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Just when I thought  it was all over,

It started again suddenly I was looking for a stronghold.

For so long I thought I had found myself.

 

Maybe,

if we learned to live some more and take things one day at a time…

Life wouldn’t be so hard.

Maybe if we stopped looking behind

The future would be brighter

We can’t have forever if we haven’t taken

The moment.

 

People think you have to jump off a cliff to die,

Put a bullet through ur own head,

Hang yourself…

They don’t realize that the moment you stop living you die.

But slowly though.

**********

 

WORDS…✍WRITTEN

_Emotions  has never been something hard.

Many people thought it to be a weakness

In her case,

She wanted to feel even if it was a little

She wanted to feel every damn thing

Even if it was pain.

She had always been numb…

There was a time when she thought

She could do without this emotions

But now pain, love, hate she wanted to feel all.

 

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_Maybe if I just kept walking On and on

I would end up forgetting

I sat still for a long time

Waiting for something

Which I can’t place my hand on

Every time,

Everyday,

I feel the emptiness over and over again

I have friends.

They are always here,

But they would never understand

They never really listened when I spoke.

But I…

I would sit with them and laugh for hours

My cheeks aching

My throat becoming dry

And they never notice…

They never really look at me to realize that all this laughter and smiles were just a cover-up.

 

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_I know a boy

Who writes because he feels he is talented

Who writes only when he’s bored

Who writes just to show off

Who writes when he’s sad

Who writes cause he wants to be heard

Who writes cause that’s  the only way he communicates

Who writes cause he wants to change the world

He says he wants people who are sad to read

His words and find inspiration

Peace

Love

Smiles.

And I no another

Who writes because he can’t help it…

His words make me lightheaded!

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He thought…

He always thought

He was a good thinker

Sometimes he over thought

It used to bother him

He’d overthink every little  thing

The punctuations used in a sentence

The pause in a statement

In a conversation

And he…

He wanted  to know everything

Curiosity?

Yes, Curiosity was what they called it.

Then she came along

 

She was the girl his mother warned to stay away from

She could influence you with her negative side.

She was weird

Maybe a little different

But they called her weird

And she gave a damn not

She told him it was good to overthink

She told him it was ok

She said it was humanly…

She was the one who told him

“Maybe we all come from the stars AFTERALL…”

And he never forgot her.

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Truth Be Told: Why Divorce Is Common In the USA and Canada?

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The number of divorces in the USA and Canada is staggering, and with each passing year, it is soaring at an alarming rate. There are a plethora of reasons for divorce in couples of all ages. In this article, we’ll enlist some of the most prevalent scenarios that could lead to a marriage ending up. 

 

Whether you are involved in a toxic relationship or want to get your marriage back on track by rekindling the magic of love, let this article guide you.

  • Lack of Intimacy

 

One of the biggest causes of marriages not working out is the lack of intimacy. It is imperative to establish a deeper & spiritual relationship with your partner. However, intimacy still has a significant role to play to keep you bonded in the clouds of love and real emotions.

 

With most of the people in the USA and Canada being too much engrossed in themselves and highly focused on individual growth, they ignore how lack of intimacy is deteriorating their relationship.

 

Moreover, intimacy isn’t always about sex. A couple can express intimacy in several ways, such as daily kisses, hugs, holding hands, and foot rubs. Intimacy is about giving time to your partner; it is a good sign of a healthy relationship. 

  • Infidelity

 

Extramarital affairs cannot be overlooked as a prominent reason for divorce. Yet, many men and women have successfully mastered the art of maintaining an extramarital affair while already being in a relationship. According to recent data published by the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, 15 percent of married women and 25 percent of married men have had extramarital affairs. 

 

The scenario is no better in Canada. According to a poll conducted by Mainstreet Research for Postmedia News, 22% of Canadians have seriously considered cheating on their partner.

 

That doesn’t mean you roll the dice and venture into the world of infidelity because infidelity destroys your relationship. It erodes communication and physical affection towards the partner. Therefore, sooner or later, the cheating catches up, thus becoming the cause of divorce. 

  • Abuse

 

A recent national survey revealed that 29% of respondents consider abuse one of the primary reasons for divorce.

 

If you are involved in a toxic relationship, including physical and verbal abuse, then it is a valid reason to walk out of the marriage— if things don’t work out from the talk. Some of the most common relationship abuse signs include constant anger display, withholding money, yelling, neglect, and other negative behavior. 

  • Lack Of Compatibility 

 

When you were taking wows at the wedding ceremony, you probably thought you’d find a partner who is ready to spend the rest of your life with you. 

 

During the first few years of marriage, you didn’t pay attention to all the petty issues, the difference of interest, opinions, and overlooked faults. Later on, you don’t want to shrug off even the slightest problem due to the growing impatience and unforgiveness. 

 

Couples need to understand that change is inevitable; therefore, make efforts to help one another. Each one in the relationship has to take the big step to focus on love rather than minor issues. 

 

In the end, before ending your relationship for any of these signs, you must speak to your partner and see if there is any slightest chance of making things fall in place. Even consult a marriage therapist to make every bit of effort to save your marriage and look at things from the 3rd person’s perspective.  

 

Do you think you can add anything to this list, share it with us in the comment section? 



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NEEDED YOU

Something about you:

There was something about you

I remember it all like yesterday.

something about you so carefree

the way you laughed easily

the way you’d smile

of course, you were the real deal.

“all for you,” you told me.

I smiled

I believed you.

but look at me now

searching for a place to hold

searching for a hand that fits mine.

why did you make me believe

if you were going to leave anyway?

********

past tense:

I have been

I was here

I used to be there.

there was a time

a time I used to wait

a time I used to think if it wasn’t her

there would be no one else.

I used to need her once. back then

what I failed to realize was I myself was someone

people needed too!

************

Just Because!

never have I ever.

it was the first game I played while sitting very close to you.

I could smell you

the Cologne. it smelled of everything promising.

I went to bed that night with a smile on my face

and the smell lingering in my nostrils.

I gave you my number

I didn’t hesitate.

me, who always believed there was nothing like love at first sight. i am in Love.

I knew I would need you over and over cause

no matter how many times we’ve fought

we always ended up together, tighter. needing each other More.

and even if you decide to leave now.

I wouldn’t let you

I would go through it all with you.

**********

Never knew

didn’t.

doesn’t

couldn’t.

didn’t know why she needed you.

doesn’t want to acknowledge it

but for a fact she knew,

couldn’t you even tell?

that light in her eyes when she saw you,

couldn’t you see

couldn’t you tell

that it was your voice she needed to hear before

her day ended

couldn’t you tell that it was you she needed?

*********

Used to

it was the middle of the night

there was something about the weather.

something about the way you laid

down next to me.

it used to feel right.

stormy nights

windy nights

cold nights

hot nights

you were always here with me

your body. Soul. Everything.

but tonight

this night.

your hands wouldn’t curl themselves around me.

even in your sleep, you are no longer here with me.

**********

To need

what was it about her

that he couldn’t place

he couldn’t get a hold-off.

that he couldn’t forgo

she had come tumbling down into his arms

one look at those shiny eyes

he was undone.

never had he ever thought that

a woman would strip him bare

when she left his bed mid-summer.

he knew then that to need someone

to love someone would take a lot of waiting. Hoping.

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I am deeply saddened by your loss.

 

This news has shocked me. I’m DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS

 

Hearing this news makes my heart ache. All is in my prayers.

 

I adore you and am always available to help.

What a lovely life he/she led. I’m deeply sorry for your loss.

 

My heart is heavy today, and I know it is for you as well.

I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this. It is never easy to lose someone close to you. Although your grief may seem interminable right now, it will pass. I am here to support you and to lend a shoulder to cry on if necessary. My heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.

 

I wanted to express my heartfelt condolences to you as you mourn the loss of someone special. There are no words to express how deeply I regret their passing. As your friend, I’m sorry to see you in such pain, and I’d fix it all in an instant if I could. I’m thinking of you during this difficult time.

 

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

Mind how much you are loved when you go through this tough time.

I am thinking and praying for you and your family. I’m sorry to hear about your father’s passing.

It breaks my heart to learn of your loss, and I send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

I’m heartbroken for you and your family. Please accept my heartfelt sympathies.

To you and your family, my heartfelt condolences. God bless you and grant you the peace you seek.

May my condolences and prayers bring you comfort during this difficult time.

During this trying time in your life, I send you my best wishes, prayers, and thoughts.

 

I’m thinking about you and your family as you mourn this loss. With all my might.

 

I wish I could be there to console you during this difficult time. I’m holding you in my thoughts.

 

What a tragic tragedy for the country. Many people would miss him/her.

“Words cannot express how heartbroken we are to hear of your loss.”

“May [insert namememory ]’s bring you comfort and peace.”

Keep going if you’re feeling like you’re on an emotional rollercoaster right now. It’s completely understandable. I hope it won’t be long before things settle down and you feel at ease. Then you’ll have a chance to reflect on all of your wonderful adventures together. During this difficult time, I am thinking of you and sending you my heartfelt condolences.

 

Happiness may appear to be a speck in the sky right now, like a leaf that has been carried away. Stay optimistic because the winds of change can bring new opportunities. New adventures will begin, as will new joys. I share your grief as you remember your loved one and send my heartfelt condolences.

“May loving memories bring you peace, comfort, and strength today and always.”

“My heart goes out to you during this difficult time.”

I understand how difficult it is to accept the loss of someone you cared about. They may not be present, but talking about them will keep their memory alive for the rest of time. I am always available to listen to those stories and share both happy and sad memories. I’ll be there for you whenever you’re ready.

 

I’m here for you, and I hope you know how much I care about what you’re going through. You must have a lot of memories that you treasure in your heart and mind. Their life is a priceless story to be told. I would be delighted to assist you in creating a journal or scrapbook in memory of a loved one. I’m only a phone call or text message away.

“Peace and strength to you during this difficult time.”

“May the love that surrounds you lighten the sorrow you feel in your heart.”

“I, too, am missing [insert name]. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.”

“Please accept my heartfelt condolences on your loss.”

I would do anything to alleviate your grief right now. Some argue that our anguish is how we pay tribute to the wonderful life we have lost. Allow your tears to fall, your heart to ache, and your mind to be filled with grief. You are on my mind, and I am always available if you need someone to listen. My heartfelt condolences on your loss.

 

It was heartbreaking to learn of ‘s death. I am deeply saddened by your loss. I hope you’re finding comfort in your family and the love of your friends, because we’re here for you. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if there is anything I can do to help you say goodbye, keep his/her memory alive, distract you from the pain, or otherwise.

“I’m sending you this card to let you know I’m thinking about you. I am deeply sorry for your loss.”

“We are here now and forever for you and your family.”

My heartfelt condolences to you and everyone who loved her/him. This is a devastating loss.

 

What a wonderful person who will be sorely missed.

I can’t imagine how you’re feeling right now, but please know that we’re only a phone call away. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

A prayer, a flower, a candle, and sad tears of pain on your grave, our dear grandfather.

 

I am deeply saddened by your loss. Your uncle will be missed and remembered; may his soul rest in peace.

Grief is a deeply personal experience. Emotions can arise unexpectedly when hearing a favorite song, seeing a favorite picture, or visiting a special place. It can be a frightening experience. I am ready and willing to share in your grief and support you through it if you ever feel like talking about those things.

 

When someone we care about dies, the world can become cloudy and gray. We can become disoriented in the midst of an emotional storm. Blue skies will return in time, and the sun will shine again for you. I hope that rays of joy and happiness will soon illuminate your world. During this difficult time, please accept my heartfelt sympathies and condolences.

 

May God place her in a special place where she can watch over us, the people who loved and cherished her!

Words may be insufficient to express my heartfelt sorrow over your mother’s death. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

As your friend, I wish I could shield you from anything that could make you unhappy. Unfortunately, I cannot shield you from the devastating effects of losing someone close to you. All I can do is offer a friendly smile when you need one, or a listening ear if you want to talk. Please know that I am thinking of you and am deeply saddened by your loss.

 

In the aftermath of a loss, it can be difficult to re-enter the world. I’d love to take those first few steps with you and assist you in moving forward. Baby steps are perfectly acceptable as long as we are moving in the right direction. We can walk together down the path to new beginnings. My heartfelt condolences and sympathies for your loss.

My heartfelt condolences on the passing of . I’m here for you if you want to chat, walk, sit, and look at the world with the strength of a friend beside you. I’ve come to see you right now. Later, I’ll be there for you. Please take your time.

 

 

Though no one or nothing can fill the void left by your loved one’s death, I’m sure [he/she] will want you to remember all the joy, affection, and laughter that still exists in the world. It might seem out of reach right now, but I’ll be here with a smile, a hug, and some cheer when you’re ready. I’m thinking about you and giving you my heartfelt condolences.

Dear Mr. John, We are deeply saddened to learn of your mother’s death. We hope that our condolences bring you comfort during this difficult time.

 

Sofia, we just wanted you to know how sorry we are to hear about your father’s death; he was a wonderful man. May his soul rest in peace.

 

It is never easy to lose someone close to us :(… Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. Please accept my condolences.

 

I pray for the eternal rest of a woman of distinguished humanity with a heavy heart.

May God forgive her and accept her soul into the Garden of Eden, near the throne she seeks and loves!

After losing someone close to you, it’s difficult to imagine moving on with your life. I understand that you may want to curl up and shut out the world. But I’ll be there to help you whenever you need it. I can’t bring them back, but I can offer you a shoulder to cry on.

 

Love affects us in ways that nothing else can. I’m sure the loss of [your friend/family member] has left a huge void that will never be filled. True friendship/love, on the other hand, never fades. When you remember, it will glow and suddenly illuminate random moments with the happiest of memories. During this difficult time, I am thinking of you.

My heartfelt condolences to the bereaved family. My eyes well up with tears as I remember a dear friend, a wonderful young lady. God grant her soul eternal rest!

 

Despite the fact that your father is no longer physically present. We know that God has entrusted him with your care for the rest of your life.

 

Please accept my condolences; please know that I am here for you and that you should not hesitate to contact me, especially at this difficult time.

 

 

May the love and care of those around you bring you comfort and peace as you face the days ahead. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

 

 

I pray that our Lord gives you and your family the peace that you and your family so desperately need at this difficult time. Please accept my heartfelt condolences for you and your family.

 

 

I consider myself fortunate to have known your uncle. I will miss him because he was truly a blessing in my life. Please accept my condolences.

Please know that your friends care for you and are always willing to help.

 

Please accept my heartfelt apologies for any inconvenience this has caused you. You have my deepest sympathies.

 

To you and your fans, my heartfelt condolences.

I am available to provide any assistance you may require as you deal with this difficult time. I understand that the pain is still raw, and you may not be ready to talk just yet, but when you are, my door is open. I’m sorry for your loss, and please accept my heartfelt sympathies.

 

Seeing the good in bad times is never easy. I hope you have felt it in the kindness of those who are around you at this time. Perhaps knowing you are loved will provide you with the comfort you need to wrap yourself in hope and a new perspective. My thoughts are with you, and I am deeply saddened by your loss.

You and your family will be blessed by God.

I send my heartfelt condolences for your [dear friend/loved onerecent ]’s passing. Unfortunately, the curtain closes on all of us, but it is never a pleasant time for those who are left behind. As peace settles over you in the coming days and weeks, may the warmth of your [companionship/love] radiate in your bones.

 

I only wanted to write to raise your spirits a little and let you know that I am still thinking about you during this difficult period. I hope you don’t mind if I pay you a visit now and then. I’d like to make your day a little brighter because I care about you and how you’re doing. Until then, please accept my heartfelt condolences and sympathies.

In this difficult moment, my thoughts and prayers go out to you.

 

I am heartbroken for you. I’ll miss her or him as well.

It is never easy to lose someone close to us. It is something that we must all go through at some point in our lives. I wish I could take away your pain and assist you in healing. I hope this message at least lets you know that I am always thinking of you. In this difficult time, please accept my heartfelt condolences.

 

I hope you know that I am here for you as you try to cope with the loss of a loved one. I’m sure you think about them all the time. Remember the good times, the laughs, and the amusing things that happened to them. Keep in mind why they were special to you. My heartfelt condolences to you, my friend.

As you grieve, I wish you peace and solace.

 

Please accept our heartfelt condolences.

We would like to express our heartfelt condolences to you during this difficult time. May our Lord console you and your family.

I understand that what you are going through right now is extremely difficult; however, please know that I am here for you. I am deeply saddened by your loss.

I’d like to express our heartfelt condolences to you and your family, and may your grandfather’s soul rest in peace.

We extend our condolences to you and your family on the loss of your aunt. May our friendship and prayers bring you comfort during this difficult time.

I lost because I loved too much. You are no longer where you once were, but you will always be in my heart. Our dear mother, may God grant you peace.

“When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.”
Kahlil Gibran

“Those we love never truly leave us. There are things that death cannot touch.”
Jack Thorne

“Don’t be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends.”
Richard Bach

“God gave us memory so that we might have roses in December.”
James M. Barrie

“As long as I can I will look at this world for both of us. As long as I can I will laugh with the birds, I will sing with the flowers, I will pray to the stars, for both of us.”
Sascha

“Now he has departed from this strange world a little ahead of me. That signifies nothing. For us believing physicists the distinction between past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion.”
Albert Einstein

 

CONDOLENCE MESSAGE FOR LOSS OF SPOUSE:

I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Today and forever, I will remember your wonderful love story.

 

A lifetime together is never enough. I’m thinking of both of you with a lot of love.

Along the way, our hearts can be bruised and wounded. In difficult times, friends are a blessing. They can assist you in navigating the rocky terrain. They bring comfort and kindness. Please do not hesitate to contact us if your heart requires some good medicine.

 

I tried to find the right words to express my condolences for your loss. Words just don’t seem to suffice. I’m always available if you need me, no matter what time of day it is. I’ll be thinking of you all the time and sending you my heartfelt condolences as you go through this difficult time.

Your loving marriage was an inspiration to me.

 

I know your love will endure even if you are separated.

 

I’ll never forget the love in your eyes when you looked at each other.

 

Your true love story is inspiring to everyone who knows you. I’m thinking about you.

CONDOLENCE MESSAGE FOR LOSS OF PARENT

I have so many fond childhood memories of your mother and father. I’m sure you’re going to miss her/him terribly.

 

Your mother/father was an amazing person. He or she will never be replaced.

 

I’ve never met your mother or father, but knowing you, I can imagine how wonderful they were. Because of our caring upbringing, we represent the best aspects of our parents. When grieving, find solace in your memories.

 

Despite the fact that I am unfamiliar with you, your mother/father was one of my closest friends, and she always mentioned you. I’m sure s/he adored you and helped you cope with your grief. I am thinking about you and sending you my best wishes.

 

I am deeply saddened by your loss.

 

There are no words to describe such a heinous loss. You’re on my mind, in my prayers, and in my heart.

 

My heart breaks for you and your loved ones. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

Knowing your lovely child has brought me so much joy in my life. S/he has been and continues to be a source of light in the universe.

 

Just note that I am here for you and that I am always thinking about you.

 

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https://www.shutterfly.com/ideas/sympathy-quotes-and-sayings/

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https://futureofworking.com/41-best-sample-of-condolence-messages-to-a-friend/

 

 

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