I don’t have much going on.” Have stuff going on. Have passions, interests, things you’re excited to talk about. Give her a reason to want to know
more about you.

3. Take care of yourself.
Presentation matters, you don’t have to be the most attractive guy in the world. Women have a long history of being okay with dating beneath their own level of hotness. But if they’re willing to overlook your love handles and thinning hair, you need to show some effort.

Keep the hygiene on point. Get a haircut. And don’t always wear the same hoodie. Show her that you actually know how to take care of yourself.

5. Let her see the best of you.
Think about this: what is your best self? Or when do you act like your favorite version of yourself? Is it when you’re out with friends? Is it playing sport? Is it hiking, doing charity, or just hanging out watching movies?

When possible, you want the woman you’re interested in to see you at your best.
So invite her out with your best friends. Or suggest going to a concert of your favorite band. Find opportunities to show her your most confident and happy self.

6. Make her laugh… in the right way.
“Women love a sense of humor” is an old cliché,
but it’s true. Being funny can be a really attractive quality if you do it right.You definitely don’t want to be funny in a mean way. Remember, show her your best. So, no making fun of people or making raw rude jokes. If you’re going to mock someone, mock yourself.
Make sure that she knows that your humor comes with a side of
empathy and self-awareness, but, you know… be really funny too.

7. Flirt a little bit.
I know I said flirting wasn’t the answer, but what I meant was, it’s not the only answer. When the moment presents itself, it’s not a bad thing to let a woman know that you see her as an attractive person.
keep things casual. Maybe just compliment her. Or tell her,
“Wow, you look great tonight.” But leave it there — don’t overdo it.

Just offer enough that she can tell that you think she’s awesome, but don’t actively hit on her to the point where she’s going to be uncomfortable hanging out with you anymore.If she picks up on the small openings you’re giving her, she’ll find a way to let you
know that she’s interested too. And if she doesn’t,
well… it wasn’t meant to be.

As guys, we generally want success, respect, and sex. Those usually equate to love for us. For women, it’s not that simple, we think buying things impresses them.
We try to be taller or make more money to get the girl.
But is that really what they want?
What can we actually do to attract her?
1. Be A Great Leader


2.Communicate Actively
3. Put Others First
4 Have Manners
5. Be Family Oriented
6.Be Vulnerable
7. Stay Informed & Educated
8. Have A Sense Of Humor
9. Be Adventurous & Spontaneous
10. Know How To Fix Things
Apply these techniques and get her trapped.
Be the best man you can and make your woman
happy, her attention is the hook you need to make her

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Chubby girlfriend- Top Reasons why you should date them




Who’s a chubby person?

A chubby person is someone who is plump, fleshing, rounded, or slightly overweight. Also, a chubby person is slightly overweight, has a moderate amount of fat in his or her body. in this article, we’ll be talking about the reasons to consider dating a chubby girlfriend.

Being fat these days seems like a curse to most ladies, because they think fat ladies are mostly rejected by men. many will say if I get fat now, no many will want to marry me”. The perfect idea woman for most men is dating someone who’s slim,  beautiful, having a great skin tone, and model-like in nature.

There are men out there who’re still crazy about chubby girls. A lot of men that married fat women not necessarily mean that they actually wanted it, but along the line they feel in love with the lady.

Ever since I was born, I hated anything called fat. I ran away from most chubby girls who were chasing after me. I was so good at running away from them with the slightest opportunity I have Until met one, then my whole mentality changed. from my little experience then, saw that the power of love can change a whole lot of things. Love can make you do things you never wished or plan to do. She was so irresistible that I had to break my law. I actually had the best relationship with her until we broke up.
Love has nothing to do with shape, size, background, or outward appearance. Therefore a chubby girl should not be denied respect, love, and awesome sex.

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13  Reasons Chubby Girls Make The Best Girlfriends

1.They are not afraid Of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

chubby girls are not afraid of eating

When you go on a date with her, you’ll have full confidence that they won’t waste your food. They are simply more romantic when you’re out with them eating. They’ll even try eating your meal too. I’ve been on several dates with skinny girls and I ended up regretting buying stuffs for us to eat. slim girls are not the food type.

Chubby girls are not so afraid of gaining weight, because they already have it, so they’ll always want to explore and try new things.  dating a chubby girl will not actually dampen your foodie spirit because they love eating.
Despite all I’ve said, Some men also have this negative feeling, that when they marry a chubby girlfriend, she’ll finish the whole food at home. lol

2. Easy to talk to

Research has shown that fat girls are much easier to talk to. Their ability to talk about anything is what makes them more spectacular. They simply focus on other things rather than their looks. Instead of their physical appearance, they can engage you in tons of topics.

3.Chubby girls are strong


Apart from trying to say that chubby girls have weight, they are really strong emotionally and physically. So Living this way transforms every chubby woman into the epitome of realized confidence! when it comes to things pertaining to emotions, they are strong in absorbing them.

4.Chubby ladies are good in bed

chuuby girls are good in bed

I know you must have said things like, skinny girls are actually the best because they are light weighted and probably good at exploring. When it comes to having sex, fat women have a higher endorphin release, which is the neurotransmitter that makes sex feel AMAZING.
We also have science on our side. St. Andrew’s University researchers discovered that men prefer a chubbier lady in the bedroom over a slim lady.

5. They are charming

They may not be charming as you think. Their looks may not capture you as much, due to their shapeless butt. What they do is that they’ll try to be charming in other areas, such as their social life. They’ll always try to leave a trademark of good attitude that would make you want them the more.

6.She won’t be picked up by any guy.

Like I said In the beginning, guys love dating slim women. So, a guy who has a chubby girlfriend will have a lesser fear of someone trying to steal them away. When you’re dating a chubby girl, you’ll have a lesser worry about traveling away for some time and having the feeling that someone would take your girlfriend from you.

7.Most chubby girls Enjoy Laughing


There is always a joy that springs up whenever you tease a lady and she laughs. Most chubby girls laugh at the easiest jokes you make, even when it’s not so funny. This makes it more amazing to be with them.

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8. It’s soothing to lie on their bosom.

Chubby girlfriends are good at Comforting you especially when you’re stressed or having a problem. This is because your worries tend to billow away like light smoke when you lie on their bosom.

9. Always active and sporty

chubby girls are not lazy as you think. Whether you want to go on a hike, jogging, water sports, or on a road trip, a chubby girlfriend would always want to accompany you. They may look lazy to you because of their physique or health status. The truth is that chubby girls are much more active, sporty, and energetic than other girls.

10. Chubby girls are deep.

When you make a chubby girl your GF, you’ll discover that she’s not just into your hot bod, but also into your goals, dreams, and ambitions.
Chubby girls are inspirers, they are just amazing in so many ways!!

11. They Know How to Drink

Whenever you go out, she won’t just take a bottle of beer and dull your fun moments. Research has shown that women who eat a lot have a better tolerance for alcohol, hence they are able to absorb it very fast. so they have the capacity to take a large quantity of alcohol. Chubby girls are really good at partying very long at night.

12.Not afraid to go outdoor

Dating a chubby girl differs from dating a slim woman. A slim lady may not want to follow you to some social events because of her body image. A fat girl is always proud of herself anywhere she goes. A chubby girlfriend would want to do dirty things with you anytime, anywhere…. She has no fear of her body shaming!!

13. Affectionate

Chubby girls are so romantic.  Fat girls love to hug and cuddle., if you’re the type who loves cuddling a lot, then dating a chubby girl should be my recommendation to you. because their soft skin and big body make it an adventure for you..  You can never be stranded of affection when you date a fat girl, she’d give you an overdose of love.

Wrapping Up

Having a chubby girlfriend isn’t a bad idea. Don’t ever be demotivated by the words of your friends. If you see a girl who’s fat and you like herm, go for her. Always follow your heart if you feel that she’ll give you peace of mind that you desire, then go for her,

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17 signs you are dating your soulmate



How to Identify Your Soulmate


A Soulmate is someone that is divinely made for you, soulmate’s connection It’s a connection of the minds, soulmates have mutual respect, unconditional love, and a total understanding. You are always yourself when you are with your Soulmate, not only does the person connects with you but they understand your thoughts and are right there with you, side by side.

Love chemistry is a unique, special and peculiar connection that exists between soulmates. It’s something you feel not just for anyone but for your soulmate.

Just like chemistry reaction. Love chemistry can be felt and observed. It creates a strong bond between you two, an unrepeatable bond, even when you want to fight it, it’s just there waiting for you to notice it and accept it. It’s a feeling only you can ascertain.

A soulmate is your better half, you feel complete, confident, and safe with that special someone. With your soulmate, you are sure and sincere of what you feel, there is a deep feeling and assurance that you are with the right person, you just know it’s true.

There is a unique chemistry that exists between soulmates its called the “LOVE CHEMISTRY” This love chemistry can only be for your soulmate, it’s a genuine feeling irrespective of status, looks, or personality. It’s a true love feeling and is real.


 Signs you are dating your soulmate


1.You just know it

You just know this is the one, you have a deep feeling that you are with the right person when you meet them. You know this is the perfect one for you, it’s as if there’s a spiritual force leading you to give up everything you initially expected and be completely taken.

2.You have crossed paths

Soulmates are divinely connected people, you must have crossed paths before but at the right time, you meet. You might have met in a bar, petrol station, or you might even live in the same area but haven’t noticed each other, but when the time is right you meet.

3.Your soul connects at the right time

.Your soul connects at the right time

At the right time your soul connects, soulmates are unique people and everything is about timing when it comes to soulmates.It might have to take you to be involved in failed relationships but at the said time your soul connects (Divinely connected).


4.Your quiet space is your peaceful Place.

Whether you are reading in the same room or driving in the car or you are not in the same place, you have an internal connection. That moment of silence gives a peaceful place and an inner peace for you two to bond.

5.You can hear the other person’s silent thought

With soulmate is easy to read each other’s thought even if it’s not verbally expressed. You understand each other perfectly, you put yourself in each other’s shoes, you both understand each other’s stress, pains, and hardship together. The moment they walk in through that door you know how their day went.

 6.You can feel each other’s pain.

You know when your partner is hurt, you feel their pain and help them get over it. You both help each other overcome your pains, stress, and worries. You make each other comfortable and peaceful without any selfish reasons.

7.You know each other’s flaws and the benefits in them.

Yes, it’s true we all have flaws and also benefits. We have our bad and good sides, you look out for the good even when it doesn’t seem good. The good always complements the bad and even the bad have its benefits.

Example: Stubborn people are good at handling issues properly and they are difficult to manipulate, they are good decision-makers, while overly organized people are good at coordinating and putting things in check.


8.You share the same life goals

two sweet couples

You guys have the same ideas, mindset and share similar goals. You may have a different way of accomplishing your goals but you both have the same end result. That’s the unique thing about a soulmate, your same goals make the both of you plan together always which gives you a better understanding of each other and value each other’s opinion and ideas.


 9.You are not afraid of having a conversation.

Initiating a conversation can be very challenging, but in this case, you find it easier to communicate, share your ideas or feelings, you are free to engage in a conversation, you don’t feel belittled or scared to speak your mind. No matter how demeaning it sounds, you let it out knowing that your partner accepts you for who you are.


 10.You are not threatened by the need for alone time.

Your alone time is never a threat to your relationship. Whether he is hanging out with the guys or she is with the girls or in a beach party, or you decide to be alone, you are not perturbed, because you know when you guys come together you have a special moment.


11.You don’t experience jealousy.

Pretty girls at work or handsome guys at the gym or training center doesn’t make you feel jealous because you know you are the only and special one.

12.You respect each other’s opinions and differences.

You sure both have different opinions, ideas, and thoughts because soulmates are polar opposite people, instead of agreeing to disagree with you, allow the other person to complete you. Though it might seem difficult, but you respect each other’s differences and opinions knowing you are both from different backgrounds.


13.You don’t scream, curse or threaten each other with a breakup or divorce.

You respect each other and hold each other in high esteem. You don’t abuse, criticize or underestimate each other or threaten with a divorce. When you have issues you settle them amicably.

14.You give in because you want to make your partner happy.

Giving in when you feel you are right can be very difficult most times, but you rather give in to make your partner happy than making your partner sad, because when your soulmate is happy you are also happy.

 15.You know how to apologize.

Saying sorry when you are at fault or accepting you hurt someone is one of the most difficult things to say or do. You admit you are wrong immediately you discover your partner is hurt, it’s never difficult for you to say sorry.

Soulmates are not punitive, obnoxious, or revengeful, they always find a way to apologize and make up for their mistakes. It doesn’t matter if you feel justified, but immediately you discover your partner is hurt you apologize, because when your partner is hurt you are hurt too.


 16.You would marry each other again.

Yes, it’s true, with soulmates you would marry each other again because you know this is the one and the only person for you.No other people can fit into your life.

Even in crisis, stress, challenges, and misunderstanding, you choose your soulmate again, because you guys understand each other and make up for your differences.


17.You complete each other

Soulmates complete each other, they are polar opposite people attracted to each other. One might be social or simple, extrovert or introvert, they both complete each other. Their polar opposite differences complement their character which enables them to fit into each other properly.



Soulmates are like locks without the right key you can’t open it. You are the lock, Your soulmate is the key that can fit into your life and make it a better place to dwell. Soulmates are divinely connected people made to spend their lives eternally together. Two souls attracted and connected to each other to complete each other.

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Love & Dating

10 Simple Hack to make a girl send Her Nudes



How Do I Make A Girl Send Nudes


Getting a Nude from a girl is not as easy as you may think. A lot of ladies out there have has bad experiences with some guys who leaked their nudes on the internet. Even at that a lot of girls in this world still send nudes to guys, but the problem here is “how to initiate it?”. If you’re wondering or asking questions like “how can I make a girl send nudes”, then Keep reading this. A lot of girls out there don’t even buy the idea of sending a naked picture to a guy.

The major reason why a girl will never send you her nude is because of what might happen in the future, she might wake up one morning to see that her picture is all over the internet.  Several years ago, while I was still in the University, the nude photos of a beautiful girl were leaked online.  Immediately she saw it, she tried to jump off a cliff in order to commit suicide, and luckily she was saved by her friends. From this short story, you’ll see that such a girl will never send a guy nude ever, no matter how sweet-talking or trickish the guy might be.


This article is NO MAGIC, we will rather simply give you guidelines that will help you get those nude from her and also help you to maintain your integrity even if she doesn’t agree to send you. if you don’t choose words wisely and thread with caution, the girl will start seeing you as an irresponsible guy.

These are the top 5 comments I got from ladies when I asked them about sending nudes to guys.

  • I can’t even try that!!
  • Never!!
  • I’ll only send it to him when I know I’m married to him.
  • He’ll rather see my nude live than sending it to him.
  • I’m not a p0rn st@r, I wasn’t brought up that way.
  • That’s a sin I cant try it..
  • As far his my husband, if he asks me politely I’ll gladly send it to him, after all, I’m his and he’s mine.

The bitter truth here is that some people still send nudes to their partners the way people send good morning messages.  Men aren’t supposed to beg for nudes because nudes should come as a gift from them.

3 Things to know before asking a girl to send nudes

1.How long have you known her?: This should be the first question, that you should ask yourself before asking her for her nudes. You can’t meet a girl today and you’re asking her to send nudes, it’s never going to work. Rather she’ll insult you and put your perverted self where you belong.

2.Know how religious she is: before requesting a nude from a girl, the few time you’ve spent with her you’d be able to know if she’s a religious person. If you fail to know about this, when you eventually ask for it, she might even start telling people how irresponsible you are. She’ll tell her church members that you lack manner, home training, and respect for women,

3.Check if free and Very open with you: Examine how free she is with you when you tell her things. if she’s so strict and hard to penetrate, then you need to take things really slow.

How to ask a girl for her nude easily ()

If you want to learn how to ask for a nude politely, then you’ll need to read till the end. If you want to ask them for a nude, never try to ask it directly. Things like this are done in a corny way gradually, till you get what you want.

Anything that you’re doing should flow according. just because you’re crushing on her doesn’t mean you’ll just tell her “send nude”. When you do that she’ll gradually lose respect and regard for you. if she’ll send you a nude pic, you’ll actually perceive signs before she does. She might decide to say words like ” I just bought a hot bra” or something deeper than this. Then you can boldly tell her “hello sugar, ill like to see it on you, how about that (wink emoji)”

1.Make sure she’s comfortable around You

For you to easily get a nude from her, then you need to make her comfortable. A girl would never send a nude pic to someone she not comfortable with. Hence, create an amazing atmosphere, whenever she’s around you. Always appear trustworthy. Girls are so smart that they records of things you say. If you tell a girl something that isn’t so nice today, in the next three years, there is a 100% chance that she’ll remind you of what you say in the exact words. Make her feel safe even when you’re around other ladies,’

2.Don’t Ever Try to send your Nude to Her

This is what so many guys do and it’s very disgusting to most ladies. Some time ago, I was with a very close female friend while i was with her,  she asked me to help her reply  her messages on Facebook messenger. While I was chatting,  a young man stumbled on her account. I began to chat with this guy, not up to 10 minutes, I started chatting with him, he started confessing his love and before I opened my eyes, he sent a picture of his d**k, gosh!! I was so ashamed.  A guy may do this because he thinks she’ll return the favor, and this might never happen. If she asks for a picture of your d**k, then it’s fine, you can send it if you want to send. it’s better for her to ask you to send and naturally expect her to send hers to you someday.

“ what you say today can actually hurt that beautiful moment when she’s almost sending you nudes.”

3.Don’t Use wrong emoji’s:

This could be funny, but please don’t try it!! don’t send an eggplant and a water drop emoji Except you guys are so free to talk about anything with each other.

#never send pictures of your dick.

4. Try to Initiate Sexting

initiate sexting

Because I said sexting doesn’t mean you should just jump right into it at the beginning of the conversation. There are perfect times for this. If she’s a busy person, then you shouldn’t be initiating it at work. The best time to sexting her is at night or early hours of the day. Apart from initiating sexting at night, you can also do that at noon. But before you do that you’ll need to know if she at home or at work.  if she’s at home and she tells you, I’m seeing a movie or  I’m just trying to read a novel, then you should just opt-out.

There’s always an opportunity for sexting you could start by saying, “do you know that I’m secretly turned on whenever I’m with you? I just didn’t want to tell you.”. just start from somewhere…  teasing her using her eyes, nose, lips, or her body structure. The real truth is that if you can have a s*x chat with each order at least 3 times, be rest assured that you’re very close to getting what you want.

If she saying lets s*x chat, then you can ask her while the fun the reaching its peak.

NB; if your relationship with her is not intimate, forget about asking her for a nude.

5.Ask for her pic

You’d probably be asking yourself if you don’t have her pictures.  while chatting with her you can tell her to send a Hot pic. or if she’s going out, you can as well tell her to take a sexy pic. just tease her by telling her that you’d like to change your display picture to the most beautiful and sexiest girl in the world.

6.Use Funny Memes or stickers to get naughty

You can google  #sendnudesmeme and send to her, or use sticker to get naughty. when you do this,  you’ll start planting seeds in her heart that would make her want to send her pic. This is actually preparation in disguise.  She might be waiting for you to send her those naughty memes because she’s also in for what you’re looking for.

7.Give Her Outstanding/hot compliments

Whenever she’s dresses always give her amazing compliments, don’t just give her the normal regular reply a guy would give. Make her feel she’s the prettiest girl in town.’

8.Ask her for it when you know it’s time.

When you’ve done everything you need to do to make her want to send it to you, you can simply tell her that you would like to see the cuteness of her b**bs, she may definitely ask why? But before she asks why, just tell her that if she doesn’t feel safe putting her face in the photo, then she shouldn’t add her face. This will make her have more respect, confidence, and trust in you. she may then decide to send it without putting her face.

But if you start bugging her on why she didn’t add her face in the video or photo, you may end up turned,. Because she’ll start suspecting you want to expose her.

9.Work Hard:

If you must get success in what you do, then working hard shouldn’t be a big deal right? So you have to put in the work! Make her your project till you get what you want. If you’re probably a married man and your wife is far off, then the workload might not be tedious. All you need to do is to be Nice and romantic till you get what you want.

 “a slow and steady win’s the race”.

 “patience is a virtue”

10.Appreciate Her:

Appreciate her to the fullest when she finally sends you the nude. Also, tease her even if she might be so ugly.

Wrapping Up

Nudes are made to be kept confidential. No matter how intimate you may be to the girl, never feel bad if she shuns you down. In fact, she has every right to tell you NO so stop pestering her against her will. I bet you if you follow these tips you’ll have a 70% success rate for any girl you MEET.

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